Not the right approach Vishakha

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Yes Vishakha doesn't know the depth of what affect this can have on sameer. On ond sode she says that he is emltional and bhola and at the same time shows him inferior and also doesn't really do anything moore to support him or see that he doesn't take this negatively.

Even before..Vishakahs habit of comapring him with rohan made him away from her and also a rebel. And she is repeating the same mistake I would say...when will she learn that comapring is never the right way to boost your childs confidence. Every child is and every indiviaul is unique in their own way and noone is perfect. Thats why God has maken us pairs, where both together complete each other and each others short comings.

Thankfully sameer has people around him like MunDit and Naina who will support hlm theough this. Vishakha doesn't know that unintenionally she led sameer to self desruction part again if he didn't have the right support. Just imagine..a boy who has grown leaps and bounds as a person..who hated the word family understands nainas family...their strict nature and her boundaries..the boy who never talked to her is today sharing about his most imprtant phase to ehr because he feels she deserves to know and he feels that her blessings and acceptance are very imoortant for their relationship.
If sameer hadn't becomen strong emotionally...he wouldn't have stood by naina despite of Vishakahs not so expected verdict in his eyes. Sameer always reacted moore emotionally whenever Vishakha neglected him or didn't really do any efforts to understand his stanve rather expected him to understand her.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Vishakha herself is weak & judges Sameer on her parameter.She is not an idle person to ask for advice.Her traits comparing with others shows her immaturit to deal with adolescent kids..I hate this comparing things & she is lucky to have a son like Sameer .I didnt get what Vishakha really told to sameer .As a whole Naina was overconfident & Vishakha didnt understood Naina Too.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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I totally agree
This was always the problem with Vishakha.. She wanted Sameer's good but didn't hv the right way of approaching him, ever.. That's the reason her efforts always backfired
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Posted: 6 years ago
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The best part she says he is emotional and rejects the girl he cannot live without, gives him a hug and walks away. I was sorta of ok with Vishaka after the Delhi phase and was sooo happy to see their interaction now but she again messed up. She isn't doing it intentionally but she should have at least spoken to Sameer some more or stayed with him for some more time.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: ruchi3179

Vishakha herself is weak & judges Sameer on her parameter.She is not an idle person to ask for advice.Her traits comparing with others shows her immaturit to deal with adolescent kids..I hate this comparing things & she is lucky to have a son like Sameer .I didnt get what Vishakha really told to sameer .As a whole Naina was overconfident & Vishakha didnt understood Naina Too.


Vohi toh mujhe bhi nahi samajh aya..verdict kiya hai vishakha ka..
Like, does she expect samaina roh breakup? And concentrate on the study..she sid say ke lets leave it upto destiny...?
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Posted: 6 years ago
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When she says let's leave it to destiny, she is expecting that for now Sameer will forget Naina and their love and focus on studies and move on. She thinks that in future when it's time for marriage Sameer would've left Naina. She really doesn't understand how deep their love is and what they mean to each other.

That's how I felt it to be.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Vishaka ne kabhi Sam ko Samja hi nai, sayed yehi dikhana chate honge CVs ki Naina kaise Sam ki strength and support system bani warna baki sab toh real Sam ko jante bhi nai hain, Vishaka yeh jante huye Bhi ki usko dad ne Naina ko approve kiya tha she reject her and joh Sawal puchata uske hisab se answer toh fab the, don't know why people didn't like, anyway joh Hona tha hogaya but yeh drama track se Samaina ka relation aur strong banne wala hain, I m glad this time cvs ne overconfident and looks ko target kiya, what I mean is that in colz everyone were so sure that Sam will get the role and and girls mein Naina k alawa kisi aur ko Milega and even Sam ka voiceover ne kaha he was scared for Naina and even Naina was not confident on herself, usko lagraha tha Sam toh hero banega but she won't so she was practing like hell, this track is again going to be superb of cvs don't add unwanted twist, overconfident Hona bhi acha nai hain and confident nai hona bhi achi baat nai hai, waiting for this track, and Have to say i m liking professor and Naina's bonding, bonding kuch alag hi yeh dono ka and saaf dikhta hain and isliye bina Sare she is going to fight with him for her boy, I hope yeh dream nai hain.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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I thought it was perfect. I felt like she used a little reverse psychology! I liked how she didn't make the decision for him, or for Naina for that matter. She just planted a certain seed in Sameer's mind & let him think about it. I think that was her way of giving him the liberty to decide for himself.

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