Rashmi's Own Fault - Page 3

Originally posted by: pree4ru

I do agree ki Rashmi's own fault pehle toh she wanted a person who likes to go out and now wahi reason se she is not happy??? and moreover i feel ki once gagay3 knew he had a relationship with someone else then she shud thinked once again and taken decision and i feel if rashmi married Suraj she wud hv tranformed him i mean she wud hv enjoyed life or wt ever she expects from Nikhil now i guess suraj wud hv done and mo9re over u cn change person like nikhil bt ppl like suraj who are boring can be changed c'mon you cant get a life partner with all qualites one wants we need adjust.. and change :)))
and ishe zyda mujhe nahi pata i guess others wud give more nice replies :)

Originally posted by: pree4ru

I do agree ki Rashmi's own fault pehle toh she wanted a person who likes to go out and now wahi reason se she is not happy??? and moreover i feel ki once gagay3 knew he had a relationship with someone else then she shud thinked once again and taken decision and i feel if rashmi married Suraj she wud hv tranformed him i mean she wud hv enjoyed life or wt ever she expects from Nikhil now i guess suraj wud hv done and mo9re over u cn change person like nikhil bt ppl like suraj who are boring can be changed c'mon you cant get a life partner with all qualites one wants we need adjust.. and change :)))
and ishe zyda mujhe nahi pata i guess others wud give more nice replies :)

Originally posted by: Nu_Adu

Very true. Every time I think about the reasons Rashmi chose Nikhil to be her husband, my mood becomes sour. Just because I know there are other, real girls out there who are just as dumb and naive as Rashmi who do the exact same mistake of falling in love with a guy for no other reason except he looks 'cool' and does all the 'fun' things. It's actually quite sad, and Rashmi needs to learn and repent.

Why Akshara doesn't share things like this with Naitik I don't know. Both Nandini and Rashmi have only made their bhabi suffer. They have never done ONE thing to help her. Is that true in real life too, I wonder. As nanads, I don't like either Nandini or Rashmi. They're both simply trouble makers in the life of Akshara-Naitik. 😕

Originally posted by: naraine

It's so true and this is perhaps what they want to show. A lot of the new generation in India is not choosing a groom based on if they are husband material, but if they are ideal looking and what their pocket book has and if they know how to party. This is translating into problems later on, including a higher divorce rate in relationships where they choose each other to begin with. I also hope they show that Sooraj's wife happens to be an acquaintance of the family at some future event and that that girl is all happy.

Rashmi always has been a dumbo from Day 1. I actually hope that if Gayatri continues to taunt Akshari and make rude comments at Rajshri, Varsha, and Dadi about handling the baby, that Rajshri finally has the guts to taunt her back about Rashmi. Too bad, Akshara's Nani wasn't around--this is one of the times, she would have been good to give the Singhania's a taste of their own medicine.

Originally posted by: sona_naksh

i completely agree dat its all rashmi's fault but i think more dan rashmi its g3's fault as at dat time she was so desperate 2 get rashmi married dat she dint even paid attention 2 rj's warning n insulted her...but now also g3 vl nt realise it or apologise 2 rj...instead of insulting rj g3 shud ve tried 2 find out more abt nikhil dan dis wuntve happened...n yes rashmi in her immaturity has made a blunder by rejecting suraj 4 sum lame reasons n she is paying 4 it now...

n i must say dere is 1 similarity n 1 dissimilarity b/w akshara n nandini or rashmi as nanads...

similarity: all share everything wid dere bhabhi

dissimilarity: akshara never lands varsha into trouble n rashmi or nandini alwaz land akshara in trouble

Originally posted by: Nu_Adu

Good points! They share everything with Akshara as if they want to land her in trouble every time. Take your problems to your hard-to-deal-with-mothers for a change!

Varsha is actually better than Akshara as bhabi. Or even as daughter in law. Or daughter even. 😕

Originally posted by: _charu_

we may call it as "backward thinking" but i believe that while choosing a groom/bride , when our parents look for "equality" , they r abs right ! equality in sanskar, family background, status, thinking etc. etc. they do matter a lot bec. they save the girl/boy from too many adjustments in future...

Rashmi is too immature & i'm glad this is happening to her bec. it's an eye opener for her and Gayitri both ! what did they see in Nikhil BTW? just money and good looks? the best part was when Deora refused to talk to Nikhil n clearly stated that they will not force their decision on him 😆 i agree with the TM that the reason for which Rashmi married Nikhil has now become the reason for divorce ! what i'm confused about is Akshara & Naitik's stand...all of them should talk to Rashmi instead of fighting abt what's right and what's wrong ! Naitik is acting impulsive & divorce or no divorce cannot be decided in a spur of moment ! did he talk to Rashmi n find out what problem she has with nikhil or vice versa? n Akshara is also wrong somewhere bec. therez a vast diff. in leaving the house n not talking to each other n throwing the divorce papers on your spouse's face ! it can be immaturity on the part of both Rashmi and Nikhil but on what basis does she think that that all will be fine if Rashmi gives Nikhil a second chance? the best option is to tell Gayitri whatever Rashmi told Akshara..both BM and Gayitri cannot control their children and need bahu for it 🤢