My view:RKB to take their relation to next level,he needs Adi with him

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Raman to take their relation to next level... he needs Adi with him.
Well, this is being said 😲 and I'm double shocked seeing so many people liking it. 😲😲

It sounds catchy while defending Ishita but sadly it's been interpreted completely out of context. He meant he wanted to move on without any hurdles. He never said that he wouldn't complete their marriage if Adi is not here. He tried to move on (gets physical with Ishita) many times before but unfortunately she didn't reciprocate. Ishita never for once tried to initiate the first step nor she tried to say ILU. Now If we say "Ishita never wanted Raman or didn't want to move on with him
" --wouldn't it be just a blind accusation?

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Posted: 10 years ago
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My view on current situation:

Ishita is obsessed with Ruhi and Raman is obsessed with Adi. Period. And their obsessions hurt their spouses badly at times. Just because Raman is a biological father, his obsession is bad and Ishita is a non-biological mother, her obsession is good or natural--this is a ridiculous assumption. And, I won't buy the cliche saying of parental love overpowers everything coz this is not the case here. Parental love is one thing and obsession is completely a different thing. Another funny thing is that many people are now giving "mother's love overpowers wife's love" clause, the same people were suggesting Raman to choose between Ishita and Adi! I guess a father's love doesn't count much since he is a father!

Ishita eloping with Ruhi is a bad move from CVs. They wanna show Ishita is terrified, hence she takes a rash decision. On the other hand, it can be viewed that Ishita needs Ruhi only, no one else matters to her.

By the way, if Raman chases them down and hits Ishita with a folded paper to knock some sense into her like the airport scene; will it be termed as domestic violence at a public place? 😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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don't have much to say other than yes both are obsessed with their kids, which is unhealthy. although, I like that ishita is finally lashing out. she is too controlled and calm for my liking, it is unrealistic.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Raman never said he will not go physical with Ishita if adi is not there...
But yes I agree that parental love is superior above all... I have seen in reality... yes ishita running away shows her to be weak but the fear of losing ruhi had made her do it... and coming to raman he loves adi and he blamed ishita earlier.. did he mean it?? no he didn't he was wrong for accusing her... but it was the father in him who is obsessed as u say but I say loves his son...
The basic problem with these two idiots is they don't share things with each other... Heights of it... first raman made a deal with shagun hiding from ishita.. and ishita ran away with ruhi without telling raman...
When will they learn to sit and solve together rather than have a go at every situation individually...
Cv sucks
Edited by ishra_bestluv - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: DiyaRathore

My view on current situation:

Ishita is obsessed with Ruhi and Raman is obsessed with Adi. Period. And their obsessions hurt their spouses badly at times. Just because Raman is a biological father, his obsession is bad and Ishita is a non-biological mother, her obsession is good or natural--this is a ridiculous assumption. And, I won't buy the cliche saying of parental love overpowers everything coz this is not the case here. Parental love is one thing and obsession is completely a different thing. Another funny thing is that many people are now giving "mother's love overpowers wife's love" clause, the same people were suggesting Raman to choose between Ishita and Adi! I guess a father's love doesn't count much since he is a father!

Ishita eloping with Ruhi is a bad move from CVs. They wanna show Ishita is terrified, hence she takes a rash decision. On the other hand, it can be viewed that Ishita needs Ruhi only, no one else matters to her.

By the way, if Raman chases them down and hits Ishita with a folded paper to knock some sense into her like the airport scene; will it be termed as domestic violence at a public place? 😆


Divya, Adi was never Raman's - he hated Raman. Due to ishita now atleast he is okay with Raman and likes the Bhallas. And legally he was never Raman's. Now due to the GKC rant, Raman took this short route of bribing Shagun and is about to lose Ruhi forever! Do you understand the repurcussions of his mistake? Adi wanted Raman to go back to Shagun- so obviously that wud be ridiculous, not coz raman loves Adi or not, will he love living with Shagun now? here ishita is not choosing Ruhi over Raman, she is just protecting Ruhi- Raman is hers anyways. She does not want Ruhi to be an injured pawn like Adi was earlier in these games, she is perhaps waiting for monday when the courts open or is out looking for that judge... she is not separating from Raman.

And what kind of behaviour Raman was having with ishita all week? Why is he hiding so many things from her? And so much over confidence?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: DiyaRathore

By the way, if Raman chases them down and
hits Ishita with a folded paper to knock some sense into her like the
airport scene; will it be termed as domestic violence at a public place?
😆



Lol. 🤣 Offcourse, it will be called domestic violence as according to some people, Ishita is always right and Raman is always wrong. Ishita ne same cheez ki toh theek, how cute is that and if Raman does the same thing, how rude he is. 😡
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: ishra_bestluv

Raman never said he will not go physical with Ishita if adi is not there...

But yes I agree that parental love is superior above all... I have seen in reality... yes ishita running away shows her to be weak but the fear of losing ruhi had made her do it... and coming to raman he loves adi and he blamed ishita earlier.. did he mean it?? no he didn't he was wrong for accusing her... but it was the father in him who is obsessed as u say but I say loves his son...
The basic problem with these two idiots is they don't share things with each other... Heights of it... first raman made a deal with shagun hiding from ishita.. and ishita ran away with ruhi without telling raman...
When will they learn to sit and solve together rather than have a go at every situation individually...
Cv sucks

agreed...sums it up for me
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Posted: 10 years ago
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A whole new post on my comment... thanks.
Not interested in raman vs ishita... continue ur discussions:)
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: appuss

A whole new post on my comment... thanks.

Not interested in raman vs ishita... continue ur discussions:)


Because your accusation was so blatant and bland...😛
And if you would have read my post, you would know that I didn't write a Raman vs Ishita saga 😊
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: sunitas123


Divya, Adi was never Raman's - he hated Raman. Due to ishita now atleast he is okay with Raman and likes the Bhallas. And legally he was never Raman's. Now due to the GKC rant, Raman took this short route of bribing Shagun and is about to lose Ruhi forever! Do you understand the repurcussions of his mistake? Adi wanted Raman to go back to Shagun- so obviously that wud be ridiculous, not coz raman loves Adi or not, will he love living with Shagun now? here ishita is not choosing Ruhi over Raman, she is just protecting Ruhi- Raman is hers anyways. She does not want Ruhi to be an injured pawn like Adi was earlier in these games, she is perhaps waiting for monday when the courts open or is out looking for that judge... she is not separating from Raman.

And what kind of behaviour Raman was having with ishita all week? Why is he hiding so many things from her? And so much over confidence?


He hated Raman or hates Raman, so what? A father would give up on his child just because that! And where on earth the "bribing" thing comes? Shagun made a financial demand which he obliged, although he had to make adjustments due to his current financial dilemma, so in no way he took the short route. You can say he's not fighting the custody case but as he experienced it several times now that these sorts of battles are not good for anybody in the end and the child suffers most in any case. So him going for out of the court settlement is quite natural. He always wanted to have Adi's custody, Toshiji's gkc chant wasn't responsible here anyway. Since he observed a change in Adi, he wasted no time.

Well, Rman's mistake is reversible but Ishita's one will make it worse. Apparently, Shagun filed a report against Bhallas for missing Ruhi. Ishita's rash decision of eloping with Ruhi will be counted as a big disadvantage for the upcoming custody battle. She could have waited for a day and I didn't suggest Ishita to forgive Raman but she should have been with him and fought the battle together.

Yes, Raman's behavior was unacceptable and the hiding thing was ridiculous. At the same time hiding things are not only Raman's forte, Ishita is equally good at it. We can make a big list about Ishita's hiding things from Raman. This is something they should work on as a couple.

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