Episode 26.07.2018...Dard Ka Rishta - Page 3

Originally posted by: -Ross-

Ohh Ohh violette, you chose the wrong day for experience.

I totally got lost in that scene even second time too, hence kuchh aaya hi nahi dimaag mein, bass Sam ka rudra avatar hi end result raha toh I didn't try either.

because jo naturally aata hai I write wahi sab, I don't force myself to find humour in everything, warna sach mein Agra jaana padta.😆😆

Baaki ki baatein post padhne ke baad.😃

Originally posted by: appukrish

Ahhh Ross, lovely episode..

All our questions and thoughts brought out by Sameer. Great acting by him today !

I remember Aarthi writing in one of Meher's post exactly this. Meher's post was whether the depression would also be a plan and Aarthi wrote that there is an outburst yet to come from Sameer and that will be the final try from his end. That's what we saw today.

But her last line showed how much she is also hurting but is not seeing a solution other than letting go of this love. I can only say pyar kiya nahin jaata ho jaata hai... and that is what happened here with these two.

In the days to come, I Wish Naina introspects what Sameer said and felt today. How deeply he is hurt.

As Sameer said she started the story and she decided to end it. And she will be the one to revive the story. How she will find the strength let's see.

Taiji and her typical thinking.

Originally posted by: AaishaM

Lo Ross, finally I am here. 😆

I watched a complete episode after ages and the episode was bang on. To episode par to Dil ki bhadaas Nikalni Banti hai. Haini haini?

Naina, Naina, Why did she not scold Sam inside the classroom? Why did she have to take him to the corridor and make a tamasha there? She insulted the person whom she claims to love the most (oops sorry vo to chachaji hain). She cares about her brother and father's respect (even when they are wrong) but she couldn't see that how badly she insulted the love of her life even when it is her damn fault. For the last few days, I have been so angry on Naina, not because she chose her family over Sam, not because she decided not to break her family's trust, I am angry because she gave up on Sam and their love without even trying. I really want to know where was family's love and trust when she used to make blank calls to a boy? Why didn't she think of Chachaji's love when she didn't study and failed the exams ( Don't get me wrong, I know she was in bad state. Even back then, the only problem I had that she never did introspect that she wronged her Chachaji). Why didn't she think of chachaji's trust when she hid money so that she could be with Sam in the same college ? ( People may call it a brave move to get back to her love but for me that was the most selfish thing any daughter can do to break the trust of the person who had always wished for her happiness and well being). And didn't she know that Agarwal and Maheshwari are two different sub castes all these years? Why didn't she think of all this when everytime she tested Sameer wanting to know whether his pyaar is shadi vala or not? Every girl knows how her family would react if she gets involved in an affair. Falling in love is not in you hands but it is certainly your call to bury those feelings when you know that your family won't ever agree to a love marriage. Still she chose to continue with her love story. Love is not only about hand holding and dedicating songs to each other. It's about standing with your partner in times like these. Who gave Naina the right to give up on their relationship cowardly? If she had tried, atleast Sam would have got a closure that his Naina stood up for their love but no, this girl chose an easier path, she chose to escape. I have been tagged Naina hater so I have to clarify that I do not hate Naina and I have always supported her, be it the bet phase, maafi phase, Sam's mawali track and even manhoosiyat phase. But this time she is wrong and I won't support her. She never opens her mouth whenever her brother, father, friends are wrong but whenever it comes to sameer, she is always ready to jump with accusations and anger. I know Sameer is no Saint, he had his shares of bad things to his credit too but so are others in the show but Naina ka gussa sirf Sameer pr niklega. Is this the same Naina who told Sameer in the hospital scene that she won't be able to love anyone else again because he had broken her heart? Now what is she doing? Breaking the heart of the person who had always rejoiced in her achievements and had tried to fulfill every wish of hers which her own father had always failed to do.

Sameer- I don't have words to express what pain he is going through. That guy has been living the life of a loner since he was a child. His nanu was the only person who understood him. And then came Naina, the girl who made him believe that someone could love Sameer too. Beneath ahe bad boy image he had, there was his Nanu's innocent naati, the real Sameer who always longed for his mother's love. Naina was the one who understood his pain, she was the ray of light in his world full of darkness. I still remember the day when Sameer wondered 'tum kis kahani ki pari ho Naina? She was indeed the fairy who brought love, happiness, care in his world. She made him believe that he was worthy of the love he was being showered upon. Her love made him bring all his hidden qualities to the fore. After his Nanu's death, Naina was the only support he had and now his life revolves around Naina.

And Naina, she knows all this. It's not like she doesn't know what Sameer has gone all through his life. She knows Sameer is emotionally dependent on her. She knows Sameer wouldn't be able to take this pain, yet she chose to leave him in the name of family's love and trust. The same family where a father never appreciated his daughter's presence and a brother never stood up for his sister. I would never want any person to choose his/her love over family but I would also not want anyone to leave your partner stranded in middle of nowhere to deal with things on his own. Naina needs to learn that she can not take people for granted. She has to appreciate the presence of people who care for her. When it was about Sameer, she never cared for Preeti, Chachaji and Chachi ji (yes, Preeti too because Preeti being the sister she is, deserves much more from Naina) . Now when it is about Chacha Chachi, she is ignoring Sameer's pain. She has to understand that she is not always right and she can not always takes decisions which hurt others.

I loved Sameer's outburst. Infact, he said everything that I wanted him to. But mjhe Laga nahi Naina par kuch asar hua. Vo to Nikal li ghar, Pooja krne. Vaise hoga' bhi kyu? Abhi pyaar Parivar aur Vishwas vala show chal Raha hai Na.

RD was fantabulous in that scene. For the first time, he overshadowed Ashi in an emotional scene (my POV ofcourse). The pain when Naina left, those tears and especially his expression on the line 'dil cheer ke dekh tera hi Naam hoga'. This guy has come a long way. Proud of him today.

Hmm so Sam is indeed slipping into depression. Those stills of him sleeping and taking Naina's name while sleeping, had me in tears. He didn't even hug his pillow. I could not see him in that state.

I so missed Nanu today. I don't know how he would have handled this situation but he would have surely eased out Sameer's pain.

P.S. Once again I would like to clarify that I don't hate Naina and neither do I dislike her for thinking about her parents. The only complain I have with her is that she gave up without even trying.

P.P.S. Sorry for the rant but I know is post ke alawa kahin bhadaas nahi Nikal paaungi.

And as always your post was hillarious yet bang on. Maza aaya pdh kr especially that Kai salon bad vala punch 😆

Originally posted by: truptishree

Hi Ross

Amazing episode and loved your one liners.

Can't believe for these people Naina is sacrificing her happiness. They don't deserve this and I really hope that she will elope and get married. Wishful thinking I know both Sameer and Naina will never do this. Such a good kiddos are they!

Again timeline confusion. Final exams also came. Now I have decided that I will not think about timeline I am just gonna enjoy the ride.

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5 stars and standing ovation from me for Randeep.

I am really proud of myself that I am a admirer of this talented kid.

Really looking forward to next episode.

Originally posted by: truptishree

Hi

I just loved your post.

You said those things which were also going on in my mind from some time.

Thanks for voicing them.