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ive been reading a lot of comments around why Karthik is upset with Naira. Karthik blames Naira for Shubham death but not really. I see often- if Naira can forgive abt her mother's death, why can't he or how can Karthik even blame Naira for Shubham death. These reasons are not the root cause of Karthik and Naira rift.
If you analyze pre- Shubham, Karthik main problem is that he wants Naira to share EVERYTHING with him. that's a super controlling nature based on his insecurities (rough childhood).
The disconnect is that Naira is independent and wants Karthik to be ok and trusting when she has secrets. She wants Karthik to trust that she always has everyone's best interest at heart. Naira is a born busy body so she has stuff that she doesn't always let other ppl get concerned with.
They don't have to completely change themselves before getting back together but they need to learn how to appreciate and manage each other.
What sucks that instead of going to councillors and equipping their relationship with communication tools, they are on paths of self destruction and no learning will happen. Cycle to bound to repeat itself.
Naira still takes one sided decisions thinking why burden Karthik with issues- I will do the right thing bc I have good intentions and Karthik will again misunderstand and erupt and revenge mode.
That's why maturity is needed before you get married. This is a toxic relationship. Like a lot of you, I find myself not rooting for them until there are some progressive steps.
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