Originally posted by: Sakhile
I agree with most of what you say. I however, don't think that Vishakha is weak or misguided. She is strong willed and has her own opinion. In this she, Sameer and Naina are very much alike. Each has their own strong opinions about each other and do not apologise to the other for having them. She does accept her husband's decisions but that does not make her his doormat. Sameer and Naina also do each other's bidding, they are thus also not each other's doormats. This is in the nature of relationships.
I do hope that they will mend things but can't see how yet. Yes, she will attend the wedding. She will do her duty as his mother but it will break her heart. Whether Mama will attend I don't know. I'm hoping Vishakha will sort out the issue regarding ownership before things get too complicated.
Vishaka is a weak character. From the start itself she has been shown controlled by somani. She came to ahmedabafh when sameer left nainital because somani was embaraased by that phone.
She might have own opinion but whys she only puts them on fore front infront of people whom she knows she can control? Where goes her opinion infront of somani and daadi when it comes to sameer? Se never stops somani whenever he has taunted sameer..but she always expects sameer to call somani papa despite knowing he has never accepted him as his son.
I loved how sameer showed somani his place in his life before he went to delhi this time..he needed it.
The biggest example why vishakha is a doormat infront of somani is when she let him control her to not accept sameer as her son in Mt.Abu. No mother would do that..,why she didn't give to hoots to consequenses and shouted that he is her son? Did she even think what impact that could have on sameer? Did she not realise that might make sameer question his own existance..?
Now in this recent wedding track, vishakha has been real hypocrit...she slammed naina for telling sameer about the gold digger taunt despite knowing what he will do at home...then why she doesn't stop somani from planning and plotting despite knowing how that will affect sameer and how he will react once eveill get to know it?
She did melt and was ready to accept naina for sameers happiness but she again did let somani control her and was a part of his plan..and still she expects sameer to be nice to them. She claims again and again ek naina matlabi hai lalchi hai..but has she once been able to proove that?
She is being able to see that sameer is close to naina because he is gettign that love and trust from her which maybe she should have shown...you can see that in the saree scene where naina trusted his choice and vishakha taunted him. She even claimed it to somani that she can never take the place in sameers heart that naina has..but ironically..she has never really tried.
Naina is a person who doesn't give up...unlike vishakha who has already given up on sameer...and to please herself she is making it look like naina is a gold digger and thats why she is not giving up on sameer...
Stricty my POV..I respect everyonce POV...no intend to start a fight đ