This is d main reason why Sam bursted out??

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Posted: 7 years ago
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I watched episode many times n recalled d story from start n this point is got stuck in mind.
No doubt mundit vishaka rohan deepika mama mami family loved Sam to core but for them Sam was not first priority in their lives.It was only Nanu for whom Sam was only priority in his life.After nanu it was only Naina after Nanu who made Sam believe that Sam was her first priority in her life with her actions that is reason why he fall for her deeply n madly

Yesterday when he was taunting Naina n calling her pain as drama literally kill me n made me to hate him but when I repeatedly watched episode I understood what he meant.During delhi track he witnessed how Vishaka gave him second priority after Rohan at that time he was deeply hurt but didn't confronted her.I expected a confrontation from his side at that time but today I understood that he never had hopes from Vishaka to give him first priority or shower all love to him but from Naina he did expect a lot.He expected Naina to treat him like his Nanu😭

The moment she said for her "Family is more important than love".He was badly hurt not because she is distancing him but he couldn't take that he is her second priority in her life 😭

I still love naina being a girl but If this is d reason why he was upset with Naina then I must say he loves her like a child loves her mother who wanted his/her mother attention/affection only on him

If this is d reason behind Sam outburst then God this boy is very possessive n moreover if he feels he got mother's love from naina then I'm sure no other girl can fill her void😭

Expectation kills human Sameer's expectation from Naina that he should be her first priority n that is not allowing him to digest reality n Chachaji's expectations from Naina is not making her to think about her own happiness,her own future 😭

I still remember during second cricket match were Sameer got hurt while taking his bat(Arjun leg break drama) at that moment naina tried to stop him saying not play match because "He is equally important like arjun for her" This made him believe that naina will definitely treat him like his nanu.
But today when she said chachaji trust is more important I guess he was broken for this differentiation as he never expected naina to differentiate him with his family members or give him second priority.


When I'm going back where naina lied to SS for Sam during Scooter khand this boy was very happy that She choose him over hier pyare papa n .Now he couldn't bear this differentiation


I don't know but want to ask u all that is d reason which made him burst out ?


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Posted: 7 years ago
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Yes i also watched that Sam was badly hurt when she tells him that family is her first priority.Sam made Naina everything & he cant come out of this like that.He was always lonely so his situation is different.He wants Naina to shower all love to him & first priority .& it is not something out of the world.Most men who deeply love there wifes or girlfriends expects same thing.I didnt understood that earlier but now i understood.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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This is an excellent analysis post haritha, kuddos girl 👏
The point Sameer lost his composure was definitely the words of Naina placing her family over their love. That girl who told him she could not think of a minute without him in his life, that girl told him their love story is unique, that girl who told him first love gives the power to stand against the entire world and family, that girl who told him one should not be scared when in love has taken as step back and now tells him to forget they have ever met, that they ever had anything between them. Even the bravest of bravest souls would not be able to handle this pain.

As you said, Sameer always looked up to Nanu and Naina. Even a slight distraction of Naina he could not bear. Remember few episodes were she was into studies before exams and still he was making sure he always caught her attention. He is a kid who was deprived of love in his childhood. Love here means motherly affection. Nanu did cover it up by showering all the affection on him, but deep within he is a wounded soul. And then he met Naina, who did things beyond his imagination for him. Isn't this the reason he fell in love with her. She gave him priority over everything in her life.
His dreams, his future, his life revolves around her "Meri Naina" the phrase itself evokes scores of emotions.She is his world and when she tried to move away hell break loose.

But it is said Expectations may sometimes lead you to disappointments, but the anger of getting disappointed may sometimes lead you to what you expected, so I hope him venting out anger on Naina yesterday would really give a reality check to her and will bring them together soon...pretty soon!!!


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Posted: 7 years ago
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The worst thing in life is to fall in love deeply, consider that person to be your priority no1 and then the other person decides that he or she doesn't value so much ...it literally breaks you. Naina knows her side of the family...and also knows Sameer has ONLY her...the way he emphasized that he also has a family literally shattered me because he knows that family doesn't care much for him...and she knows it too!!

That's why in the end she said ...its not drama its the pain that I am going thru just like you!! and that she doesn't have a solution...

She has a solution...its her fear and hurried decision that messed up both their lovely college life...Such things need time , and patience ...even if she wanted to break up with him, she should have talked to him and done it slowly explaining to him her problems...and deciding to be friends for ever...but here she took a very drastic selfish step. She knows the more she is with him , the more both will get attached ...but reality is their love is beyond all this... 😭
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Posted: 7 years ago
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He doesn't even come 2nd...it was more like she was placing him at the end of her priority list.
Everyone mattered except him... After what she said how could he not burst out.
It was about time he did... Since this whole Arjun kaand Naina has only been going on about her family ki izzat chachaji ki vishwas barosa but not once did she sit down calmly and speak to Sameer and try to understand that he is already at the point of no return. She is kind of sure he will just get over their relationship in few days as if it will be easy for him.
Naina herself doesn't understand how far they both have come in this relationship that turning back is close to impossible.
She is only clouded by chachaji vishwas jaap and the moment.
That moment was shattering for Sameer when Naina very harshly said mere liye mere parivar se barkar kuch nahi mera pyar bhi nahi...Sameers expression turned from guilt to hurt.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Sam was bereft of love since childhood. There was only Nanu who understood him and later that space was filled with Naina who loved him unconditionally. Hence he has now become used to being pampered by her. Now when she suddenly says family is important than love that can be pretty painful for any person and it is indeed for Sam as well. This just showed Naina's selfishness again. But again she is also under too much pressure. Ultimately they both are teenagers and hence aren't able to understand each other's difficulties which is leading to this impulsive behaviour. Had they been adults they definitely would have talked it out.
But you know what, a huge shoutout to the four others of the gang (Mundit and Swapree) for supporting them selflessly and for always being their pillar of strength. Not once has any one of them cringed or complained but they just are there for Samaina always.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: mystique123

This is an excellent analysis post haritha, kuddos girl 👏

The point Sameer lost his composure was definitely the words of Naina placing her family over their love. That girl who told him she could not think of a minute without him in his life, that girl told him their love story is unique, that girl who told him first love gives the power to stand against the entire world and family, that girl who told him one should not be scared when in love has taken as step back and now tells him to forget they have ever met, that they ever had anything between them. Even the bravest of bravest souls would not be able to handle this pain.

As you said, Sameer always looked up to Nanu and Naina. Even a slight distraction of Naina he could not bear. Remember few episodes were she was into studies before exams and still he was making sure he always caught her attention. He is a kid who was deprived of love in his childhood. Love here means motherly affection. Nanu did cover it up by showering all the affection on him, but deep within he is a wounded soul. And then he met Naina, who did things beyond his imagination for him. Isn't this the reason he fell in love with her. She gave him priority over everything in her life.
His dreams, his future, his life revolves around her "Meri Naina" the phrase itself evokes scores of emotions.She is his world and when she tried to move away hell break loose.

But it is said Expectations may sometimes lead you to disappointments, but the anger of getting disappointed may sometimes lead you to what you expected, so I hope him venting out anger on Naina yesterday would really give a reality check to her and will bring them together soon...pretty soon!!!



To be frank when I was watching episode for d first time I hated him that he did same with naina in manhus track then why he is ranting over her but after watching repeatedly I understood his P.O.V that no matter whatever condition it is like manhus track,normal or abnormal condition his first priority was only Naina n expected same from her.I thought after this messy conversation he was really pissed off n want to break up with her but when he was spelling Naina's name during sleep I understood that he can never forget naina because as I love my mom a lot n even if she scolds me or give importance to my siblings in certain situation I will argue with her fight with her but can't live without her n Same is happening with Sam he was angry impatient on naina but couldn't live without her😭
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Posted: 7 years ago
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To add to my above point I also feel that CVs are trying to show the journey of Sameer from a teenager to a responsible adult. He also has to realize that the world cannot always be lovey dovey with him. And Naina's words though harsh will start him thinking on those lines. Till now he was being showered with love from Naina and pampered by Mama Mami. Now he will have a taste of reality and that growth from Sameer to Sameer Jaiprakash Maheshwari will be fun to watch.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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For Sam it's always nanu and naina only in his life no matter what how many members may come and go but his priority will be them and he expects the same from them and got as well.
I remember in one of the old episodes where naina was avoiding him due to lice in her head the way he was tapping the pen to grab her attention was adorable. He was in love with her that time but still He can never stay even for a single minute without her attention. Really a good analysis.
Yesterday even I was thinking y he is talking like that but after reading your post I realized that how deeply he was hurt. I don't when and how he will come out of that.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: vidrev

For Sam it's always nanu and naina only in his life no matter what how many members may come and go but his priority will be them and he expects the same from them and got as well.

I remember in one of the old episodes where naina was avoiding him due to lice in her head the way he was tapping the pen to grab her attention was adorable. He was in love with her that time but still He can never stay even for a single minute without her attention. Really a good analysis.
Yesterday even I was thinking y he is talking like that but after reading your post I realized that how deeply he was hurt. I don't when and how he will come out of that.

Ya true if this is d reason then this boy was in love with her from their first phone conversation.If this is d reason for his out burst then I'm sure he will not forgive naina easily because yesterday she clearly stated that family is more important then him.Until and unless he feels that naina gives him equal importance for him as her family he will not be in good taking terms with her.Now I'm really scared because now this rishta talk will make him believe that naina is completely gone.Only thing that can bring him back is Naina showering him love n make him feel like earlier n that should be in her actions more than words but current situation dekhe aisa nehi lagta😭

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