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Discussion 1- Jo Jeeta Woh Sikander

As we all know Pooja has gone through soo much and never gave up (if she did her loved ones didn't let her)

If you give up, you fail, you know you have to keep on going, because no matter how bad the circumstance is, you have to confront it sooner or later.

But in such circumstances, you copletely loose hope unknowingly, and its natural.

But if such happens, what would you do? What advicce would you give? Have you ever been in such situation, in which you did loose, or didn't loose hope.

Discussion 2- Kya Kehna

In YMLH, many times the characters wanted to say something hurtful/truthful to each other, but since the characters were so close, when one character did want to say something they stopped because they did't want to hurt their loved ones.

What advice would you give here? Has this happened to you? What is usually the outcome of this?

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Originally posted by: prettyguria

Discussion 2- Kya Kehna

In YMLH, many times the characters wanted to say something hurtful/truthful to each other, but since the characters were so close, when one character did want to say something they stopped because they did't want to hurt their loved ones.

I like this oen but wat situtaion r u actualli talkin abt here?! what characters u r talkin abt?!?!

Originally posted by: heart girl

I like this oen but wat situtaion r u actualli talkin abt here?! what characters u r talkin abt?!?!

Its general mostly, like when you want to say something to the person but you don't want to hurt them, like Akash didn't tell Pooja his feelings cause he didn't want to make Ronit and her sorry for her, etc etc.

Originally posted by: prettyguria

Discussion 1- Jo Jeeta Woh Sikander

As we all know Pooja has gone through soo much and never gave up (if she did her loved ones didn't let her)

If you give up, you fail, you know you have to keep on going, because no matter how bad the circumstance is, you have to confront it sooner or later.

But in such circumstances, you copletely loose hope unknowingly, and its natural.

But if such happens, what would you do? What advicce would you give? Have you ever been in such situation, in which you did loose, or didn't loose hope.

Ok in this kind of situation, I would first think about my certain situation, and where have I made it worse for me, and try to make the better out of it. The advice I would give is

A. Firstly go over your situation and state, and how its affecting you

B. Then try to solve it, if I completely loose hope it shows I'm weak in character, which I'm not.

C. Talk it out with someone, it mite help and mite help you understand your situation better.

Yupz! I've been in such situation, where I completely went down and I admit I was weak, but now I have learned to go on, and move with it, leave it to God, he knows, and have talked it out with people, sometimes communication is a life saver.

Discussion 2- Kya Kehna

In YMLH, many times the characters wanted to say something hurtful/truthful to each other, but since the characters were so close, when one character did want to say something they stopped because they did't want to hurt their loved ones.

What advice would you give here? Has this happened to you? What is usually the outcome of this?

Many times, we don't want to hurt feelings, but end up hurting ourselves or lying, or worse, in this situation you really need to think about it, and if you know the person so well, I dun think he/she wil be hurt but if u kno the person and stil don't want to hurt them and in turn hurting yourself, then you are in the situation on Discussion or Option 1, but sometimes you need to let the person know, and most of the time is for yours and their betterment, and you will feel alottt better.

This has happened to me😆 But at the end, if you tell the person, and if they love you and understand your situation all is well, and u feel RELIEVED, but, if you don't and keep it inside of you, you get frustrated and breakdown and u keep lying, and it can be a big affect, the smallest things can play a big role in ur life, but you should know how to handle the situation with maturity, and able to say "This is Life, and you know what, I have to deal with it"

Discussion #2
In YMLH, many times the characters wanted to say something hurtful/truthful to each other, but since the characters were so close, when one character did want to say something they stopped because they did't want to hurt their loved ones.

What advice would you give here? Has this happened to you? What is usually the outcome of this?

well many times in life we end up saying things we never meant, things that were jokes but went too far or stuff that ended up hurting you and the victim of your words. The advice that i can give to avoid this situations is to

A - watch what you say

B - if you know the person and their personality and know what hurts them and what should never be said, don't say it.

C - don't back bite because from it being ABC its going to go around and to the person whom it was said about and end up being XYZ... then start a whole completely new era of disagreement and hatret.

D - FIND NICER WORDS to give your message across.

If anyone were to say it didnt happen to them... they would be lieing because in one way or other many things happen which hurt our loved ones

The usual outcome comes to be a fight... yelling.. hating... saying stuff behind each others' backs. and yeah stuff like that.

sometimes it's better to put urself in that position and see how you would feel

😳

-Ruby