Excessive Family Interference = Naksh Marrige Dead

even i thought the same related with naitik.. she didn't pick up the phone, reason can be many, what is there is something serious? he will treat her the same way, do not have any patience to listen to her? a married person cannot survive only on husband love, she needed to get other love also.. if the family is interfering it can create problems in their relationship too

yes naitik's family is of double standard, no doubt about it..

Originally posted by: lathika4u

even i thought the same related with naitik.. she didn't pick up the phone, reason can be many, what is there is something serious? he will treat her the same way, do not have any patience to listen to her? a married person cannot survive only on husband love, she needed to get other love also.. if the family is interfering it can create problems in their relationship too

yes naitik's family is of double standard, no doubt about it..

Hey lathika4u, thanks for replying. Your soo right, what is it was something serious - did Naitik or the family even think about that, they were just ready to jump down her throat, not because they were worried about her, but more about why the bahu was acting childish, its disgusting behaviour.

yeah excessive family interference will broke the ristha sometimes but at the same time ,it will help to build strong relationship between husband and wife.husband and wife will become one and they will go against their family.

All right....................But you'll understand Naitik's circumstance only when you are miles away from your family, alone, in an unknown place....................He has no one to talk to..............He finishes his work and soon tries to call her so that they can talk properly but no one picks up....................How would u feel? Fine, she was with her family and all, but she too knows that he would be calling soon and how can she 4get her phone just like that...........that too twice..................Ok!I'm not justifying Naitik, and I back you 4 the fact that he should have tried 2 understand, but I must admit that I would have behaved the same way, if I were in a distant place, alone, wanting 2 talk 2 some1 whom I love....................and if my desperate tries go in vain because the person whom I want 2 talk to so badly doesn't pick up the phone.......................At this point u should also realize that Naitik was unaware of the entire movie plan..............He thought she was at home and simply didn't want him 2 disturb her moments with her family, which ironically includes him too...................

Originally posted by: lacchu21

yeah excessive family interference will broke the ristha sometimes but at the same time ,it will help to build strong relationship between husband and wife.husband and wife will become one and they will go against their family.

I think it does build the husband wife rishta stronger, if they have a proper understanding of each other, but in this case, Naitik and Akshara are trying to know each other, even though the family is hardly letting them. I respect ur opinion, but don't u think it is very unrealistic that Naitik will go against his family - known them for 23 years, just because of Akshara, mayb known her a year, not even that??

Originally posted by: yrkkhluvinangel

All right....................But you'll understand Naitik's circumstance only when you are miles away from your family, alone, in an unknown place....................He has no one to talk to..............He finishes his work and soon tries to call her so that they can talk properly but no one picks up....................How would u feel? Fine, she was with her family and all, but she too knows that he would be calling soon and how can she 4get her phone just like that...........that too twice..................Ok!I'm not justifying Naitik, and I back you 4 the fact that he should have tried 2 understand, but I must admit that I would have behaved the same way, if I were in a distant place, alone, wanting 2 talk 2 some1 whom I love....................and if my desperate tries go in vain because the person whom I want 2 talk to so badly doesn't pick up the phone.......................At this point u should also realize that Naitik was unaware of the entire movie plan..............He thought she was at home and simply didn't want him 2 disturb her moments with her family, which ironically includes him too...................

Hmmm, i do understand ur point, as Naitik didnot have any idea, so i can now agree that it was Akshara and Naitik's fault.

Agree , naitik was far and alone.... but what about benefit of doubt...which is given by law.... sometimes I feel that though Naitk is a nice human being but without balance attitude

Originally posted by: piyualka

Agree , naitik was far and alone.... but what about benefit of doubt...which is given by law.... sometimes I feel that though Naitk is a nice human being but without balance attitude

He didn't doubt Akshara in any ways..................There was no reason 4 that too...................He knew that she was with her brother and sis-in-law...................He was unhappy because he was desperate to talk 2 her but he felt that she was least bothered.....................U can't blame Naitik completely...............Akshara is to be blamed equally......................In fact he was the one who gave her the permission first..................that was because he didn't want her 2 feel lonely...............But she didn't think the same 4 Naitik, when she was with them...............She was too excited to watch the movie!

Originally posted by: yrkkhluvinangel

He didn't doubt Akshara in any ways..................There was no reason 4 that too...................He knew that she was with her brother and sis-in-law...................He was unhappy because he was desperate to talk 2 her but he felt that she was least bothered.....................U can't blame Naitik completely...............Akshara is to be blamed equally......................In fact he was the one who gave her the permission first..................that was because he didn't want her 2 feel lonely...............But she didn't think the same 4 Naitik, when she was with them...............She was too excited to watch the movie!