Naitik hurt due to Aks lack of trust??

Now that this MU has been for days..although just one day for the serial as it is still the wedding day..I'am thinking there is more than that...i mean Naitik is upset that RR rejected Aks.and not the other way round...But i feel he is more hurt because Akshara did not confide in him and tell him about RR first..
I don't think one would spoil his own wedding just like that...And looking at Naitik's character he is childish and immature but highly sensitive tooo....He is more hurt deep in his heart that his would be wife didn't trust him....I'm so eager to know his feelings..pata nahin yeh kab dikhanyge ki what actually his problem is...

Originally posted by: sks7

Now that this MU has been for days..although just one day for the serial as it is still the wedding day..I'am thinking there is more than that...i mean Naitik is upset that RR rejected Aks.and not the other way round...But i feel he is more hurt because Akshara did not confide in him and tell him about RR first..
I don't think one would spoil his own wedding just like that...And looking at Naitik's character he is childish and immature but highly sensitive tooo....He is more hurt deep in his heart that his would be wife didn't trust him....I'm so eager to know his feelings..pata nahin yeh kab dikhanyge ki what actually his problem is...

Yes you are right..remember the mandir scene where he said to Aks. aap main koi kami ho hi nahin sakti...

i agree with u...i was thinking abt the possibilities n this cud be the reason for his behavior..this same thing came to my mind that may be he's upset that he got to know this truth from Rituraj and not Akshara...frankly speaking, i dun think he wud have reacted differently if akshara had told him but may be MAY BE the damage wud have been less..

Yes even i think ...Naitik would have behaved the same way...aur shayad Aks.. ne isiliye nahin batay kyunki woh pehle pen wala incident yaad kar ke... jo bhi ho i think there relationship still lacks the trust that should be there in marriage..aur shayad isiliye yeh MU to make them realise that both of them still have to work on their relationship to make it so strong ki bina kahe ek doosre ki baat sahi samjhe...khamooshi ko galat na padhe...

Originally posted by: sks7

Yes even i think ...Naitik would have behaved the same way...aur shayad Aks.. ne isiliye nahin batay kyunki woh pehle pen wala incident yaad kar ke... jo bhi ho i think there relationship still lacks the trust that should be there in marriage..aur shayad isiliye yeh MU to make them realise that both of them still have to work on their relationship to make it so strong ki bina kahe ek doosre ki baat sahi samjhe...khamooshi ko galat na padhe...

Originally posted by: iluvyrkkh

well true trust takes time to build up...especially in arranged marriages when you are basically strangers and there is some force that you have to have to fall in love with this person...so for most ppl I think they start off by liking and trusting the person and when such small incidents happen they become big just because they dont know each other that well...as I said earlier, Naitik already had assumed that she was perfect and without any flaws and when this happened he was shattered...plus he has a slight extreme character as well which doesnt help...

And Aks reacting in khamoshi is also understandable coz she is going through the same new thing and the disadvantage for her is taht - 1. She was rejected once so the fear of getting rejected again. 2. The reason for her rejection was her talk being misinterpreted wrong. 3. She knows Naitik is jealous Othello...

So both are right in their own way to some extent...its just sad that this happened on their wedding day...but I think they will forget all this very soon and will laugh about it in a few years and say "kitne stupid the hum" or something....

i totally agree with u..... both will take time to undrstnd each other... & maybe aftr sum yrs thy will laugh abt their stupidity.

Originally posted by: iluvyrkkh

well true trust takes time to build up...especially in arranged marriages when you are basically strangers and there is some force that you have to have to fall in love with this person...so for most ppl I think they start off by liking and trusting the person and when such small incidents happen they become big just because they dont know each other that well...as I said earlier, Naitik already had assumed that she was perfect and without any flaws and when this happened he was shattered...plus he has a slight extreme character as well which doesnt help...

And Aks reacting in khamoshi is also understandable coz she is going through the same new thing and the disadvantage for her is taht - 1. She was rejected once so the fear of getting rejected again. 2. The reason for her rejection was her talk being misinterpreted wrong. 3. She knows Naitik is jealous Othello...

So both are right in their own way to some extent...its just sad that this happened on their wedding day...but I think they will forget all this very soon and will laugh about it in a few years and say "kitne stupid the hum" or something....

their relationship has not reached that level where they can talk to each other freely....proper communication is important...With RR, Akshara's fears were justified but she didn't confront him at the time of tht pen guy also....she just walked away..she should have fought with him and told him the truth....on the mehandi day also bec. baat bahut hi aage badh gayi thi....but then i love her for this innocence of hers....not all can really think of a good speech at difficult moments....

i agree with you Ritu..both are right at their respective places..it's just tht they need to learn to communicate properly....trust will automatically come with time..

even I am waiting for the MU to clear & a genuine smile on naitik's face.