Yeh Hai Chahatein WRITTEN UPDATES AND DAILY DISCUSSIONS THREAD # 3 - Page 24

Originally posted by: YHCstan

I guess you meant before. IMO, he should love her for who she is and not because of the sacrifices she has made. But yeah, her sacrifices also define who she is. Lol I hope you got my point.

no i meant motherly being sacrifice..... nt like usual seedi saadhi type....

i meant the struggle she had being a single mother and the lov care for saransh

Originally posted by: Nichuss

no i meant motherly being sacrifice..... nt like usual seedi saadhi type....

i meant the struggle she had being a single mother and the lov care for saransh

That sounds more like respect to me than love.

I don’t mean that you can’t love someone you respect. In YHM, Raman first began to respect Ishita for the mother/DIL/wife/daughter she is. Same with Ishita. Only then they fell in love for who they were. So just felt that they can take a different route here,

Originally posted by: YHCstan

That sounds more like respect to me than love.

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Originally posted by: YHCstan

I don’t mean that you can’t love someone you respect. In YHM, Raman first began to respect Ishita for the mother/DIL/wife/daughter she is. Same with Ishita. Only then they fell in love for who they were. So just felt that they can take a different route here,

Ru started to realise what he thought of Pree is wrong.... From bros lover... he started to see his Preesha... these days..... i just want to get that tag out... "Bros lover" i knw its not relevant in the story again... still it will be nice ....

Originally posted by: Nichuss

Ru started to realise what he thought of Pree is wrong.... From bros lover... he started to see his Preesha... these days..... i just want to get that tag out... "Bros lover" i knw its not relevant in the story again... still it will be nice ....

it is easier to love someone who was not involved with his brother. It is easier to love someone who took on responsibility of her sisters child the way he is doing now himself.

It is far more tougher to love someone who you think is your brothers murderer...who is your brother’s love....who has had a child with your brother....who loved your brother and was intimate with him for you to have a nephew.

Rudra is here right now in terms of love. He did feel odd to think that his brother loved her...he said it himself when reading the diary.

Of course she went through a lot a a single mother....and what she went through becomes even bigger when you realise it is when she is completely uninvolved innocent person in this left handing the responsibility left by her and his sibling. But to me, that will make him admire her more...respect her more....care for her more. And find it even more easier to love her free from these chains of past. But when it comes to love itself, I feel he loves her despite some some dilemma’s right now which would have held love back. And that shows the depth of his feelings.

Originally posted by: foresight

it is easier to love someone who was not involved with his brother. It is easier to love someone who took on responsibility of her sisters child the way he is doing now himself.

It is far more tougher to love someone who you think is your brothers murderer...who is your brother’s love....who has had a child with your brother....who loved your brother and was intimate with him for you to have a nephew.

Rudra is here right now in terms of love. He did feel odd to think that his brother loved her...he said it himself when reading the diary.

Of course she went through a lot a a single mother....and what she went through becomes even bigger when you realise it is when she is completely uninvolved innocent person in this left handing the responsibility left by her and his sibling. But to me, that will make him admire her more...respect her more....care for her more. And find it even more easier to love her free from these chains of past. But when it comes to love itself, I feel he loves her despite some some dilemma’s right now which would have held love back. And that shows the depth of his feelings.

Yh because I feel like the only reason he has started to love and fall for her is cuz of her care for Saransh which has made him love her more but he just cant come too close to her cuz he thinks she was his bro x I want this thng to come out fast so they can come more closer to eachother cuz they only way he has come close to her is through hugs or pulling her towars him and holding by waist that's just normal thngs and the latest one he has done is hand kisses but to get further then that he needs to know she is not his bro lover I mean look at their age difference man how is it possible for her to be his bro lover🤣

Originally posted by: foresight

it is easier to love someone who was not involved with his brother. It is easier to love someone who took on responsibility of her sisters child the way he is doing now himself.

It is far more tougher to love someone who you think is your brothers murderer...who is your brother’s love....who has had a child with your brother....who loved your brother and was intimate with him for you to have a nephew.

Rudra is here right now in terms of love. He did feel odd to think that his brother loved her...he said it himself when reading the diary.

Of course she went through a lot a a single mother....and what she went through becomes even bigger when you realise it is when she is completely uninvolved innocent person in this left handing the responsibility left by her and his sibling. But to me, that will make him admire her more...respect her more....care for her more. And find it even more easier to love her free from these chains of past. But when it comes to love itself, I feel he loves her despite some some dilemma’s right now which would have held love back. And that shows the depth of his feelings.

Agree. The entire turmoil that went on in s1,2 from Rudra's pov was due to past issues. He started seeing her genuine character and feel for her despite all the baggage speaks on the intensity of his affection, which is way more interesting.

Sure, once the truth is out he will respect/admire/put her on a pedestal. But maybe won't be sooo interesting.

I do want to see a scene in which they touch upon this big elephant in the room. Maybe if/once they get to the IHU...

However right now Preesha has zero logical sense in not confiding all secrets to Rudra except that it would be end of story.

Originally posted by: Eloquent

Agree. The entire turmoil that went on in s1,2 from Rudra's pov was due to past issues. He started seeing her genuine character and feel for her despite all the baggage speaks on the intensity of his affection, which is way more interesting.

Sure, once the truth is out he will respect/admire/put her on a pedestal. But maybe won't be sooo interesting.

I do want to see a scene in which they touch upon this big elephant in the room. Maybe if/once they get to the IHU...

However right now Preesha has zero logical sense in not confiding all secrets to Rudra except that it would be end of story.

I guess that’s the main reason lol. Either one of the two main characters should make mistakes for there to be some story!
Anyway the point is I feel Rudr should love Preesha and confess before he learns the truth of Preesha being Saaransh’s aunt. I am not talking about other truths like Rajeev’s murder truth here. IMO, he can still love Preesha without knowing that she isn’t the biological mother. In that way, at least there is some message that single moms can find love too (albeit in a contrived fashion lol).

But again, I guess Rudr has already fell in love with Preesha without knowing any truth. lol So this whole discussion of whether he should confess after knowing Saaransh truth or before is pointless lol.

Originally posted by: foresight

it is easier to love someone who was not involved with his brother. It is easier to love someone who took on responsibility of her sisters child the way he is doing now himself.

It is far more tougher to love someone who you think is your brothers murderer...who is your brother’s love....who has had a child with your brother....who loved your brother and was intimate with him for you to have a nephew.

Rudra is here right now in terms of love. He did feel odd to think that his brother loved her...he said it himself when reading the diary.

Of course she went through a lot a a single mother....and what she went through becomes even bigger when you realise it is when she is completely uninvolved innocent person in this left handing the responsibility left by her and his sibling. But to me, that will make him admire her more...respect her more....care for her more. And find it even more easier to love her free from these chains of past. But when it comes to love itself, I feel he loves her despite some some dilemma’s right now which would have held love back. And that shows the depth of his feelings.

@bold THIS!! For a sec, even if we take that Rudra might have thought Pree CANNOT kill his brother (as he confessed in one of the episode) but the fact that he thinks Pree is his brother's lover, she has a child with him, which means he understands the entire physical, emotional intimacy behind this. And yet, he fell in love, accepted her, and is ready to spent his entire life with her. This is a huge thing. And Rudra, has fallen in love with Preesha despite all this. Love happens without condition and that's what has happened to Rudra. Preesha in one of the initial episode said "Main ussi se shaadi karungi jo mujhe mere saransh ke sath apnayein" and that is what Rudra did. Accepted her with Saransh. Accepting someone who is already a mother (according to him) is what the show is trying to convey I guess. So yeah! ❤️