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preksha

@pree4ru

Stunner

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Posted: 14 years ago

#11

i dont think it ws his ego through out the time he wasnt happy or relaxed he ws just spending time outside to make himself stay away from home and i dont understand y is akshi behaving so silly when from long tym in evry argument naitik mentions abt spending tym isnt tat word enough fr her to understand why is he upset? and ya phone call i agree might der is some emergency ya kuch bhi ho saktha tha 😕

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--Sari--

@--Sari--

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 14 years ago

#12

Ego - What is ego? Here is a classic dictionary definition

An exaggerated sense of self-importance; conceit.
Appropriate pride in oneself; self-esteem; a feeling of self-respect and personal worth.

Sounds terrible when you read the first one, doesn't it? But wait a minute, carefully read the second one. Let's be honest, does anybody here wants to marry a person w/no ego after reading this one?

Yeh pyaar ke beech ego aade kyun aajatha hai is the question we all have asked but I want to ask the same question with a twist, what's a person w/o an ego? Won't we all go ewww..😆 There is a fine line between ego & arrogance & it's the latter that is not pleasing. Any person (male/female) needs to have some ego; it's the varying degree that shapes their personality for better or worse😃

Naitik ne jo kiya shayad sahi nahi tha considering she is pregnant & her past history of MC but Akshara has pushed him over the edge & his ego has been hurt It should have never come to the point coz she knows how needy he is & we had Sneha to prove it😆 As a wife, it's her job to nurture & channel his ego in a more positive light. He has changed over the past couple of years, but has she budged to meet him half way?

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Nandalala

@Nandalala

Rocker

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Posted: 14 years ago

#13

Why is it that the minute Naitik stands up to Akshara, we bring his ego into the picture? Why does his ego become 'egotistical'? Has he been sitting around brooding these last few weeks doing nothing, feeling sorry for himself, obsessing about himself? NO! The person who has been in that state is, in fact, Akshara! And yes, its Akshara's 'ego', her 'me & ma' attitude that has been the cause of friction and she doesn't even see it, let alone acknowledge it...

A relationship is a give & take ON BOTH sides...Naitik has done everything to enjoy Akshara's pregnancy WITH her...he went to the doctor with her, bought her baby pics, indulged her need for MSG free Chinese, looked up pregnancy facts on the computer, apologized to her for his mother's behavior, there is no end to his stepping up as a husband & a father-to-be. In return, he gets a 'aap kuch nahi samajhte hain, Naitik', 'ma koh meri zaroorat hai' or an utterly irritating 'kya hua'? When he finally decides to get out & have some fun with his friends (after being brushed off by his wife, YET again), Akshara finally decides to call him: Her 'AHA' moment in two-three weeks... is this fair to Naitik? To be thought of only when he's absent? Even if he had picked up the phone, the berating would have started: 'aap kahan gaaye?', 'mujhe kyun nahi bataya?', etc. etc. It would be about her, AGAIN...

So, whose 'ego' are we really talking about?

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Suchi-

@Suchi-

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 14 years ago

#14

Akshi does enough for him. Naitik should learn to give space.

he is nice..& 100% times better than before but sometimes he acts like a child

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Mahika84

@Mahika84

Explorer

Posted: 14 years ago

#15

I guess naitik should pick her call once considering she's pregnant but Akshara is rightfully wrong this time. Her heart might be in the right place, her mind is clearly not.

he told her SO MANY TIMES to give him some time! he said it nicely an sternly.

i don't think its a ego we can call its his self respect & i think she needs kicks like this to get the point across because if Naitik says it sweetly and gently she totally IGNORES him!

Akshara has the diplomacy of a 4 year old kid, who is let out unsupervised in a shop full of lollies, after being locked up in a home for 3 hours. One feels sorry for her.

...just my take on this.

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mslakshmi

@mslakshmi

Beginner

Posted: 14 years ago

#16

yes i too agree with all, it isn't actually ego but some sort of possessiveness😊

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Charu

@Krinya

Trailblazer

+ 8

Team Critics

Posted: 14 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: --Sari--

Ego - What is ego? Here is a classic dictionary definition

An exaggerated sense of self-importance; conceit.
Appropriate pride in oneself; self-esteem; a feeling of self-respect and personal worth.

Sounds terrible when you read the first one, doesn't it? But wait a minute, carefully read the second one. Let's be honest, does anybody here wants to marry a person w/no ego after reading this one?

Yeh pyaar ke beech ego aade kyun aajatha hai is the question we all have asked but I want to ask the same question with a twist, what's a person w/o an ego? Won't we all go ewww..😆 There is a fine line between ego & arrogance & it's the latter that is not pleasing. Any person (male/female) needs to have some ego; it's the varying degree that shapes their personality for better or worse😃

Naitik ne jo kiya shayad sahi nahi tha considering she is pregnant & her past history of MC but Akshara has pushed him over the edge & his ego has been hurt It should have never come to the point coz she knows how needy he is & we had Sneha to prove it😆 As a wife, it's her job to nurture & channel his ego in a more positive light. He has changed over the past couple of years, but has she budged to meet him half way?

n both the mother n daughter pair r not getting the hint n totally acting dumb...how else is anyone supposed to explain? 🤢 Rajshri's ignorance is understandable coz she doesn't know naitik but maate? a few days back they had this huge MU in rashmi's wedding over a petty issue, what was the reason? why can't maate make amendments ? she cannot get away with excuses all the time...abhi rashmi ki shadi ka kaam tha, abhi ma ko company deni hai, abhi ma ko chinta hogi, abhi bma akeli hai, abhi daddaji ka phone aa gaya, abhi cylinder khatam ho gaya. it's frustrating 🤢

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Charu

@Krinya

Trailblazer

+ 8

Team Critics

Posted: 14 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: Suchi-NivReniac
Akshi does enough for him. Naitik should learn to give space.

he is nice..& 100% times better than before but sometimes he acts like a child

hello ! if she needs space then why is she calling him millions of times? she should relax and sit at home and enjoy the company of whosoever she likes. n co-incidently, she remembers him only when he's upset with her, that too she doesn't know the reason why he's acting tht way..when he's around her, she doesn't even notice. 🤢 by now, therez no need for brainstorming "pata nahi naitik kyun aisa kar rahe hai", this is the nth time 🤢 the reason was the same, even before sneha entered their life. now she doesn't know how to tackle it...cool 😎 but she can SENSE that her ma-bauji r missing each other so they should meet ! where does her sense vanish when it comes to naitik 😕

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Mini

@mini_00

Navigator

Posted: 14 years ago

#19

Exactly charu..completely agree with you . Akshi knows naitik more than any one in these family.

Time always slips out of hands. A couple should not wait for each other to talk on an issue. If a naksh do not take interest in sharing their views during an early phase then they might not even be able to discuss it later. Therefore, it is very important for naksh to discuss or start sharing since an early stage.

After marriage she is ready to spend her time for her in-laws for her mom to satify them sacrificing her own happiness by ignoring naitik which is really irking

.Whenever naitik ignores her she could not even take that stress. He wants her husband to adjust and understans the situation. But why can't she?❓

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Mahika84

@Mahika84

Explorer

Posted: 14 years ago

#20

Agree with u charu...to give her more space Akshara needs to be given more chores around the house - maybe prepare 5 different dishes for breakfast, 6 for lunch and 10 for dinner. Their Mali also needs to hand over the care and maintenance of his garden to Akshi. Maharaji needs to hand over the grocery shopping responsibility to Akshi 😉
I feel like Naitik is justified this time in his anger because he tried talking Akshara so many times before and because of akshi's stubbornness he kept backing down and she kept doing the same 😡
in my opinion she totally took advantage of the love and adoration of Naitik ,polite words from Naitik were not working and she does not know it all...🤢
In summary, it is not every time.. it is one time,one issue.. repeated multiple times

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