SS13 Holds & Fillings on 132 - Page 116

Originally posted by: Hsp.canada

Very wisely
written, indeed parenting is tedious but also very gratifying.

I read this quote
when in the hospital when I had my first born and I clicked it & saved it.

Children are not casual guests in our home. They have been
loaned to us temporarily for the purpose of loving them and instilling a
foundation of values on which their future lives will be built.

Parenting
has made me more patient actually I feel I am evolving to be a better person. I
am not only thinking about them but also thinking about the society, community
and I feel more and do more for the under privileged ones now. I think as a
parent you learn to defer many of your own choices, needs in favor of our children demands.
I hope and wish that our kids learn this practice and have this nobility is instilled
in their character.

I
think parenting is all about taking responsibility and one should take only if
they are ready for it. I marrried young (23) I wasnt ready for it and I waited good 5 years before I had them.I have no right
to judge anybody who doesn't have children. It's their choice, oops I mean an option.. I leave it at
that. But I often wonder what will be their legacy to the society?

Anyway
for me I love it. Its an experience to view things from their perspective and
learning from these mini humans . All that anguish, tiredness that I feel sometimes
just vanishes in a sec when they say you are the best mom.

RnB needs to think about his dad not just judge him based on what happened? He should think about the time before the scandal!<font face="Arial, sans-serif">To err is human to forgive is divine. He needs to listen to his side of the story or no story, talk once then make the call.</font>

Wow Shev aka Bandu Vandu!! Well said ... So deep

Originally posted by: Hsp.canada

Very wisely written, indeed parenting is tedious but also very gratifying.

I read this quote when in the hospital when I had my first born and I clicked it & saved it.

Children are not casual guests in our home. They have been loaned to us temporarily for the purpose of loving them and instilling a foundation of values on which their future lives will be built.

Parenting has made me more patient actually I feel I am evolving to be a better person. I am not only thinking about them but also thinking about the society, community and I feel more and do more for the under privileged ones now. I think as a parent you learn to defer many of your own choices, needs in favor of our children demands. I hope and wish that our kids learn this practice and have this nobility is instilled in their character.

I think parenting is all about taking responsibility and one should take only if they are ready for it. I marrried young (23) I wasnt ready for it and I waited good 5 years before I had them.I have no right to judge anybody who doesn't have children. It's their choice, oops I mean an option.. I leave it at that. But I often wonder what will be their legacy to the society?

Anyway for me I love it. Its an experience to view things from their perspective and learning from these mini humans . All that anguish, tiredness that I feel sometimes just vanishes in a sec when they say you are the best mom.

RnB needs to think about his dad not just judge him based on what happened? He should think about the time before the scandal! To err is human to forgive is divine. He needs to listen to his side of the story or no story, talk once then make the call.

key is only if they are ready for it but my deal after having kids is i completely understand if someone doesnt want kids i actually get it ,earlier there was this notion kids take care of you when u age now its not that either its the joy and if you find it else where its fine .
I actually know of couples who dont want kids and are pursuing what they like travel,social service u name it and i think its wrong of me to judge their way and the husband and wife are totally in sync so that life is not bad too IMO they are leaving a positive impact just not with kids.

Originally posted by: Hsp.canada

I like Rahul Bose!

We have a day off from school today, I havent seen Jhankar beats , maybe will watch tonight.

Season 3 of House of Cards is bit slow, Claire is annyoing me 😆

I feel she is a bit too man looking if there was such a word 😆😆 for me season 3 was better than season 2 and season 1 was the best .
but u will be surprised what happens in the end..

After reading the the last two updates on the butter ball and the pranksters who went one up on R&B and posting my comments for the same I am done catching up with the other comments in the thread starting last evening...thank God for the small mercies of the temporary afternoon calm /lull that the thread provides once in way before it's time for the rangeele nights again where it burns everything at sight...
So last night was the garden city 'Bengaluru'.Bangalore will remain dearest in my memories as the first seven months after my marraige was spent there , our trips to French Loaf,the bakery there ,wkend visits to restaurants Eden park, Windsor pub ,casa Blanca to name a few at Cunningham road and who can forget Mavalli MTR and their silverware cutlery.
The diversity in topics from the by lanes of koramangala, jayanagar to the hilly dharamshala and the garhwal rains of the Himalayan ranges...not to forget the story and the diversified reaction it brings to each update ... Madam writer calls it a watering hole...Truly Sosy is a melting pot of cultures , or we can call it the salad bowl or mosaic mixture of various ingredients yet retaining their individual characteristics. Perhaps, it's this diversity that makes SoSy what it is and at the same time creates the challenges that it faces now and then...
👏

key is only if they are ready for it but my deal after having kids is i completely understand if someone doesnt want kids i actually get it ,earlier there was this notion kids take care of you when u age now its not that either its the joy and if you find it else where its fine .
I actually know of couples who dont want kids and are pursuing what they like travel,social service u name it and i think its wrong of me to judge their way and the husband and wife are totally in sync so that life is not bad too IMO they are leaving a positive impact just not with kids.

Originally posted by: TanjoreGirl

I feel she is a bit too man looking if there was such a word 😆😆 for me season 3 was better than season 2 and season 1 was the best .
but u will be surprised what happens in the end..

Originally posted by: Hsp.canada

key is only if they are ready for it but my deal after having kids is i completely understand if someone doesnt want kids i actually get it ,earlier there was this notion kids take care of you when u age now its not that either its the joy and if you find it else where its fine .
I actually know of couples who dont want kids and are pursuing what they like travel,social service u name it and i think its wrong of me to judge their way and the husband and wife are totally in sync so that life is not bad too IMO they are leaving a positive impact just not with kids.



have fun !

Originally posted by: Errantnomad

After reading the the last two updates on the butter ball and the pranksters who went one up on R&B and posting my comments for the same I am done catching up with the other comments in the thread starting last evening...thank God for the small mercies of the temporary afternoon calm /lull that the thread provides once in way before it's time for the rangeele nights again where it burns everything at sight...
So last night was the garden city 'Bengaluru'.Bangalore will remain dearest in my memories as the first seven months after my marraige was spent there , our trips to French Loaf,the bakery there ,wkend visits to restaurants Eden park, Windsor pub ,casa Blanca to name a few at Cunningham road and who can forget Mavalli MTR and their silverware cutlery.
The diversity in topics from the by lanes of koramangala, jayanagar to the hilly dharamshala and the garhwal rains of the Himalayan ranges...not to forget the story and the diversified reaction it brings to each update ... Madam writer calls it a watering hole...Truly Sosy is a melting pot of cultures , or we can call it the salad bowl or mosaic mixture of various ingredients yet retaining their individual characteristics. Perhaps, it's this diversity that makes SoSy what it is and at the same time creates the challenges that it faces now and then...
👏

i normally have no clue what happens in the night US time and this time nobody but shev and me are there most of the time :-)

I hope there is no barish talk today 😆 just because I really have a big urge to eat malpura from yesterday.

For people's info...ss14 is started