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Priya

@priyadarshini.r

Rocker

Posted: 7 years ago

#111

Originally posted by: eclipse123

Completely agree with your each line Priya👍🏼 Mihika-raman relationship is as pure as a real brother-sister.But like i say it's about the people's mentality towards raman & his relationships.If tmrw he hold neelu's hand & say a sorry then the same people wills say he is cheating ishita & he is in love with neelu.The main problem of these people is not with mihika but with the fact that she behave's respectfully with raman & she adore raman.If we see after romika enter to bhalla house after the leap there is no good scene with ishita mihika that much but there were scenes with raman mihika.So,these people can't digest the fact that someone support raman...remember how she support him when chuha's case occurred.Same goes with kiran she is a friend to RKB so she will get the bitter words but if we see now kiran is safe & no one is questioning her because she is not with raman.But tmrw if mihika started hating raman & side with ishita the same people will praise her.It's not about avantika or real mihika it's raman.If mihika verma had played this role after this leap & sided with raman then she would also get questioned for her relationship with raman for sure.Ishita...she can't be questioned because she is jagatmata,sp bahu & above all she is sacrificing her life for a janwar🥱.This is only a result of pseudo feminism & the anger that FL is with janwar till now & they are so much in love...they will not accept this fact so they will question raman's every action & the people who support raman too.If it's a lady then u know how they will question their relation isn't?🤢.Truly Priya i don't care about these type of people..fed up of them🥱and people who is questioning pihu's identity till now can't be redeemed/change like the character's in yhm.They didn't leave that child then who is mihika,kiran etc.They are not thinking by questioning pihu's identity they are questioning ishita itself🥱All said & done..now i don't care these type of people & their thought's😵

Yup... Perfectly put Pooja 👍🏼. I agree with all that you said. As you say, no point even discussing. We are educated, knowledgeable, employed, modern and empowered in our own proud way. We don't have to prove our thoughts to any random people and we should only ignore certain things&people to keep our knowledge and sanity intact. 😊. We will continue to do that.👍🏼😃

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Srividya

@moonwearer

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 7 years ago

#112

Somewhere the tone and tenor of Romi to Raman and Mihika to Ishu seemed alike but the way Romi spoke to Ishu was respectful.

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Pooja

@eclipse123

Voyager

Posted: 7 years ago

#113

At first Ishita leave pihu for why & with whom?No reason can forgive her mistake.But the why & with whom want to be answered for sure.If i remember crrectly then raman said ishita is a apashagun for him & his children & because of her ruhi died isn't..correct me if i'm wrong.That' why she leave her child she don't want to become a hurdle in ramn's life or her new born's life.Tht's the answer for why.And she leave her child with raman becasue she trust him that he will take care of their symbol of love because pihu is that child for whom raman did all the things that no one can think he gone out his character to give a life to pihu.So,that's answer for with whom.

And if we questioned her protectiveness towards ruhi & pihu.Then we want to go back to the time the first leap occur.By protecting pihu she lost ruhi.Then whom she protected pihu or ruhi?She did many wrong things as a wife but as a mother no she did mistakes for sure but she didn't show any inequality towards any of her children.If we remember adi-ruhi custody she did choose adi because she thought adi needed them more than ruhi then,and when nidh take pihu & ruhi she choose pihu because she needed her more then because she was a new born child.But in these two cases she tried to protect ruhi from shagun & from nidhi too.

Then now questioning why she is sending pihu to bhalla house.Then we want to know that the only way to protect pihu is taking custody of pihu from raman.Then the same people would have questioned her love for raman.Here she is trying to do the damage control.She is trying to save pihu & to give happiness to raman at the same time.She is in pain herself we saw her vulnerability when pihu was kidnapped.She is checking pihu too time to time.And from two days she was doing a good job too.

If we take ruhi...she was never in situation like pihu.True she had gone through abuse from nidhi but it was an open challenge for ishita & ishita was not helpless like now then too she had restrictions from ruhi but raman was with her.Now ishita is fully helpless because simmi is a trusted soul to all the people in bhalla house,she is a so called family memeber & because of her daughter's mistake she lost her child so a sympathy trigger is there too..so ishita have her limitations.The raman we see from two days who is starting to trust ishita will also change his colour if ishita tried to talk any ill about simmi.And now ishita doesn't run behind ruhi or adi because she know they are adult they can take care of themelf.But here pihu is not like that she needs her mother.And now too i trust she asked only raman about pihu after seeing pihu in boarding school because she trust pihu with him only...that was the same reason she leave pihu with him before first leap.Because she know pihu is his jaan.He is not telling jaan in a flow but it's the truth.If we see he did lived without ruhi & adi at one stage but he can't think about a life without pihu that's why ishita after knowing she is putting her daughter in danger is sending pihu to bhalla house.For raman.. pihu is that solace after ishita to him the symbol of their love.And for ishita pihu is her & raman's-ansh..she loves her daughter so much & she is protective too but here she is in a situation where she is stuck if she think about her daughter then she want to forget about her husband..she can select one at a time.She is trying to balance but no way we can say she is less protective towards pihu than any other child.

Edited by eclipse123 - 7 years ago

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Srividya

@moonwearer

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 7 years ago

#114

Pihu also carries the guilt of causing Ananyas death and our witch without a broom makes her believe those she loves will face danger or threat to their like. The child is so harassed and has been totally bereft of love in the last two years.