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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: sarunholic_arhi

Agree with u vyas

Today was a waste episode except for Ruman scene in the remand home
only saving grace was Kp's acting
He was too brilliant in portraying a pain of a father whose daughter is stuck in a remand home
But yes He was pretty rude and cold towards Ishita
It's not the way u treat your whom u claims to love
But then even I don't understand Ishita
She is making plans with sautan come saheli chameleon Shaggy maa and good for nothing hawaldaar yet didn't involved Raman in her plan
The storyline has gone into the drains and so are the characters because this was not the 'Raman ' and 'Ishita' we were introduced .
Both were sensitive towards each other and even when they used to have nok jhok they used to take care of the fact that they don't each other
But these Raman and Ishita are just the figments of the Ishra because they neither respect each other nor trust each other
They do love each other n care for each other but then they don't respect n trust each other and these r the fundamental things of a marriage which they r lacking
Waise I think both Raman and Ishita are not different from another .
They both snatch each others right ..
One does this by his words and the other does this by her actions
dono ram milaye jodi hain .
And I don't understand why is she leaving the house to 'protect' her children from Raman ? Is he an outsider or a criminal .For god sake he is the damn father of the kids and loves them
It would had been ok if she was leaving for her self respect but yahan toh she's leaving to protect her children from the janwaar n impulsive Raman🥱
And she is giving lectures on ethics is a joke
She have done all illegal n unethical things during bhoot track along with that whitest of white shaggy maa n her chamcha hawaldaar who is good fr nothing so wasn't that wrong on her part ?
Wouldn't that have an impact on children so why only Raman is to be blamed ?
Both Ishra r wrong n need some proper counselling in how to nibhaofy your marriage because certainly both don't know how to nibhaofy their marriage




Perfectly put zo

There is lack of respect and trust in their relationship

Raman atleast feels guilty

Ishita never feels bad about how she treats Raman

She does not feel how Raman will feel about what she does behind her back

Ishita today was practically degrading ramsn today
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Posted: 8 years ago
#22
Well we can't deny that Raman behaviour towards ishita has been pretty bad

You can't treat your wife like garbage

We will come to ishita behaviour when it comes in the show
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Posted: 8 years ago
#23

Originally posted by: priyadarshini.r


Agree, Both are wrong in not respecting a relationship. Both has to understand that it is marriage and not competition, not Raman alone. Even now, Raman took the help of only family members and not someone like shagun who has time and again questioned & taunted, Ishita's identity as a complete woman, wife and mother and went on to kidnap and kill her. When people have problems when Raman brings in Shagun in their lives, when Ishita does so, it is loaded with justifications. Fair enough, but it would be great if there is no expectation from all of us to think that way as well. because what is wrong is wrong, be it raman or Ishita.
Also, with all due respect to your thoughts, all of us had problems with Raman using those words back then as well. I remember you were also one of those who constantly spoke about Raman & Shagun and have been constantly telling that he would live-in with shagun for pihu ke liye even after the second leap. Right? Did we ask you why you had such a thought and advised you not to complaint about it? We just ignored your comments totally na? It would be great, if you also maintain the same respect for other's, if you don't agree about our views now, because Ishita is equally at fault here. she cannot hurl accusations that he is unethical and unsafe for her kids, specifically when she is just back from an equally unethical way of rescuing her daughter and endangering the life of her daughter, in the first place. It is like pot calling the kettle black. So may be it is ishita giving it back, it is good she is doing it, but it cannot be on these grounds of ethics. Had it stopped at the level of her rights as a mother and him blaming her, I would agree. Bringing in ethics and security of kids was totally hilarious and disgusting, according to some of us. I feel you should respect our views and ignore if you don't agree to it, rather than telling us what to do and what not do. Hope I made my point clear. Thank you.😊



Thanks for lecture which not needed as I didn't say wrong, but i know my limits very well and I hope u do same



Edited by 3fra - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
#24

Originally posted by: RightWingTroll

Well we can't deny that Raman behaviour towards ishita has been pretty bad

You can't treat your wife like garbage

We will come to ishita behaviour when it comes in the show



from the seg it looks like tragedy me comedy now mr and mrs bhalla romi all will leave the house.

and yah seg is completely diff from the show
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Posted: 8 years ago
#25

Originally posted by: momb24

Whose looking forward to two mother's putting a bomb on their enemy nidhi😆?

Ishita walking out the door for herself is fine but I think some are misunderstanding why many have a issue. There was no need to show she's protecting the kid from raman.


Precisely, my point. I don't know why many have a problem with our points and projecting as if we are talking against Ishita taking a stand and want Ishita to be treated as a doormat.

I know how much have I supported Ishita after first leap, how much I wanted a confrontation between the two after the first leap, agreed with her when she slapped Raman for his abuses, when Pihu went with shagun, and repeatedly told that I was disgusted with Raman owning and disowning Ishita as mother at will and even this track I blamed him for using his motor mouth and wanted him to respect her. People were OK with it all the while, but one point against Ishita involving shagun in this and her hypocrisy of talking about ethics and safety, when she herself has not done that in first place and how she should have stopped with her motherhood and blame game, we are being criticized and told off. Strange are the expectations in this forum. 😕
Edited by priyadarshini.r - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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it was actually a waste episode
only good thing was kps acting and ruman scene
the whole episode was about planning
raman was very cold towards ishu but I felt it was more of his fear of being caught doing this illegal thing
he was very nervous and scared u could make out from his body language
so it was again romi and param emotionally blackmailing him into accepting to it
the trp audience will now sympathise with ishu and won't have any problem in ishu taking shagun and demoted ACPs help make Raman the villain
in the segments had ishu left the house for her self respect and becoz she is hurt by Ramans words I would have been ok with it but her saying that Raman is not a good example for the kids becoz he did something unethical to free his daughter was uncalled for
he had not done the same thing to free ishu from jail that time it was not unethical??
she herself took the illegal way to free ruhi than why is she lecturing Raman about it??
whose houses are made of glass shouldn't throw stones on others
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rarukaru

Jaise raman ka ishita ko ye bolna ki tum ruhi ki maa nahi ho galat h

Waise hi ishita ka baar baar apne baccho ke liye akele decisions lena raman ko bilkul ignore kar na galat h for example adi aliya track and this track

Jaise raman ka ishita ko ye bolna ki tum manhoos ho mere bsccho se dur raho tumhara aur ruhi ka rasta alag h galat h
Utna hi ishita ka ruhi aur pihu ko literally raman se ye kehkar dur le jana ki raman is not setting good example for my daughters wo mere baccho par galat effect dalenge issiliye main unhe is ghar se le ja rahi hu galat h

So both r equally wrong
But no use of ranting




Well that does not mean ramsn behaviour was correct
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Ishra fight , misunderstanding forced one not convinced at all
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Posted: 8 years ago
#29

Originally posted by: DikshaN

it was actually a waste episode
only good thing was kps acting and ruman scene
the whole episode was about planning
raman was very cold towards ishu but I felt it was more of his fear of being caught doing this illegal thing
he was very nervous and scared u could make out from his body language
so it was again romi and param emotionally blackmailing him into accepting to it

the trp audience will now sympathise with ishu and won't have any problem in ishu taking shagun and demoted ACPs help make Raman the villain
in the segments had ishu left the house for her self respect and becoz she is hurt by Ramans words I would have been ok with it but her saying that Raman is not a good example for the kids becoz he did something unethical to free his daughter was uncalled for
he had not done the same thing to free ishu from jail that time it was not unethical??
she herself took the illegal way to free ruhi than why is she lecturing Raman about it??
whose houses are made of glass shouldn't throw stones on others


Nice review Diksha. Well written points 👏.

@bold - I watched this specific scene now and I completely agree with you regarding his fear. No, I'm not justifying him using harsh words on her. He is wrong completely. But if we watch closely, when she came in, he was talking about getting Ruhi out, he was in fear and disconnected the call. Ishita asked him, why did he disconnect seeing her. Only then he replied don't attach too much importance to you. He went and slept in Ruhi's room because he wanted to pack some of Ruhi's dresses as per instructions from that man. When Romi came in, he was hell terrified if something would go wrong with Ruhi by this method and he was also not totally convinced. When Ishita came in and asked, what are you doing, when he was packing her dresses, he did not want her to know and hence was acting rude with her. Again, I am not justifying his act, but just telling you that I also saw the scene on the same lines, but also found him to be rude with Ishita, because of this reason.

If you have went ahead and disrespected his words, not even felt the need to accept it before him, but keep saying I can't think bad for Ruhi alone, he would naturally keep venting out. That is why I said, had she accepted her fault and given him some space, he might have cooled down. Anyways, his motor mouth is also a reason in this mess and that becomes a reason to justify all of her mistakes and sweep it under the carpet. Khair. 🥱




Edited by priyadarshini.r - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
#30

Originally posted by: DikshaN

it was actually a waste episode
only good thing was kps acting and ruman scene
the whole episode was about planning
raman was very cold towards ishu but I felt it was more of his fear of being caught doing this illegal thing
he was very nervous and scared u could make out from his body language
so it was again romi and param emotionally blackmailing him into accepting to it
the trp audience will now sympathise with ishu and won't have any problem in ishu taking shagun and demoted ACPs help make Raman the villain
in the segments had ishu left the house for her self respect and becoz she is hurt by Ramans words I would have been ok with it but her saying that Raman is not a good example for the kids becoz he did something unethical to free his daughter was uncalled for
he had not done the same thing to free ishu from jail that time it was not unethical??
she herself took the illegal way to free ruhi than why is she lecturing Raman about it??
whose houses are made of glass shouldn't throw stones on others

i thought sirf main hi hu jise laga ki raman apne illegal way ko ishita se chupane ke liye aise behave kar raha h
Yes i agree with u
Mujhe bhi wo apne way ko chupane ki koshish karta najar aaya
Because jab use hi ye plan sahi nahi lag raha tha to ishita to kabhi bhi agree na karti is plan se

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