Naira's Life

I haven't been following Yeh rishta fully but I follow it off and on. But based on what I seen, I notice everyone on this forum is blaming Naira in many ways, which is understandable . But if I can just give everyone a perspective, I would like to.

If you look at Naira's life as a whole it's been a mess all along. First she moves to Cape town as a baby, as she grew up she knew she had a family back home. Than eventually goes back home to be witnessing clash in the family, then adjusting into a new environment/school system was troublesome . Akshara losing her eyesight, As that wraps up I believe Naksh's (with tara) wedding track starts. By the end of it she runs away to Rishikesh, and ends up having to live the life she did in ways in fear and poverty. Than one fine day her mom finds her and she is terrified of being put behind bars, yet goes back. Than again clash in the family Naitik vs Akshara as far as why Naira ran away, than slowly things patching up and jealously with Gayu. Than Naitik's Kidnapping, than clashes between gayu and naira regarding kartik, than finally that sorting out than clashes with Goenkas initially. Finally everyone agreeing to marriage, and Akshara's untimely death.

As that settles down, having the person who is responsible for it turning out to be a family member, than being undermineded by the goenka's regarding Aditya. Than after that settling, letting Naksh and Kirti married, than clashes with Kartik during that time. Than the Goenka's regarding the same, Than Subham coming into her life, than whole deal with him and his life. Than the mumbai track with her having prosthetic leg. Than pregnancy, miscarriage, pregnancy, mihir and so forth.

Point being is her life has never been normal, there is not a single person who has stood by her from day one till this day. She herself has had such a traumatic childhood, assuming her age is about late 20s, or now 30. She constantly had to grow up before her age and take care of things people don't face in a life time. Therefore to me it's almost not fair to even be her. Poor girl never had a life of her own, circumstances always defined her life. Other than her wedding (which even than having to miss Akshara) was never a happy time her life. So to say she is wrong in many ways it's true but what makes up those wrong decisions is often overlooked.

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I so agree with you, she has seen more problems then anyone else, I guess her childhood days were much better she knew she had family but then there was no drama, she enjoyed her childhood untill in Capetown.

Nobody actually understood her, Kartik himself had a bad childhood, where he hasted his father for his mothers death yet better, on the other hand Naira emotionally very weak and thats one of the reasons when she 1st ran away she could not talk to her parents or family coz of being terrified,

It was Kartik with whom she was emotionally attached as well so when Kartik questioned this was the only thing she understood, as she said to Nakash she thought only as a mother and not as a anyother person,

the difference is when she 1st ran away she thought about herself as and this time for her child.

Sorry i don't agree..it's not the circumstances which shaped up her life ,it was her own wrong decisions and mistrust on people which led to this. Also her childhood was traumatic because she chose it..She had everyone that one could dream of..only if she cared to communicate with her people and trust them , she wouldnt have to face all this. She IS wrong in running away then and now . She thinks running away will solve all the problems? No she gets into deeper shit and then play victim . Everyone person has some or the other problem in their life , sometimes too much to handle , they don't keep running away or think of suicide but her problems are mostly self created. It's all in her messed up brain. When you can't fight you blame others.. She should stop acting like a victim and grow up.

Children may go through a lot worse , like abuse and sexual abuse , poverty , incest , the list is endless...naira is one of those Who was born with a golden spoon but keeps throwing away everything good when things dont go her way . I dont support kartik or akshara, kartik was wrong in doubting her but can't she face him? Couldnt she leave him , take divorce and settle down with her child as a single mother ? She is so weak ? And she gives lectures and try to set everybodys life , take a stand for them but when it comes to her , zero intelligence.

I missed the prosthetic leg episodes..but do the cVs still remember she has one,,,because she was teaching yoga and both her legs looked very flexible amd she was beating up the goons in Goa and also dancing very well...🤔

Originally posted by: _charu_

Sorry i don't agree..it's not the circumstances which shaped up her life ,it was her own wrong decisions and mistrust on people which led to this. Also her childhood was traumatic because she chose it..She had everyone that one could dream of..only if she cared to communicate with her people and trust them , she wouldnt have to face all this. She IS wrong in running away then and now . She thinks running away will solve all the problems? No she gets into deeper shit and then play victim . Everyone person has some or the other problem in their life , sometimes too much to handle , they don't keep running away or think of suicide but her problems are mostly self created. It's all in her messed up brain. When you can't fight you blame others.. She should stop acting like a victim and grow up.

Children may go through a lot worse , like abuse and sexual abuse , poverty , incest , the list is endless...naira is one of those Who was born with a golden spoon but keeps throwing away everything good when things dont go her way . I dont support kartik or akshara, kartik was wrong in doubting her but can't she face him? Couldnt she leave him , take divorce and settle down with her child as a single mother ? She is so weak ? And she gives lectures and try to set everybodys life , take a stand for them but when it comes to her , zero intelligence.

Agree 100%. (for some reason not able to like any comment) Till she grows and matures she will always find herself living a troublesome life.

Originally posted by: _charu_

Sorry i don't agree..it's not the circumstances which shaped up her life ,it was her own wrong decisions and mistrust on people which led to this. Also her childhood was traumatic because she chose it..She had everyone that one could dream of..only if she cared to communicate with her people and trust them , she wouldnt have to face all this. She IS wrong in running away then and now . She thinks running away will solve all the problems? No she gets into deeper shit and then play victim . Everyone person has some or the other problem in their life , sometimes too much to handle , they don't keep running away or think of suicide but her problems are mostly self created. It's all in her messed up brain. When you can't fight you blame others.. She should stop acting like a victim and grow up.

Children may go through a lot worse , like abuse and sexual abuse , poverty , incest , the list is endless...naira is one of those Who was born with a golden spoon but keeps throwing away everything good when things dont go her way . I dont support kartik or akshara, kartik was wrong in doubting her but can't she face him? Couldnt she leave him , take divorce and settle down with her child as a single mother ? She is so weak ? And she gives lectures and try to set everybodys life , take a stand for them but when it comes to her , zero intelligence.

Originally posted by: _charu_

Sorry i don't agree..it's not the circumstances which shaped up her life ,it was her own wrong decisions and mistrust on people which led to this. Also her childhood was traumatic because she chose it..She had everyone that one could dream of..only if she cared to communicate with her people and trust them , she wouldnt have to face all this. She IS wrong in running away then and now . She thinks running away will solve all the problems? No she gets into deeper shit and then play victim . Everyone person has some or the other problem in their life , sometimes too much to handle , they don't keep running away or think of suicide but her problems are mostly self created. It's all in her messed up brain. When you can't fight you blame others.. She should stop acting like a victim and grow up.

Children may go through a lot worse , like abuse and sexual abuse , poverty , incest , the list is endless...naira is one of those Who was born with a golden spoon but keeps throwing away everything good when things dont go her way . I dont support kartik or akshara, kartik was wrong in doubting her but can't she face him? Couldnt she leave him , take divorce and settle down with her child as a single mother ? She is so weak ? And she gives lectures and try to set everybodys life , take a stand for them but when it comes to her , zero intelligence.

I kind of agree and disagree at the same time...if we look back at all the yrkkh from the day naira has entered the show its has been bad for her. Look at it this way that whenever kartik and naira fought ...all were with kartik ...when shubham track happened ...it was naira who was away from family and was numb but kartik was pampered by his mother...and whenever wether it was aksharas death or shubhams the most affected was naira...because everyone either pampered kartik or was surrounding him with love. Also when you grow up like this its very hard to open up and tell everyone everything....in this track too..she was shit scared...the fear overpowered her mind...similarly kartik kept being guilty but the moment she back ...he is all accusations....pyar kha gya ? Who will pamper naira ? In the blood clot also he kept taunting rubbing it on her face that he is getting married... keesh ...is another story..i still remember naksh being jealous ...naksh dancing with kartik..naksh saying that how we should mind our own business and making nani quiet when she was scolding swrna...

So if we take a whole good look.....kartik has suffered yes...but naira was never shown strong support... not during keesh marriage or aditya track or that frnd wala track...or blood clot.... people alwayscomment on how kaira fights effect people but most important it effects kaira... also when you have a childhood like this its very difficult to grow up and be mature and have sensible desicion making... naira is a person who thinks for everyone... ki uski bat rkh leti hu ..chupa leti hu bat... which is what she did when she first ran away...its all deep fear..

And jha tak talking abt golden spoon...the richness and not going through sexual abuse or child abuse is not mendetary for good mental health. Comparing these things with a childhood where you had a family but still didnt get the support you deserve makes you like that...it has nothing to do with other children having it worse....

But this is a show...and she was stupid for running..but when i see the family reactions....i am torn between either to sympathise or get angry.

No she does not have prosthetic leg. She had leg injury that was fixed after surgery.

Originally posted by: Indira1211

I missed the prosthetic leg episodes..but do the cVs still remember she has one,,,because she was teaching yoga and both her legs looked very flexible amd she was beating up the goons in Goa and also dancing very well...🤔

I agree with you. Naira has such a loving dad, had mature and responsible mom, doting husband, affluent family on both sides, strong ties in joint family settings. Yet she could not find a single person to confide in. Instead she kept running away from everyone, making wrong decisions, not able to handle conflicts. She seems to have some sort of psychological and personality disorder.

Originally posted by: _charu_

Sorry i don't agree..it's not the circumstances which shaped up her life ,it was her own wrong decisions and mistrust on people which led to this. Also her childhood was traumatic because she chose it..She had everyone that one could dream of..only if she cared to communicate with her people and trust them , she wouldnt have to face all this. She IS wrong in running away then and now . She thinks running away will solve all the problems? No she gets into deeper shit and then play victim . Everyone person has some or the other problem in their life , sometimes too much to handle , they don't keep running away or think of suicide but her problems are mostly self created. It's all in her messed up brain. When you can't fight you blame others.. She should stop acting like a victim and grow up.

Children may go through a lot worse , like abuse and sexual abuse , poverty , incest , the list is endless...naira is one of those Who was born with a golden spoon but keeps throwing away everything good when things dont go her way . I dont support kartik or akshara, kartik was wrong in doubting her but can't she face him? Couldnt she leave him , take divorce and settle down with her child as a single mother ? She is so weak ? And she gives lectures and try to set everybodys life , take a stand for them but when it comes to her , zero intelligence.

Originally posted by: aasmanviewer

No she does not have prosthetic leg. She had leg injury that was fixed after surgery.