Ishita you made a WRONG Decision regarding Mihir & Rinki

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tvjunk

@tvjunk

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Posted: 10 years ago

#21

Very Good & relevant topic...congrats👏

Ishita has taken decision to Marry Rinki-Mihir and tomorrow it may turn out to be a successful one. We also know shagun will be thrown out of bhalla house in next episode...but i think Shagun was 50% successful in her plan...She pressurized Entire Bhalla family & Ishita to take such a hasty and wrong Decision...Rink-Mihir marriage

Raman....he was non-existent when shagun & after that Mrs. Bhalla was blaming ishita...what kind of Husband is he if he cant protect his wife respect when all are falsely scolding her...
what kind of brother is he ...that his wife has to take a decision for his Sister...

I know tommorow he will re-surrect and throw shagun out --but the damage has already been done.

Toshiji...Many are blaming her but i don't find fault with her actions ...she is typical mother in law...when everything goes well she is her gr8 Bahu & at a Single unknown fault of hers ..she is baherwali...she has done this in past with param-ishita , romi-mihika cases & in the past.

Mr. Bhalla & Mr. Iyer...they are the man & head of both their families , who are well educated both some how have no voice to speak during such problems

Ishita ...I know rinki marraige is broken & toshi and shagun blaming you, but just to prove shagun wrong and help toshiji ...is she not playing with the life of Mihir & Rinki..why marriage of Rinki is the only solution..that means your proving rinki is at Fault..

Poor Mihir, how he is suppose to say No when your publicly asking him in front of entire family & with tears in IShita eyes...Mihir with so much favour from raman & bhalla family and also treats ishita as his sister ...how he can say no...

Rinki....I know she is educated & all..but just think her marriage is just broken so she is in trauma & not everyone is able to react to such situation...on top of it her mother is blaming her babhi...and her babhi is asking her barosa..what she can do...how she will find voice when all other family members including Raman bhai is chup😕

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Springlover

@Springlover

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Posted: 10 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: 07sid01

But heres the problem when they find out about mihikas sacrifice rinki and mihir are the ones that are going to suffer.

Ishita can't just impose her decision on these two people. She's not always right. this decision is going to affect their lives. If their marriage goes kaput then it will be ishitas fault for expecting two people who don't love each other to accept her decision as if she is always right. The blame will somehow go to mihir or rinki for their marriage not working, not ishita, because obviously every decision she makes is right

this is y i said y dont any bhallas open up their mouth nd just oppose her stupid decision.?

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agneeputra

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Posted: 10 years ago

#23

hoi guys bashing started as if its ishita's decision to marry rinki and mihir...agar galti hi karni hai toh kambakat cvs ki nikalo...vaise aap log kahan se ho .. har waqt burayian hi nazar aa rahe hai aap logo ko...bas kar aur yeh ekta ma ki serial hai..kuch bhi ho sakta hai... daily saop ko daily soap ki tarah treat karna ... rahi baat mihika ki wo aage badne ke liye mani help karega..chod na

Edited by agneeputra - 10 years ago

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SStephy

@SStephy

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Posted: 10 years ago

#24

I agree... this decision is completely wrong. Rather Ishita should have supported Rinky and the family and make them realize that a broken wedding is not the end of the world. Ishita supporting this notion that a girl left at the wedding mandap is defiled is so regressive. Even if we assume that no one would marry her because of this, then so what? Marriage is not the only thing in life... they are behaving as though Rinky had acquired some terminal illness and this rushed, forced marriage to Mihir is the only treatment.

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Ppramod

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Posted: 10 years ago

#25

Rinki I far better than a bride from onlineshadi.com ,Raman and Mihir searching bride their. In my pov Ishita is ri8

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giaa

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Posted: 10 years ago

#26

I think Rinky and Mihir will make a lovely Jodi and I look forward to seeing their relationship develop.

I think Mihir / Mihika are over long ago and Infact Mihikas character is destroyed...she is only suited to Ashok and will ultimately turn like her husband?

BUT I HATED the way the marriage came together... I agree that it was regressive thinking that she had to marry someone right then and there! It would have been nicer if the two decided on their own and got court married n showed up... But possibly too forward for the regressive balaji writers!

Edited by giaa - 10 years ago

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Lekz

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Posted: 10 years ago

#27

I abhor such regressive thoughts...about barat returning and the girl being shunned by society...seriously and this is a girl who was doing her masters in business management ?????? Jeez

Rinky wanted to study ...it was Toshiji who forced her to get married, emotionally blackmailed everyone to it including Ishita...

I don't remember the family asking Ishita to do any background verification...The guy happened to mention a dentist from the same college and Ishia decided to call her...

Toshiji blaming her was just ludicrous...

I guess it was an afterthought from the writer's part ...to include that small scene of Nikhil talking of a known someone and Ishita deciding to call her...

Having said this...I do not quire agree that Ishita is wrong...If Rinky were to get married to anyone...I meant an arranged wedding then why not Mihir. He is known to the family and a good person too.

Like they say mauka bhi hai and dastur bhi...

I think what we see is Ishita asking Mihir for a consent and not forcing Mihir...So whats wrong ???

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Rivka

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Posted: 10 years ago

#28

I agree with you .

i do feel that ishitha took a wrong decision .

I think she may regret it later .

this point from ishu side . Mihika cheated on mihir for ashok.

Raman sensed it musshy but ishu din't even had a clue of ashok and mihika's truth.

still with out mihir's will for rinki and bhalla family pride she, taking this decision will

get back to her.

lets hope shadi is not made fun with criss cross relations in YHM . already one is made. mihika and ashok

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Aani

@EkPaheli

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Posted: 10 years ago

#29

Dev interesting topic, one that has made me want to come back from my self-imposed hiatus.

Honestly I would say I am a neutral person on this whole shindig - reason being...I dont see Ishita as the only person responsible for this mess.

Frankly from the way things are going CVs are setting up the revelation of AsMi' marriage in the near future - imagine the complications now - Mihir, now a married man would finally know why his fiance dumped him and married someone else when he was willing to marry her at the drop of a hat despite her name being involved in a scandal...now that would be another TRP gaining mechanism - the triangle of Mihir, Mihika and Rinki. Its pretty evident that Raman has noticed Mihika has problems with Ashok from day one and now slowly and steadily he will unravel the truth and may get her back to the Iyer home.

With Mihika back there, the situation would be dicey as hell, now with Mihir being married off.

Coming back to my neutrality - well I want to just bring to attention to the fact that the whole Bhalla clan besides Toshi aunty was basically mum throughout the whole time where Shagun basically kept spewing crap of epic proportions, when she kept blaming Ishita for the mess. When Amma rightfully brought to attention the fact Pammi was the one who came with the proposal, Pammi and Toshi both asked her to not add fuel to the fire - well wasnt Amma right? Her daughter was being made a scapegoat when on Saturday' episode Toshi aunty was herself proclaiming her best friend made the match and not only Ishita but Mr. Bhalla, her husband too had enquired about the guy...then how come suddenly it was all Ishita' fault? She wanted to hurry up with the marriage, her best friend came with the proposal, her husband too conducted a check on the boy and its Ishita' fault?

Hello? Where' the logic in this f**ked up situation?

A lovely quote by Ella Wheeler Wilcox states To sin by silence, when we should protest, makes cowards out of men.

Well if Ishita is screwing up Mihir and Rinki' life its the entire Bhalla clan who is responsible as well - because they remained quiet because of course who would want to own up and take responsiblities when things hit south - if Rinki' life is being screwed up over and over again the biggest responsibility for the mess would undoubtedly go to her own mother who has a regressive attitude - who first pushed her daughter into an alliance when she would have rather completed her studies and next chose to marry her off to a boy as soon as possible and when shit hit fan started bawling like there' no tomorrow instead of supporting her own daughter, if she had listened to Ishita' words that Rinki was in fact saved in the nick of time and not wed to a man who would have cheated her, something which has happened to Simi, another daughter of the family already all of this shit wouldnt have happened

But then again - there would be no complicated love triangles and of course TRPs thrive on jilted/seperated lovers as much as it does on romance...the fact that the two angles of this f**ked up new triangle are sisters to the main leads which directly affects them when this trio comes into play is a sure shot mechanism to bring about much needed tensions in the life of a duo who is yet to share five consecutive episodes of romance because of course how can they do that?

How can the show survive if the leads, heaven forbid engage in romance, forget foreplay or intercourse, I am only mentioning romance? 😳

So the bottom line my friend while you and I can discuss this till we get old and wrinkly it aint gonna make any difference to the people who are concerned about the numbers of a certain chart that change every week

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Eyes-Wide-Shut

@Eyes-Wide-Shut

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Posted: 10 years ago

#30

I concur with you however it's not just solely Ishita but the entire Bhalla clan's fault that this day has come upon them, I am reposting what I posted on Gan's thread because I am too lazy to retype lol.

G thank you for the message, it saved me 20 minutes of my life that I would rather spend here with all of you than watch some eardrum piercing crap on TV.

When the chatter began of Mihir-Rinki jodi I was kind of excited because I adore Mihir's character and wanted to see him happy but they turned it into complete nonsense. Like you mentioned in your post and others in theirs why not show that a family stands by their daughter supporting her decision not to marry any random dude because she is stranded at the alter and I haven't watched the episode yet but why not leave this decision to Rinki because the last time I checked it is still her life and she should be the one who decides if she wants to marry or not. They should be rejoicing that thank God Rinki was left at the alter rather than getting married to a fraud who would have ruined her life.

Would it have killed them to show Rinki and Mihir bonding over a broken heart, both finding support and solace in each other, slowly realizing that maybe they are developing feelings for each other. It would have been beautiful to witness a relationship progress from a broken heart to being each other's support in love and life, more importantly would it have killed them to show a woman who refuses to let her relationship status define her life, WOMEN DO NOT NEED TO MARRY TO FEEL COMPLETE! I get upset because there is so much potential in this show and there is such brilliant acting that I feel we could be getting something groundbreaking but unfortunately we are subjected to the same shit.

Edited by Eyes-Wide-Shut - 10 years ago

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