Need to share

Being an ardent YHM fan and not letting go one single episode it has come to such an extent that I now watch it once in a while. Not because of the acting, OTT or smthg but just because I do not encourage things like surrogacy/miscarriage n so on being a topic for serials to achieve high TRPs.

However, here I need to mention few words which I have been thinking now for a while:

1. How much we will rant, call SP or do petitions on Twitter-in the end its not going to work. Seriously, if we complain each time when there is a new plot (regardeless of how stupid/cruel/illogical) , one day SP n Balaji is not going to take us anymore serious. This is whats happening. Do u really think they r going to change the plot? No. In the end its all about TRP. N lets be honest though many say they will stop/or many stopped already watching it there r still 100 000 people out there who do. not becuase they r YHMians like us but just Time-passing

2. I hate ShaRam together even referring them with this name gives me goosebumps. But again this is 'just' a serial. To be honest in reality Raman would have left Ishita the moment when Shagun became good again-since she was his love. (Please dont get mad at me-but thats the truth).

But since YHM is a serial n is all bout ISHRA's love (or not) what I hated the most today was how Raman looked at Shagun. People from YHM should decide whether they want to show Raman doing all the surrogacy thingy for Ishita or just out of self fish reason. I hated Raman's look at Shagun-Dude she is ur EX wife who dumped u.

3.I know i might get bashed now, but I need to say this. When Param tried to molest Ishu I thought: 'Good thats it-ISHRA separation coming up.' BUT no. Raman was shown as sensitive n respectful to his 'wife' whom he had married (at that time no love). Then later when Mani came it was scarry to such an extent I was pretty sure that a separation was about to come. BUT no-AGAIN I was wrong. Now the seperation. To be honest-I love ISHRA n DIVAN their chemistry is awesome. But sometimes u need to add some spices otherwise having the same thing for long looses attention. Hence, also here I find the leap & seperation not a bad idea. BUT (!!!!!) the reason of it is utterly crap n disgusting-for a woman like Shagun this is not at all justified. I would start doubting what kind of person RKB is-once a person ditches me n foremost my child is as equal as 0 to me.

In summary (sry for the long message):

Its good that CVs are seeing that we r not happy however THEY DONT CARE. N though I dont like ISHRA seperated it can b for the serials good HOWEVER Balaji n SP PLEASE dont play around with a mother's/child's n foremost HUMAN being's emotion by showing forging signatures on surrogacy reports or having it by the EX wife. I just think being a woman-this whole topic affects me hugely hence i stopped watching it. Its not about a jewellery or a saree its about a new life of a human being.

Thanks for hearing me out n sry for the long mssg :)

Agree with you.

I couldn't stand the way Raman drooled at Shagun. It cannot be interpreted as a caring, concerned look for the surrogate mother of his child.

What is the relevance of Shagun in Raman's life now?

Surrogate mother of his child?

Certain facts are undeniable:

1) Shagun is the one who conferred him the privilege of fatherhood. But is it obligatory to be in her reins forever?

Yes, it's true Raman loved Shagun crazily, fawned over her.

2) But she is the ruthless woman who deserted him (and their six-month old infant) for the moneyed Ashok.

About the black sari Shagun wore?? It's not convincing that Shagun who left Raman and his middle class ways about seven years ago, for the rich Ashok to be a socialite has not changed her wardrobe...Unbelievable!! The black sari looks expensive too, which Raman definitely couldn't afford those days. The same about the black suit she wore during Adi's accident track. It's just to show Shagun still holds sway over Raman. The accident track clearly brought this out.

Raman never had a vengeful attitude to Shagun. On very few occasions he taunted, and shouted at her. But with Ishita he hollers often, takes her for granted. His fidelity is questionable. He is a hard nut to crack. If he loves Ishita, as we all want to believe, how he can be insensitive to her feelings and thoughts. His stubborn decision for surrogacy and the secret moves with Shagun end up stabbing Ishita in her back.