I am only talking here about the whole ADULTERY issueMaking villians is not what I am doing or someone else is...Its choice here again...You want to be considerate yo will be, else no...WHATEVER repercussions your choices will have...(On your family and life..On your kids if you have any...on your relationship with your husband if you are still together)Where did I say its wrong to live by oneself ?? Its as UTOPIAN as saying I am not living in this world...or saying I am the only one living in this world...Living by oneself here I meant without chains and bondages...not the independent types...Even if you are independent, you will be guarded, you like it or not !!We live in a Patriarchal society!!! Accept the fact!!! I know we arent treated equally...Some say it is decided by men when we should return because we are cared for by them and some say its MCP BEHAVIOUR...choice AGAIN HERE WHICH INTERPRETATION YOU FOLLOW!!