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Posted: 7 years ago
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Honestly, I do not concur with this behaviour of Naina at all that throws all caution away..
Am ccp'ing a reply that I had made to a similar post earlier.. this is my take..

I agree with you all here..
I have always seen Naina as a tad self centred or might I say selfish. Now why do I feel this way?
She has most of the times put herself and her feelings for Sameer above all else. For ex. Not telling her best friend about her feelings for Sameer, when she very well knew that Swati too nursed feelings for Sameer. ok, maybe Naina was shy and didn't wanna reveal to Swati but am not buying that.
Again in that Romeo Juliet play, she didn't even think once before demanding to play Juliet again as to how Swati who has prepared laboriously for the role might feel with this act of hers. All Naina thought of was that she had to play Juliet opposite sameer. She didn't request her family even once to let Preeti to come along for the mount abu trip. These are just some of the examples that I picked up.

My point here is to not bash Naina but to share my perspective of her - someone who puts what she wants above all else and in this case, it's Sameer. So her inviting him to her room, and not taking Swati s consent to do so will be in line with her charectization so far. She has so far put all propriety away when it comes to Sameer. So I will not be surprised by this nightly sojourn of hers.


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Posted: 7 years ago
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Not fair actually...n not right too in my opinion...How bad or worse cum situation would be...she shouldnt have risked it or dared to do it!
But i wont pass my judgement soon ...will wait for the episode to air ...Jus wishing they both did go to princi or teachers room to talk abt it..n smethng happened that they had no option...i guess she might hve panicked seeing him feverish...still cnt say wat she did was rite!
Edited by mehraan - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Same here, not fair as shown in the precap but will reserve the judgement once the episode airs and we get a clearer picture.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Santiago24

Honestly, I do not concur with this behaviour of Naina at all that throws all caution away..

Am ccp'ing a reply that I had made to a similar post earlier.. this is my take..

I agree with you all here..
I have always seen Naina as a tad self centred or might I say selfish. Now why do I feel this way?
She has most of the times put herself and her feelings for Sameer above all else. For ex. Not telling her best friend about her feelings for Sameer, when she very well knew that Swati too nursed feelings for Sameer. ok, maybe Naina was shy and didn't wanna reveal to Swati but am not buying that.
Again in that Romeo Juliet play, she didn't even think once before demanding to play Juliet again as to how Swati who has prepared laboriously for the role might feel with this act of hers. All Naina thought of was that she had to play Juliet opposite sameer. She didn't request her family even once to let Preeti to come along for the mount abu trip. These are just some of the examples that I picked up.

My point here is to not bash Naina but to share my perspective of her - someone who puts what she wants above all else and in this case, it's Sameer. So her inviting him to her room, and not taking Swati s consent to do so will be in line with her charectization so far. She has so far put all propriety away when it comes to Sameer. So I will not be surprised by this nightly sojourn of hers.



I somehow agree to the fact that she placed Sameer above everything else but this I feel was bcoz she loved him... but I won't call her selfish as she placed Swati above everything when she was angry with Naina...

But this act if she does without her permission I would be highly disappointed
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: braveheartdoc


I somehow agree to the fact that she placed Sameer above everything else but this I feel was bcoz she loved him... but I won't call her selfish as she placed Swati above everything when she was angry with Naina...

But this act if she does without her permission I would be highly disappointed


Agree with Santi.I also found her self centred.In name of love one cant behave in an obsessive manner.Hers attitude in Romeo Juliet play or anything is tilting towards obsession rather than love specially when you have others also present in her life before Sameer.Whatever it is Naina has been disappointing soecially her dealings with Swati.Swati looks to be more a real friend .
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: mehraan

Not fair actually...n not right too in my opinion...How bad or worse cum situation would be...she shouldnt have risked it or dared to do it!

But i wont pass my judgement soon ...will wait for the episode to air ...Jus wishing they both did go to princi or teachers room to talk abt it..n smethng happened that they had no option...i guess she might hve panicked seeing him feverish...still cnt say wat she did was rite!


Hmm let's wait for tonight's episode 😉
I just hope they don't show anything stupid
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: ruchi3179


Agree with Santi.I also found her self centred.In name of love one cant behave in an obsessive manner.Hers attitude in Romeo Juliet play or anything is tilting towards obsession rather than love specially when you have others also present in her life before Sameer.Whatever it is Naina has been disappointing soecially her dealings with Swati.Swati looks to be more a real friend .


Let's see what happens tonight 😊
I wish she remains true to Swati this time😳
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Exactly..ek ladke ko apne room mein raat ko lane se pehle thoda to sochna chahiye.. reputation bhi to hoti h na khud ki..family ki!!
But again uska dimag Sameer se age kuch sochta hi nhi h
Edited by Anjali33 - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: braveheartdoc

Was it fair to allow your boyfriend in your room when you have your best friend too inside?

I personally don't agree to allowing him even if you're alone especially when it's not considered a good thing even today? Here we're witnessing a time in 90s 😕

Here she is playing with her reputation along with that of Swati who has no fault of hers

She could have easily taken him or told him to go and wake up the principal sir... but she didn't

How would Swati react to this...i feel someone needs to insert this thought in her mind..
But actually we don't need to...as it is she is going to come out of her fantasy world into reality

But I want to know your opinions whether you agree to such a thing?


Nice topic ..Copying something I wrote in another thread on the same topic...

I think Naina is by now so madly in love that she has completely lost all sense of reality and an awareness of people around her.It is not about right and wrong actually...She is just so lost that she doesn't realise the magnitude of her actions or the impact it can have..She is after all just a teenager and is experiencing these feelings for the first time..To top it all,she always lives in a dream world...So she is just doing what she feels like doing at the spur of the moment and is completely letting her heart dictate her actions.If she herself thought about it logically for sometime she would realise that she is wrong or going too far,but sometimes in love the most intelligent people do the stupidest of things and that is what Naina is doing.

I think it never crossed her mind to inform or not inform Swati..She was just so overwhelmed by her love for Sameer(as she has been for sometime now) that she simply couldn't see beyond him.Of course,almost no girl of the 90s or even today would do that unless she was crazily madly hopelessly in love...So it would be perfectly logical for her father to create a scene out of his..most parents would have lost it...

Basically,I don't support or agree with what she has done,but I am not going to be harsh on her or judge her for it.She is right now in a trance like state and is in no position to think of the consequences of her actions or to differentiate right from wrong.To top it all it is her first love and she is too young..She will burn her fingers badly and I am sure this experience will change her forever.

Edited by rock&roll - 7 years ago

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