Originally posted by: DiyaRathore
The point is--Ishita is obsessed with Ruhi and Raman is obsessed with Adi. Period. And their obsessions hurt their spouses badly at times. Just because Raman is a biological father, his obsession is bad and Ishita is a non-biological mother, her obsession is good or natural--this is a ridiculous assumption. And, I won't buy the cliche saying of parental love overpowers everything coz this is not the case here. Parental love is one thing and obsession is completely a different thing. Another funny thing is that many people are now giving "mother's love overpowers wife's love" clause, the same people were suggesting Raman to choose between Ishita and Adi! I guess a father's love doesn't count much since he is a father!
i agree with ur statement of ishita's obsession with ruhi and raman for adi.. but in the show many times raman chose adi over ruhi and ishita both and ishita nearly always.. for any father or mother it is tough to chose between their kids and raman being a biological father can never do that but he did that at times in the show in the beginning and he himself accepted that he is partial towards adi as he loved him more than ruhi as adi was his first kid and he was born when he was in love with shagun and when he trusted in love.. this shows he was clearly obsessed but ishita was never over obsessed with ruhi.. though she is not the biological mother and i agree she loved ruhi more than adi but she never showed that. she never let adi or anyone feel that she loves ruhi more and never showed her obsession of ruhi.. she equally cared for both of them..
even today in the whole fiasco she just said that she cant live without ruhi but never said a word to shagun or raman or any other family member to chose ruhi over adi.. thats the difference between raman's and ishita's obsession which i found..
coming to wife vs mother love its definite in nature that mother's love will be more and expressed more than love for her husband.. not just mother's that is the case with father's too.. in general a man might not listen for his wife's request but he tends for his kids request of the same thing this simple instance shows that parental love is more than love for spouse be it man or woman the nature is same.. but in mother's case they are over expressive and father's a little composed and calm. that is the difference...
parental love is the reason why raman always chose adi over ishita in the beginning and that is the reason why he married ishita in the show for his daughter. the same is with ishita her parental love for ruhi made her marry a man whom she never loved and never expected loveback from him when she married him.. this shows love for kids is more than for spouses...
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