Originally posted by: priyadarshini.r
Pb, if we have to be critical about everything Raman does and says, then nothing can be done about it and I don't think a explanation is needed there at all, because anyway it is not going to matter and the intent is never to understand him. So that is not a problem at all . This only shows the insensitivity to the whole illness. I replied because I knew this member had a genuine doubt regarding this and shared my thoughts.
But as a viewer, who really wants to understand the behavior, if we think rationally and without being biased and partial, this is the obvious reason that comes to our mind. It is harsh truth that Ishita is the reason, he is in this state and that incident had left a deep wound in him because of not trusting him as a husband, not thinking him capable enough of saving her and the accusations she made on him with words & not even wanting to meet him at that hour of crisis. He can be again mocked for not being man enough to deal with it, but the truth is it depends on the person who has undergone that hurt of not being of any help and trustworthy to the one person who means the world, would knows what he/s she would have gone through. That was the one reason that pushed him in to depression and it is very obvious for our conscious mind to push out and block things which can be deemed disturbing and troubling for it to process. As the doctor herself said that his mind is still fragile and will not be able to process or strain after getting so much of information. That is why she wanted Ishita to be patient with him and rekindle the memories with love, so that he and his mind slowly gets to register and process these thoughts, so that he remembers and also these thoughts help conquer over the already existing strong thoughts about her pushing him away. So it is only natural that he gets disturbed when it comes to her and none else. That is the reason he accepts Ruhi and Pihu without further flashes, fainting and with one photo. There is nothing to mock here, for those who are really sensitive and sensible enough to understand this problem.
Ishita fortunately enjoys the empathy even if it is high BP or low BP as to how she is stressed and will go in to depression because of Raman and his kids, but if the same Ishita turns out to be reason of depression for someone else, they becomes a point of mockery. Ishita gets to enjoy the support if she emotionally tortured everyone right from the kid to the elders in the bhooth track, Ishita gets to enjoy the support when she was calm all the way in this disgusting marriage drama, seeing very well how Pihu and her parents are stressed out , affected all the while and still plan or keep quite just with a sorry at the end. I got to know that in insta there were discussion on how he is playing with emotions of people around if he is in a plan. I was just wondering why? If Raman gets to understand few things, is up to something and wants to understand certain things and hence keeping quite, just like Ishita, he is playing with the emotions of people around?. I wonder then what do we term Ishita doing to elders, Raman and kids repeatedly called as? Emotionally enriching?🤓😕.
If we take all of Ishita's actions and super plans as something for the welfare of Raman and kids, I wonder why is this man not given that privilege? If Ishita not taking practical, logical path in every single plan of hers is justified in length , saying it is for sake of drama quotient, then Raman not revealing things known to him with a purpose cannot be for the same drama quotient?😕. Of course, practically if we speak, both of them are wrong to emotionally put others through this, but why is that one always gets a garland and the other a brickbat?😕. This is beyond my understanding and I don't think I will be ever able to understand at all😕
I 'm afraid if Taklu will give any kind of closure to this because whatever is his intent with regard to Raman as a character is never genuine and who actually cares what actually that character goes through with this illness? It is Raman, so anything and every pain he deserves and is a object of mockery. That is what is the perspective of Taklu and he has again succeeded to a certain extent in achieving this, may be🥱.
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