Episode 21.06.19...Tohfa - Page 4

Originally posted by: Ross11

Waise lagta hai Appu ki IF se setting hai, showing two times in the 'likes' list of this post. 😆

Arre setting hota toh 10 like daal deti 😀

Waise I didn’t know it shows twice.

Hi Ross11 thanks for a funny update. Truly enjoyed it. I have given up on watching the programme and come to the forum occasionally to see what I'm missing.

So there appears to be a tradition in the Agarwal family that the girls who are all sensible and intelligent before marriage become dumb after marriage. Pooja became dumb after marriage, fought with Bittu, listened to Taiji to the point of almost destroying her marriage. Naina's stupidity after marriage we've all ranted about till we were all blue in the face. Now Preeti has turned dumb! Wow!!!

By this token, Bela must have been a rocket scientist prior to marriage!

Aur, suhaag raat huwa keh yeh immaculate conception hain? YUDKBH!

Random thoughts based on all comments about the pager drama, kanjoosi, daughter vs daughter-in-law and PreeNa.

Mrugali you mentioned about Preethi and her big heart. I have always loved how in their growing years she has either helped Naina, or was ready to marry Sharad, or took slaps for Naina when she escaped w. Sam. Absolutely selfless and a beautiful relationship. Then it was different. Now it is different. She is answerable to her husband and MIL and matter would go up to Bela-Anand too. Offering them chai, nashta or giving sewing kit or something small is nothing, and MIL cribbed but it was still okay. Here we are talking an item worth 7000. And she has hid the fact from hubby too.

KZ is the way she is. We all know that. Shubham on the other hand is all about economics, but also understands feelings otherwise he wouldn’t have given Preethi a chance to explain or feel bad the other day. In depth relationship dynamics he will understand some day, now that Sameer opened his eyes to that aspect and also after he gets closer to Preethi and leaves Economics for awhile (Preethi should lecture him more on that)

Do such MIL treat Daughters and DIL differently. Many cases I would say yes but only as long as daughter is unmarried. After marriage they teach and expect daughters to do according to her inlaws, for her own good and also so that parents are not blamed for bad upbringing 😊

KZ is a nasty MIL/woman. But Shubham is yet to go beyond his Mom and Economics. If Preethi had asked Shubham before buying he may have said yes or no. And saying No wouldn’t be biased according to me. But nevertheless Preethi asking was the right thing to do.

After 20 years of marriage and having my own earnings I still talk to my hubby before buying something significantly big for me or for family etcc I would like to know from other married ladies here, how many of you actually just buy things for yourself or the house or your mother’s Side family (expensive items) without talking to your spouse. Whether it is out of your own choice or as a rule. Just trying to get different perspectives.

Originally posted by: Ross11

Shashi mam... that she was slapped for singing Laila main laila and Sumeet sir joined his daughter's dance on some similar song. 😆

Oh, is it? Hadn’t heard that one. So cute😆

Originally posted by: appukrish

After 20 years of marriage and having my own earnings I still talk to my hubby before buying something significantly big for me or for family etcc I would like to know from other married ladies here, how many of you actually just buy things for yourself or the house or your mother’s Side family (expensive items) without talking to your spouse. Whether it is out of your own choice or as a rule. Just trying to get different perspectives.

Ditto here. Though I have complete economic independence and freedom, I do discuss if buying anything big. But small things here and there even if it is gifting my family, I don’t really pre-discuss, It is based on my convenience of being at a store at a given time. I do show it to him once I am home because I want to. That way I am blessed, in all these years , he has never ever questioned my buying stuff for me or my family so have never had the pressure to hide either but I know that is not the case with every woman.

Originally posted by: Ross11

( waise toh society mein itne couples nahi jitne bachche khel rahe hain)

Ye khud hi bache jaise behave karte rehte ab bachhe ke papa-mummy banenge 😓... Jhagda kis baat ka tha ,ye samjh hi n aaya..( jhagada tha ye hi samajh n aaya )

_Sahi me gin ke 4 hi log to nazar aate hai hamesha ...Aur school jane me time pe bas 2 kids ,Vanita and sejal ke... I think baqi bachhe school nahi jaate ..( shayad tab society ke log literacy word jante bhi nahi the ..U know ..Ye un dino ki baat hai 😛)

Kai saalon baad Sam cricket khelte dikha ( fame paane ke teen tareeke you know, acting, cricket, politics toh ab bacha politics,kya pata Sam Vanita ko hara ke khud secretry ban jaaye)

Are shayad ban bhi jaye..Shayad isi wajah se wo log society me reh rahe kai saaloN tak..Warna to fandom ka deemag ki sui abhi bhi isi baat me atki ( larki) hui hai ki inke jhooth ke sach ka kya hoga )...

Naina ki awaz Sachin Tendulkar ko duur stadium se aati huyi lagi isliye dhyan na diya. Aiyla Preeti field pe aa gayi aur puchha ki kis baat ki katti hai? Sam ko pata nahi phir boli N ko aapki zaroorat hai ( aakhir aise pager ka kya faayeda agar paas jaa ke hi batana pade toh)

That was too childish of sameer ,seriously , aise ignore maarna... And bhulo mat pager sirf preeti ki sasural dynamics ke liye laya gaya u know ... cvs Third law of pager - the person who bought will not use it, the person who had it will not use it ,only the person who found the receipt will be using it ..visa versa...

Hum bata rahe pager - pager ka itna gyan diya ,sirf vanita ke namak ,mirch lagane ke liye i mean mangwane ke liye 😂😂

Rakesh Papaji ke ghutnon pe chot lagne se thoda kam sunayi dene laga hai.Sam ko teen baar puchhna pada N kahan hai. N ne rote huye gale lag ke Sam ke kaan mein bata diya ( ki mujhe meri doll aur tumhen apni toy car share karne ka time aa gaya hai)

sun na to humko bhi tha..Lekin ye CVS ka ek aur naya law hai aajkal ... Har convo silent ...By the way ye convo tha bhi ya nahi ??...

Sam ke reaction ka suspense taaki beech mein KZ ke ghar ka tamasha dikha saken, khair woh baad mein.

Sam ke control ko maanna padega aur N panicking, main tumhare aur tumhare sapnon ke beech mein aa gayi, sorry mujhe maaf kardo! ( jaise ki galti akele N ki hai, kya faayeda hua itna padh likh ke Naina?)

Sam happy happy, bola ki hamain yeh baat CC aur MunDit ko batani padegi.

BG kuchi kuchi rakhma paas aao na, ek achchi achchi gudiya laa do na pe Samaina mute convo ( yahaan Naina bol rahi hai ki mujhe nayi doll laa do taaki mujhe apni doll share na karna pade)

Sam ke ishaare ( ki yeh wall khiska ke thoda GG ka portion apni taraf kar lete hain, oopar chhat mein hole karke KZ ka flate bhi use karenge kyunki yeh ghar chhota padega ab)

N... Mujhe bahot tension ho rahi thi
Sam... Ab tum tension chhodo, kyun junior main sahi keh raha hun na.
Me... Arrey paglo pehle Doctor se toh confirm karo.

(N VO... Hero banne ka nek iraada aur CA ki padhai ka waada liye kisi din aisi misal khayi ki 1996 ki woh ulti ab tak hai mujhe yaad kyunki Yeh Un Dinon Ki Baat Hai.)

Phir langde tyagi aur Sam ki wajeh se N ki uthak baithak aur Sam ne bhi Rakesh ko bata diya ( ki aap ki jawani ke din gaye ab aap Nana banne wale ho)

Langda tyagi ek taang pe dancing, Nana ho gaya deewana (yeh sab teri wajeh se hua hai langde, na bedroom dete, na nauman tel hota na Radha naachti)
Sam ka apne liye alag aur R ke liye alag criteria ki iss baat ka kisi se kehna mat

Idhar, Sony saab ne khud mein khud ko ghusaya aur khud ko promote kiya aur gungi gudiya boli kaash 24 hrs aate channels. ( jaise ki ummid thi N VO ko beech mein ghusane ke liye aise dialogues daale jaate hain)

Preeti ne mauka dekh ke pager ki receipt haasil karli, phir P ka 'the dumb and the dumber show' jiss mein donon characters Preeti hi play karegi aaj. Pager ka bill bhi apne naam pe banaya tha aur receipt jalane ke bajaye bahar phenk di jo Gauri aunty ne aag mein ghee daal ke wapas ki.

exactly that's what I thought ...( Pehle bhi aise hi fanse the ye log ..Tickets ko jalane ya faadne ke jagah aise fenk diya tha ,..Wo bhi seedha tai ji pe ...Tai ji ke saath reh kar ,itna bhi nahi seekhe ..)

Shubham ke aane par aur receipt ke pakde jaane par Preeti ki dho dho dhulayi aur KZ ki zubaan aur kaali kalauti ho gayi.

Sam ne bahar se socha jab meri Naina ke baare mein kuchh bolenge tabhi entry maarunga aur phir Sam ne pager phenk ke maara ( jo Daadisa ki ghanti pe lag ke Shubham ke sar pe tappa kha ke, KZ ki zubaan ko masal ke Preeti ke saamne table pe gira, nice shot Sam babu!)

Sam bola ki mujhe aur N ko baat karne ke liye kisi machine ki zaroorat nahi hai ( kyunki hamari katti khatam ho gayi hai)

Shubham ke paas ab do pager ( This is CVs third law of pager, to each pager there is equal and opposit pager, economics toh phir bhi gadbada gayi, haini haini)

Precap is cute, Sam cooking, N admiring ( ab Sam apna haath jala lega aur yeh dekh ke N bhi apna haath jala legi kyunki kisi ne usse kaha tha chot mujhe lagi hai toh takleef tumhen kaise hogi! Parallelism you know)

that was too bad ... Felt so bad for preeti. .. Raziya gundo me fans gayi ..Hum bata rahe haiN.. ( shubham was silent throughout while KZ was speaking nonsense about preeti ... Shubham ko kya khud ko maloom nahi tha ki usne preeti ko kabhi paise diye bhi ya nahi)

The biggest contrast between Sameer and others .... Sam would never humiliate Naina in front of others ,nor he will let others doing that to his wife...If he somewhere feels that Naina is wrong he will tell her secretly ...Aise 4 logoN me tamasha nahi banata...

Also I would like to add contrast between the relationship dynamics...,( Which also is so real ) ..

At one place we have Samaina ..They both understand the space of their partners ..Like Naina understands the importance of other persons in sameer's life , and sameer understands the place of all important people in Naina's life ..They never tried to make distance between those people ... It's never like choose "between me and them "between this couple... This is so important in any relationship ...

Is it so easy to leave all your old freinds ..family ...Just because you have a new family now..

Preeti's MIL wants preeti to respect and care for family , but why does she expects she forgets her old relationships....

It's so true in real life also..Specially for girls even now..They are expected to be perfect in everything ...But no one tries to make things perfect for them ...Disgusting

Nice update Ross.. all your underliners I mean one liners was superb...

I liked this episode a lot...YUDKBH is a emotion ..And this episode bought yet another emotion back...

Would love to see what is next ...

Hi Ross nice update. Sorry i am late again but kya karoon weekend was very very busy upar se WIFI not working. Loved all your oneliners but my fav are Nainas vo and Pager ka 3rd law. Lagtha hai Newton is your favourite, pehle 3rd law of samosa and now pager 😆😆

Episode was good but agree with most here wish the dialogues were not muted atleast they should have showed what naina told sameer. Though the actots did a brilliant job by giving fabulous expressions. Loved Rakesh' happiness and langda dance. The way sameer said ab toh paise bachana padega was very cute. I am hoping ki this pregnancy leads to truth coming out.

Pager drama ke baare mein nothing much ti say as all have already discussed I hope thers is some relevance coming out of it othetwise it is such a waste of time. Felt bad for preethi. According to me too she should have discussed with shubham but we know neither he nir KZ would have agreed. But mujhe ek baat samajh nahi aayi samaina are staying apart for one month only na toh why take such big risk? Ek mahina toh yun hi kat jaata. knowing your family why take such a big risk that too when it is only one month's period. It os not like sameer and naina cant meet or talk na toh why so much drama. Chalo kharreda bhi toh why such bewakoofi in throwing the bill out of window. First of all she could have made the bill in Sameer's name then no tension at all. Mere toh palle nahi pada.

Precap is nice. Sameer is cooking for naina. Hope he is not making samosa 😆😆

I am the last one today 😊

PS. Ross tum na last post karnewalon ke liye pager award rakh do 😆

Originally posted by: Ross11

Sakshi and Asmita are tough contenders for today. 😆

Ross tum sahi me antaryami ho.. 😂😂So the tinda award for today's late response goes to me..Lol.. for friday's episode, I wrote a post on Monday..😂😂...

By the way ..All the post made here were too good to read ..

I agree with all of them ..About the Mute Convo ,pager OTT ..

P.S- although my shipper heart enjoys each and every samaina scene.. I don't know why they both didn't seem to be comfortable around each other .And may be that's why their scenes are cut short... And the CVS trying to put every kind of drama instead showing them ...like really which couple lives like this..Without conversations and misunderstandings... One night they are shown holding hands and next scene they are poles apart. ..

I love this show and will always be an honest viewer. But the CVs should take their job seriously... Now with no family OTTs , College OTTs , Rivalry OTTs ...They should concentrate on Samaina ,and their journey of love and success.. show that how their bond grew , and why they became power couples ... true relationship needs time ..Not like who lies most loves most... That's what I really felt lacked here...

CVs have spoiled several good plots till now..By just ignoring it under the carpet.. Arjun ,pooja ,marriage ,family... Now it looks like they are doing same with samaina .....

Ashdeep are too good ...They are both good actors..Both have great chemistry...So let them show that... .

My Expectations from future episodes -

1. Enough of lies...

2. Show them a bit responsible

3. Show them bonding

4. Being parents is different from being couples ...We all have been there and be it love or arrange marriage , every couple face that challenge daily.

5. Show some of their maturity and seriousness towards career ...

6. After all this is done they can add society or any twist for the sake of episodes ..

Originally posted by: asmita21180

So the tinda award for today's late response goes to me..Lol.. for friday's episode, I wrote a post on Monday..😂😂...

Ashdeep are too good ...They are both good actors..Both have great chemistry...So let them show that... .

My Expectations from future episodes -

1. Enough of lies...

2. Show them a bit responsible

3. Show them bonding

4. Being parents is different from being couples ...We all have been there and be it love or arrange marriage , every couple face that challenge daily.

5. Show some of their maturity and seriousness towards career ...

6. After all this is done they can add society or any twist for the sake of episodes ..

Hi

I really liked your post and completely agree with you on these points.

Even I was also thinking same thing why can’t they show them exploring new city together?

When we move to new city we do that right?

They can sneak out after his class but no CVs are hell bent on society drama.

Originally posted by: Sakshi607

PS. Ross tum na last post karnewalon ke liye pager award rakh do 😆

Arrey aise toh pager ke laalach mein sab last aayenge. 😆how abt KZ ke saath one day vacation award. 😆