How l u react if Natik reacts immature yet again vn Dev gets her kids?

I have mentioned about it time and again about Natik's irritating immaturity specially when I compare it with wise compassionate and understanding Akshra...

Naitik has matured a lot , so hopefully nothing like will happen 😕

I can understand your views. But Jealousy feelings are only there where there is Love. So Hopefully, Naitik will help Devyani .:)

Naitik character isnt perfect like Akshara his character does have flaws but if u compare Naitik who was before in start of the show, Naitik has come far way, the way Naitik reacted on knowing abt Naman muskaan was a mature way wat he said was right , Naitik and Akshara know their families how they are why Naitik even Devyani had same doubt how family would react she too had feeling if family would accept the kids it happens its not easy to accept , i guess cv's are putting light on the fact that even today in our society the women who are divorced or lost husband and are with kids be it of any age , the family is hesitant to accept women with child but they always expect women to accept the husband with or without childern . And I don't want Naitik to be Perfect as the flaws in his character makes things look realistic , aww yea i agree Naitik needs to be formal with devyani the faces he makes he shud stop that and ofcourse the apology i am sure they would show as Naitik when Akshara cleared the MU he did feel bad so he ask for apology as i guess cv's mark a start of Naitik and Devyani relation .

First of all good topic of discussion.

I agree with some parts of your post but then there are lot of things where I disagree. But I respect your views.

Coming to the topic, first of all we need to understand that Rajbanna's second marriage is not like any remarriage where a dad gets married to get his children a mother. Here the marriage happened to get him a companion so the situation is little different. Naitik or Rashmi don't need to give devyani the same position as Gayatri had in their life but yes, she should be respected and accepted as human being and wife of their father.

Also it is more difficult for an adult to accept someone who has taken their mothers place. Time is required to settle this relation and be accepted by all.

As was understood by Singhania's and all that Devyani's kids are no more part of her life. It was never in their mind that they will be back. But if they are back then it is not Naitik's job to bring them closer neither it is Akshara's. As far as I know Naitik, he will be cordial with them and that is the only thing expected from him as far as I'm concerned.

Infact Naitik's reaction is the most natural and obvious reaction. He is concerned about his family and their reactions cause he is related to them and not to devyani's kids. Devyani has just entered that house so the bonding will take time from both side. Just the way Devyani's reaction were first for her kids and then she thought about singhania's.

According to me it is inappropriate to compare Naitik and Akshara cause they both are different individuals brought up in different surroundings. Akshara has always been more compassionate and sensitive towards everything so her reactions are different from Naitik's. Also she was pregnant when Devyani came in their life so as a woman and a mother she could relate to Devyani's agonies, her feelings. And after abortion she is relating her loss with Devyani's loss of children. So Akshara's reaction are understandable. But why same kind of reactions are expected from Naitik.
Naitik has always been more practical of the two but that does not mean he is insensitive. Naitik as character like Akshara has come a long way. The grwoth is immense. The immature and inflamable Naitik has become more matured and a calmer person. No two people are same so their reactions differ.

I agree with you that he needs to apologise to Devyani for his outburst against her in hospital and I know he will. I also know that Naitik will stand by devyani when she needs him. Yes, this relationship will take time to grow on him but I know for sure he will come around.

And just want everyone to know that I'm huge die-hard Akshara and NaKsh fan.

Thanks for reading the post and everyone is free to disagree with my views.

Naitik is so much matured now

Originally posted by: Naksh_Duggu

First of all good topic of discussion.

I agree with some parts of your post but then there are lot of things where I disagree. But I respect your views.

Coming to the topic, first of all we need to understand that Rajbanna's second marriage is not like any remarriage where a dad gets married to get his children a mother. Here the marriage happened to get him a companion so the situation is little different. Naitik or Rashmi don't need to give devyani the same position as Gayatri had in their life but yes, she should be respected and accepted as human being and wife of their father.

Also it is more difficult for an adult to accept someone who has taken their mothers place. Time is required to settle this relation and be accepted by all.

As was understood by Singhania's and all that Devyani's kids are no more part of her life. It was never in their mind that they will be back. But if they are back then it is not Naitik's job to bring them closer neither it is Akshara's. As far as I know Naitik, he will be cordial with them and that is the only thing expected from him as far as I'm concerned.

Infact Naitik's reaction is the most natural and obvious reaction. He is concerned about his family and their reactions cause he is related to them and not to devyani's kids. Devyani has just entered that house so the bonding will take time from both side. Just the way Devyani's reaction were first for her kids and then she thought about singhania's.

According to me it is inappropriate to compare Naitik and Akshara cause they both are different individuals brought up in different surroundings. Akshara has always been more compassionate and sensitive towards everything so her reactions are different from Naitik's. Also she was pregnant when Devyani came in their life so as a woman and a mother she could relate to Devyani's agonies, her feelings. And after abortion she is relating her loss with Devyani's loss of children. So Akshara's reaction are understandable. But why same kind of reactions are expected from Naitik.
Naitik has always been more practical of the two but that does not mean he is insensitive. Naitik as character like Akshara has come a long way. The grwoth is immense. The immature and inflamable Naitik has become more matured and a calmer person. No two people are same so their reactions differ.

I agree with you that he needs to apologise to Devyani for his outburst against her in hospital and I know he will. I also know that Naitik will stand by devyani when she needs him. Yes, this relationship will take time to grow on him but I know for sure he will come around.

And just want everyone to know that I'm huge die-hard Akshara and NaKsh fan.

Thanks for reading the post and everyone is free to disagree with my views.

Well said, and you'have said it all. There's no logic in comparing Naitik with Akshara and the reasons given by you are So Real. :) Also, I agree that Naitik & Rashmi dont need to give Devyani the place which solely belongs to their Mother, Gayatri. But they should respect Devyani as a person ,companion to their father, thats it. With time, they will mend with her. Your reasons of how Akshra relates her with Devyani are real .
Good Post.:)

I can completely understand why naitik said what he said in the precap that "Don't expect anything from him". It is the exact and natural reaction and I guess a very relatable one.

Why Naitik should get involve in something about which he has zero knowledge. This issue is something between Devyani, her kids, her ex husband and now her husband Rajbanna. Nobody knows what exactly happened during that time concerning the children custody and divorce. Whatever little they know is from devyani's pov and so it would be illogical to get involve without having any information about it.
In my humble opinion Akshara should also not get involve and just provide moral support to devyani as she is also unaware about the facts.

Devyani is not Naitik's responsibility, she is Rajbanna's responsibility. Devyani should speak with him and consult to him and they should jointly take the decision.
But as this is a fiction and there are no negative characters so drama gets generated through situations like this which is understandable.

I don't find any fault if Naitik or Akshara don't get involved in Devyani and her children matter.

Originally posted by: Naksh_Duggu

I can completely understand why naitik said what he said in the precap that "Don't expect anything from him". It is the exact and natural reaction and I guess a very relatable one.

Why Naitik should get involve in something about which he has zero knowledge. This issue is something between Devyani, her kids, her ex husband and now her husband Rajbanna. Nobody knows what exactly happened during that time concerning the children custody and divorce. Whatever little they know is from devyani's pov and so it would be illogical to get involve without having any information about it.
In my humble opinion Akshara should also not get involve and just provide moral support to devyani as she is also unaware about the facts.

Devyani is not Naitik's responsibility, she is Rajbanna's responsibility. Devyani should speak with him and consult to him and they should jointly take the decision.
But as this is a fiction and there are no negative characters so drama gets generated through situations like this which is understandable.

I don't find any fault if Naitik or Akshara don't get involved in Devyani and her children matter.

Bang On i so agree infact i would love to see Rajbana to come into picture than that of Naitik Akshara instead of they coming into picture of devyani and others i would them to be shown more as Parents i mean we hardly see them as Parent its always about others .

@pree4ru - I agree with you.
I'm Akshara fan but I don't want her to be a know all female lead. There are some situations in life where you have to take back seat and somebody else would lead.

Akshara or for that matter no-one except Devyani and her father are aware why divorce happened and why the custody was not given to mother. They say little knowledge is harmful. Akshara is taking decisions on emotion basis. While Naitik is practical.

I think Devyani should have spoken to Rajshekhar immediately instead of floundering around. He is the only reason why she is in Singhania house. It is his right to know about her past if it is bothering their future. I still don't know why CV's drag Naksh in such tracks. It is completely Devyani and Rajshekhar's decision. If they are going to bring Devyani's children home then whole family's decision is important specially Naitik and Rashmi cause it will affect them most otherwise it's none of their concern.

I guess members here might think I'm very harsh and rude with regards to Devyani's matter but then I think this would be the reactions in reality instead of the melodrama involved. If you keep yourself in Naitik's shoes then this would be the natural and obvious reactions.

I have full sympathy and empathy towards Devyani but that's it. I won't get involved and act as her shining armour. Everyone is adult enough to take their decision and act upon it.

CV's better focus on a new Naksh track. Completely revolving around them instead of this meddling in someone else matter. Naksh should start thinking about their life and their child ASAP.