selfish and spineless family

I really dont understand this family , during rinky's wedding , even when it was not Ishita's fault , still That Toshi stupid is screaming at her... lungs out , and blaming all to ishita in front of whole world and now when her son is at fault , instit of questioning him , she is standing and asking ishita to calm down , i mean whats this ? and also all others are also standing like a puppet , not asking Raman , as to why he did that .

We know that what he did is for Adi , fine this gives the message that for him Adi is everything and he is ready to loose Ruhi over Adi and ready to let her suffer the pain what Adi has been suffering till now, ... 🤢

i want to ask , that whats the guarantee that in future , Ruhi will also feel the same like Adi is feeling now ? then ? what will he do ? nothing at all ? he is fine to let her suffer in her life just because she is a girl ? or he actually thought that living with ishita since last 1+ year , she will also become like Ishita - ' Jagat Mata' ...then I think he is at big mistake ...because by abandoning a child over other gives equal wrong message to the other child and may be Ruhi will never ever able to love this family ...and I really want her to do that as this selfish family really dont deserve the good people around them 🤢

No offense to any one or any particular actor , i just want to let out my frustration after watching today's SBS segment ...may be in future we get to see something other , may be ruhi will come back ... but for now cant able to digest this frustration of what they are doing to Ruhi , in order to save Adi , and let her suffer in the hands of shagun even knowing that Ruhi doesnot like shagun nor shagun cares or love her 😭 ...Poor soul , God never send such an angel in this stupid family 😭