thankyou krishy I hope I spelled ur name right. I agree nd respect or POV .While people, including myself, joke about "IshGun" as a way to bring some light-heartedness to this show...I appreciate your review
It sounds promising that they allowed both Ishita and Raman to voice their perspectives. As both have screwed up in this track to varying degrees based on one's perspectiveI don't feel a divorce is needed but rather maturity from Ishita and Raman. Divorce is a cheap way out of this and lacks maturity and sensibility.Ishita needs to tell Raman how she feels when he yells crass things and take a stand that she won't tolerate it. But Raman also needs to express how her keeping things from him belittles him and is disrespectful to him.Ishita being yelled at by Ishita is pathetic as is Raman being treated like he does not matter to Ishita when it comes to making decisions or managing their kids.No matter what is said, I find both equally culpable because both are wrong and equally disrespectful to the other.Everyone can see how Ishita is being disrespect clearly and no one argues that...but just for a second - I ask people to imagine being Raman...your spouse and love does not respect you enough to tell you how they feels or what they is planning, rather they go behind your back despite your requests. It hurts. It hurts to have someone make you feel you are unneeded.To be truly unbiased - I feel both perspectives have to be thought. I am not unbaised but I can feel the hurt Ishita feels when Raman yelled yesterday and her desperation today but I can also feel how hurt Raman is for being treated useless. He had a plan too and one request for his wife, showing that he WAS being proactive and I think in a relationship this matters...that both have a voice that is heard and listened to.I am happy they have shown Ishita reflecting on her part in Ruhi's currention situation and really really hope to see Raman reflect on his yelling and Ruhi reflect on her treatment of her parents in this track (ie manipulation of Ishita's emotions and open disrespect of Raman)