Varsha decided to quit studies - Page 2

well i agree and disagree also yaar because the arguement is baseless totally baseless but on positive note we could see shaurya mentality even he thinks the way as naitik's dadaji is thinking that womens after marriage should stop studying and takes care of households and kitchen....he agree with varsha studies is because of vish because he can't go against his father so he agrees with it now he have told varsha what was in his heart......i was shock when shaurya tells this to varsha that girls after marriage studies for what they need to take care of households,kitchen and husbands that is a cheap mentality......but its also varsha mistake for not giving shaurya the sufficent time he needs as a husband but i can't blame varsha too because she is very concern about akshara who is more than a friend and sis-in-law to her....and her future is her first priority since akshara is not used to this new world that is going to come in her way there will be thorns for her and varsha could sense it thats why she is protective over akshara...and if you love someone wholeheartly than you have to protect the person and thats what varsha is doing for akshara.....

the only way varsha's worries will vanish if naitik confess in front of both the families that he will be the pillar for akshara....he will support akshara in all good and bad times and will never let go her hand...he will fight the world and breaks all traditions...customs for akshara if he sense thats wrong and its suffocating akshara....thats when varsha worries and fears will all disappear and she can give shaurya her time till then she will be in fear...and arguements between ShaVa will continue...because for varsha both shaurya-akshara are important but the person who is most close to her heart is akshara the place that varsha gives akshara is more than the place she gives shaurya

i just hope shava misunderstandings clears....they both love each other so much and such fights strengths a relationship and deepens the love for each other....i am sure shaurya is out somewhere only thinking about varsha and the pain he got from her by the arguement....he still love her so much

but its ridiculous the way its going forward

1st akshara & now Varsha

I thought she was sensible

Plz don't keep so many expectations from Naitik bec. he's not gonna be a rebel everytime....u will feel disappointed later...it's very difficult to kill ur ego everytime and give in......tht applies for both Naitik and Akshara......at least i don't expect Naitik and Akshara's relationship to be perfect from day 1...bec. married life can't be like tht....

Varsha took this decision in a haste n anger ..If her studies were so important for her, she wouldn't have said this just bec. Shaurya thinks in such and such manner...for that matter all the families in the serial are convervative (including Varsha's) ..I thought she's more intelligent , confident and balanced than Akshara...She's well aware of the traditions and customs of the family she belongs to and the family in which she's married.....then how can she expect Shaurya to fight for what she wishes? Shaurya was the same before marriage ......She has a problem bec. Shaurya's "thinking" is like tht......his thinking will not change suddenly na...

Varsha was too argumentative....any problem , no matter how serious it is, can be solved through discussion...They both were in a bad state of mind bec. of different reasons..once they r back to normal, they'll patch up...n she must not think that much about Akshara bec. ultimately Naitik and Akshara have to decide what's right n whats wrong, what should be done n what not...If Varsha doesn't understand this soon, she will not only create problems in Akshara's life but ruin her married life too..

I find Naitik's character to be very realistically portrayed! He belongs to a conservative family where not even his parents speak against the elders in the family, then how can he think of putting up a fight for Akshara everytime in front of his family? And why should he? It is primarily the Maheshwari's problem to get their daughter educated, not her in-laws. If they are so keen to educate Akshara, what was the rush in getting her married off? Most traditional families do not like the concept of their daughter-in-laws studying or working after marriage and so is the case with Naitik's family!

I feel that this part has been put across very well in YRKKH.

Coming back to Varsha, this girl has turned out to be quite a disappointment. Though she is very much an all-rounder as compared to Akshara, I think that Varsha sees herself as excelling in all roles apart from that of a wife. Shaurya is correct when he says that she has changed after marriage...she pays attention to everything else but to her own marriage.

And if she is so concerned about Akshara's life, then she should also understand that the last thing Akshara's in-law's would want is constant interference from her family. Varsha cannot be on the phone everyday telling Akshara what to do, what to wear, how to behave and what to cook.

Besides, I feel that while Varsha might be excellent in all other aspects, Aksharas scores more on the emotional intelligence front. She is more sensitive and mature when it comes to understanding the other person's POV as compared to Varsha, who I feel is a bit too over-confident!

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these husbands and familys😡