Are we in 2018 or in 1918

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Linee

@PM1774

Voyager

Posted: 7 years ago

Forum people ...where are you...My earnest request please give me patient hearing and act.

I am observing (without quoting any forum member s name) that some people are really after personal life s of the actors and actresses. I guess this is against forum rules, unnecessary propagation of imaginary couples ...when they could be actually just friends...not even friends only acquaintances...co workers...still people are linking them, writing comments ,going by some weird details in some videos and are gossiping in that look ...look... they are surely in a relationship. Some are writing that if not today in future they should become couples...and camouflaging the false propagation by giving names like "shippers and anti shippers...etc...what's this???

Look girls and guys...we work in offices and they work on sets, that's their workplace...we create good bonding in offices to have harmonious relationships ...and they also do the same. We at times go partying with office colleagues even post pictures in social media with them...same way they also do that. It s very unprofessional to judge actors and actresses on their personal space . It s their life, who are we, to judge their relationships...no one.

It s nice that we interact in this forum on the serial, so let s limit our comment and our thought process on the serial characters only, not peep in to their personal life s.

Everyone is free to give comments in the forum but I guess decorum is broken many times. It s not good...are we in 2018 or in 1918? please think it over...

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@PM1774

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Posted: 7 years ago

Thanks moderators for hearing me out

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Laksh2000

@Laksh2000

Inactive

Posted: 7 years ago

Toh aap hai woh dhanya mahapurush ya moral police jisne shipping thread ko report karwaya.

1918 mein tv series nahi the. Waise main bhi nahi paida huyi thi toh uss baare mein kuch bol nahi sakti.

2018 ke baare mein bolu tho.

Shipping is very common these days that too when the on screen Jodi is very popular.

We ship but dont cross any limits. mostly it is for fun. I don't think there is anything wrong in that. We dont bash any one.I don't understand what is the problem in that if u dont go overboard. I don't know why but when ever something goes wrong shippers r bashed and blamed.

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Linee

@PM1774

Voyager

Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: mrinalinimenon
Toh aap hai woh dhanya mahapurush ya moral police jisne shipping thread ko report karwaya.
1918 mein tv series nahi the. Waise main bhi nahi paida huyi thi toh uss baare mein kuch bol nahi sakti.
2018 ke baare mein bolu tho.
Shipping is very common these days that too when the on screen Jodi is very popular.
We ship but dont cross any limits. mostly it is for fun. I don't think there is anything wrong in that. We dont bash any one.I don't understand what is the problem in that if u dont go overboard. I don't know why but when ever something goes wrong shippers r bashed and blamed.

iljam laaganewali devi...grow up in life ...will be good for you and your environment...swacch dimag swacch Bharat hai ho

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Laksh2000

@Laksh2000

Inactive

Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: PM1774
iljam laaganewali devi...grow up in life ...will be good for you and your environment...swacch dimag swacch Bharat hai ho

Thank you for ur advice gyan guru. Thanks but no thanks. Don't plan to grow up as I already have personally as well as professionally. Sometimes it is good to b a little imperfect. I am happy that way. mera dimag kitna swach hai i dont need to prove it to any body.This is my last post to u as I don't believe in preaching too much and also wasting my time.

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Nishi

@NiShI678

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 7 years ago

I think we need to respect others choice . I don't ship . but if anyone else wants they can . its a personal choice.

There are two things I keep on telling with people I talk

When married actors are shipped no talks about single eligible couples with sizzling chemistry . there are actors who takes things very sportingly and as a complimet .I can name a lot. its a innocent wish to see your favorites as a real life couple.

Another thing is these signs fans talk I will not brush off as crazy imaginations as there are few couples who are real life couples today , have admited that fans sense the spark even before them .

Anything isn't bad as long as it's in limits and harmless . you always have the option to ignore things u don't like .

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@-HJ-

Rocker

Posted: 7 years ago

Well, then this post needs to be reported as well because one if the IF rules say no moral policing.

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mehraan

@mehraan

Trailblazer

+ 5

Posted: 7 years ago

i dnt understand y the shippers...Yup we the sane shippers are always dragged in...wats happened with RD..neither the forum ones r involved...nor we r a part of those hooligan rampage thre...We r coolly residing in our TERRITORY..our home ...our place...our very own THREAD n sighting harmless n funfilled discussions... WHY r others even peeping in when thry r not even INVITED or even PART OF IT?!!!...Neither we r forcing anyone us to join in..nor we r mocking others or troubling or even attacking members...Those who are doing the so called nuisance ,they r not from us ..i repeat v know our shipping Toli n dont entertain bashing ...Few bring on the instigations kyu ki UNKO KHUJLI HOTI HAI...😆who r neithr THE REAL shippers n the genuine ones like us are trapped...Wat we do n wat we discuss...its our choice as long as we are within the limits...Others hve no right to dictate us THEIR DOS N DONTS!!..Its a FREE world right...U TOO LIVE n LeT us LIVE PEACEFULLY...N yup regarding the forum world...MORAL Policing is strictly aint allowed...if rules hve to be followed...then this is a stringent one tooo...!!

Really amazed aaj kal har koi aja raha hai samjhane ko wat shud one do n wat not...jab ki v r old residents 😆😆 aware how to carry on our activities n contribution in the forum!!...Jab wen v we r in need,sab tho bhoot ...stalkers ...bankar atmao ke jaise firte hooo...😆...i want to kno y r we questioned on tis basis...wen v r equally motivating n trying our best in each n every possible way...Y is tat not seen??!!😆...Jus cos sme Shipping thread is opened to hve sme offscreen discussions n fun...the credibility of that members are judged or questioned...KYUN BHAI?!!😆 HUMSE kyun itni pareshani?!!

PS...THose who ship r called shippers😆😆...those who dnt or against...ANTI...its simple logic...Wats the difficulty in understanding the term...THOSE who r in between ...NEUTRAL😆...These r sme colorful phrases in shipping business...WELCOME ABOARD😆

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bmk28

@bmk28

Voyager

Posted: 7 years ago

Time has surely changed.. And social media has surely changed everything for everyone.. So preaching and controlling are not effective any more.. And thats from my experience of handling social media pages for corporate.. Celebrities are no different as they use SM for increasing their brand value only.. So same is applicable for this website as well and whats being done within that boundary should be fine.. If not then please spare your valuable time.. Please concentrate on people who go personal rather than people who talk within limits set by this webpage.. They are hazardous and your energy will bring out positive result for everyone.. Would appreciate that 😊

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SamAina_yudkbh

@SamAina_yudkbh

Voyager

Posted: 7 years ago

#10

well i do respect your opinion thread maker but,

i think unless and until the limits not crossed, the actors are not bashed, shipping is ok.

everyone is not practical. can not be. there are people who are romantic at heart. and as someone has said above it is innocent to wish your fav onscreen couple to be real life couple, especially if they are not committed elsewhere.

and the weird details you are talking about? yes sometimes the details ARE far fetched but sometimes they are sensible too.

people in general are not dumb the way they show in the serials. they do sense the sparks the signs.

there are so many couples in real life who were online couples once. e.g. ram gautami, gauri hiten, sanaya mohit, raquesh riddhi, ritwik asha, deepika shoeb... the list goes on.

so the shippers are not altogether wrong you see.

and you have given examples of general offices. so let me remind you that love stories happen in offices too. jodiyaan kahi pe bhi ban sakti hai .

it's absolutely wrong to make edits of onscreen couples to satisfy your own fantasies, tagging them in shipping posts, abusing them verbally when they post pics with their friends. this kind of shipping is abusive and obsessive .

but there is nothing wrong in harmless discussions about some romantic possibilities and drawing inferences from obvious and sensible signs when they are right in front of your eyes.

yes. in shipping there is always a possibility that your wish may not be fulfilled and there turns out to be nothing betn the said couple. this heartbreak hurts almost as bad as your own real life heartbreak but when you ship you should be ready for this.

and there is always possibility of your fantasies turning out to be true. and it brings almost as much happiness as your own story.

so yeah. emotional investment in shipping is subject to heartbreak risks but it's fun till it lasts.