Is love enough or other things also matters - Page 2

Originally posted by: dhk2311

One question in my mind running till the day when get to know about Samaina's wedding.

I agree that love give you strength for life but what about respect.

I have observed that whenever thing turn about Naina's respect Sameer easily give up. Like when his mother and Mami accusing her forhickie. Sameer easily give up where he can convince his mother and other by taking swear of Nanu or Naina because everyone knows that he won't lie on that.

Again he is just spending Nanu's wealth not putting efforts to maintain that ne and wealth. In future Naina have to face taunts from other about Sameer's no so responsible behaviour just like Mama did at time of welcoming for Sangeet function.

Please share your thoughts as well.

Love DK

Even though MM are acting evil or may be they are but the way sameer spending Nanu's money instead of using it for business or their future it is a valid issue

Sameer will get reality check post marriage I think. It's easy to spend but hard to earn. I guess naina will help him see the worth of money and become responsible

About mami and Vishakha pointing at naina's Character and upbringing, I am still shocked that sameer dint put efforts to clarify the same with Vishakha and she went ahead and accused Chachiji

What is more important is determined by what stages of life you are in. For Sameer at this point in life, romantic love is his center of the world and other aspects of life are peripheral. All through this marriage stage I only see a lovelorn kid ready to do anything for his lady love without being mindful to repercussions. Spending like crazy to fulfill every dream of this woman may seem like a great symbol of love for some but if you are spending more than you are earning even when you have a mountain of inheritance waiting for you, it is still juvenile for me.

As for Naina, not even a single time has she been shown to ask Sameer how he is coping in Munna's house, how he is buying a house for them, how he is arranging the wedding. All she is shown doing is gloating in pride on how much Sameer is going out of the way to please her.

They are both young and yeah, they are madly in love. That is the only way you can justify their current state of mind. Priorities change with time and maybe it will change for both Sameer and Naina as their crazy young love will evolve into more mature and understanding partnership of care, concern and respect for each other.

Love ain't enough but never preach that to two young people crazy in love.

Another aspect here is the lesson Samaina and all others must see and learn. That life is unpredictable. You don't know what life is going to throw at you and when.

Love alone cannot make a marriage successful, there needs to be attribute like trust ,respect , friendship , honestly , acceptance etc in your relationship. Now we cant get all these attributes up the sleeve and get married...these are attributes that you gain in the relationship with time. Love being the first one to enter the relationship and is the base of the relationship. The rest of the attributes mentioned above grows on it. So love does play an essential part because that has to be the strongest one. When the rest fails it falls back on to the base which is love.

As far as wealth and power, these are materialistic things. There is no guarantee that money and power can make a successful marriage because , if that was the case there wont divorces among the rich and affluent crowd. Wealth and power you can loose and you can gain. Its all a matter of time and effort .

So coming to your question I believe love is very essential factor in a marriage along with other humanly attributes. Money is a requirement to sustain life in terms of food clothing and shelter.

Sameer is very young . He never dreamt of marrying her this early but when the situation turned against them , he took a decision against his initial dream, so that they don't loose each other. This itself shows his character , he is a strong person. At this age when he saw his girl friend is being forcefully married to someone , he stood up and became the man he had promised. What matters and that needs to be noted is that when faced with challenge he didn't run away from it . Rather he faced it and found a solution that brought joy for both of them and also saved her from ruining her life. Which means even in future when faced with challenge he will rise as when it is required. That's is the best part of Sameer. He always stands up for the people he loves

Slowly he will take up other responsibilities too. The reality is even if Sameer and Naina were financially independent post marriage some or the other problem will crop up...life is never smooth as people say, it has its ups and downs and every couple goes thru it.

Like every one else Sameer and Naina will have their own share of victories and learnings in their life and I guess that's what makes this show interesting.

PS : to make it simple , is heart enough to sustain life?? No right ?? You need other organs too...its the symbiotic relationship that helps the body to be healthy...so is marriage or any other relationship. You need rt combinations of different humanly attributes along with materialistic aspect that suits a couple. The combination will be different for different couples.