Originally posted by: iheartChai
I think its good I am stacking episodes. I don't think I could hang around waiting for the next episode having this dread of doom and gloom hanging in the air 😆
Its passing the parcel time I see 😆
I know this show just loves its parallels but do the leads ever learn??? Now that Abhi is doing this shaddi for Roohi its to match what Akshu did for Abhir.
Do I have some strange hope that when the truth is revealed Abhi will be angry but also understand why Akshu did what she did for Abhir's sake to give him a father? He is basically doing the same thing for Roohi.
Both are sort of wrong. I understand more from Akshu’s side. With Roohi to me, it is adults caving to a want of a child. She knew what the relationship was before and was fine. And now she feel something is wrong? This would have been an excellent teaching moment for eveyone. I am sorry this where adults have to manage things. Children don't understand the world and if you cover what the world is really like then you do a complete disservice to them. They won't be prepared to handle things when there is a bump in the road. I am not saying to teach them that the world is a scary place but to better prepare them to the reality of life.
Maybe because I grew up in a single parent family. I have a completely different perspective. Of course my mom had help like my grandmother, my aunt, and my uncle (all from my father's side / mom's side where all back in Taiwan and not in the States). I guess I was always practical about my family and just told people up front my dad died. End of discussion.
My mom re-married much later when I was in high school so by then I was practically a young adult. I still refer to my step father as step father. We never had a close relationship.
I also think HC's post is just damage control because he knows people are going to flip on Abhi and wonder is Abhira still there? He tagged certain people only because they were on a couple of pictures but if you noticed all background or had their faces to the side or their backs. Its obviously all about Abhira. Today he posted a To Akshu from Abhi post for Valentines Day. If Abhira were not end game or gone no need to post anything.
Channel is counting on people flipping out and hopefully tunning in to see what happens next. Will Abhira be able to survive? All I see is our leads being miserable inside. I don't think we need to be so hyper critical if the actor smiled in one scene or did this or that. Thats all superficial.
This show doesn't work with split couples. And you have one actor who is not up to the mark. There is something there when Abhi and Akshu are together in one frame. You cannot deny their chemistry.
I blame the writing team for speeding through the storylines in the show and for not properly developing any other side character and giving them meaningful stories. They had weeks worth of content with the whole Harshvardhan and Manjari divorce and they wasted that storyline. Its their own fault for where they are now. So we the audience have to bare all this nonsense while they drag everything 🤪
well written post Grace 🤗 I feel they wasted Neil's adoption plot, MM and HB divorce, and could have brought in a better track for kairav much before, I liked the muskaan, kairav interaction, shown yesterday, Aroos character is the one I don't connect with, and now even the way Abhimanyu is behaving,
I have majored in human dev and mg and family This is not how we were trained to help solve a child's parent problem. Children are very smart and understand different family dynamics. as long as they get love,security, sense of belonging, from a young age,and if these type of situations are handled properly by the adults in their life, I don't think it makes a difference to them if their parents are traditionally married or not what happens to Neil,if Ab becomes her dad ,poor Neil will no longer exist for them, I am not against Abhimanyu marrying anyone, but not becoz he's fulfilling the ZID of a child
I agree with you, this issue should be handled by adults,in the future she will demand a sibling, so they will give in to her demands, once she gets to know Abhir is poppy's son she might forbid them from meeting, so what happens then
I find the idea behind this mg dec very weak, if Abhira are meant to be, and that's a big IF for me, how are they going to explain to a 6 year old, why her new papa is going to divorce her mom and marry her aunt. So she and her mom move into poppy's room, and after a few months are kicked out of the room because maasi is marrying her dad so back to mom's room.such a ridiculous situation And then it will be poppy turned papa turned Mausaji if he marries Ak again, and what happens to aroooo.
I know they are doing this for trps and trp viewers love such complicated situations where there is jealousy, leads are crying, and sisters sharing the same man is flavour of the season I also know it's a show, so everyone will say,accept it or don't watch, I am grieving for what could have been. 🤗
Edited by Hopefaith - 2 years ago
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