Rajma idli daily rantings - Page 4

Originally posted by: CharmGal

Not sure if I agree with you mancityfan and Muskan was correct that Raman had full rights to challenge her actions.


From what I have understood is that he had clearly acknowledged and amended his words by saying she is a mother and felt responsible for her death as he knew he had crossed his lines with his harsh words. However he was justified to be angry that Ishita took the coward way by allowing them to think she died and ran away from their kids thus in my opinion she had lost her rights as a mother. What kind of a mother would do that? She raised Aliya but not her own. Raman was frustrated with Ishita, yes he had said things wrongly to her but he said in anger and was scared about a life without his daugther. He spoke without actually listening his own words which I think he would rectify if she gave him a chance basically coming back home after mani saved her. She owed it to her surviving children Adi and Pikhu and Raman. But she ddidn't and according to Raman at this moment she didn't care about their family their kids that she left didn't come back. It's had been 7 years. Raman was wrong but Ishita was equally wrong.

So again Amma and Raman are justified in their words. If everyone took seriously and walked out when their hubands or wives have said harsh words in anger and without meaning too but they did it due to their frustrations of the cirsumstances. And not giving their parnter another chance to clarify their words - there would be high divorce rates in the soceity.

Originally posted by: --mancityfan--

No

You got me wrong

Raman and amma asked correct questions

I agree with them

But tone of dialogues were such

It was as if Raman was doing wrong

Originally posted by: sarunholic_arhi

I feel both are at fault but this is getting too much.

Raman needs to realise what his words had done to Ishita.

Mani is really a Shani

Ishita should also realize her mistake.they need to communicate

Raman's words are doing more damage.

For once I need to see Ishita explode on others regarding why she didn't come back.

She is also a huma

Originally posted by: ramishi

@bold...No offence but there is a limit to everything...if a husband accuses an infertile woman as step mom and baanjh irrespective of whether he means it or not the wife will surely divorce him. Since its a show and ishita is a SP fl so no such thing will happen here. imo

Of course there are limit and I meant it this as generally speaking but seriously it is riduluous that Ishita allowed them (her parents, children and even husband) to think that she was dead when she is alive. No matter what they didn't deserve that.

The pain of losing your loved one is heartbreaking that no words can explain and for her to that to them even his harsh words doesn't give her the right to pretend her death to them. Raman probably felt 7 years pain of losing his wife whereas Ishita was hurt with his words but chose to walk away and without challenging Raman for his words. She should come back and challenge him with his words but at the end of the day it is a fictional show.

Edited by CharmGal - 9 years ago

Originally posted by: CharmGal

I do humbly apologise for misinterpreting your words, I will admit that actings done in today's performance was over the top.

Originally posted by: 3fra

it's all because of shani & his sick daughter

if the family or ishra meet in different situations the ending will be different