RES... to finally moving from kitchen politics to office politics and standing up for your convictions, no matter what.
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G.. Love the collage and the quotes and post as well... love how you got that wink moment ... *sigh*
Today's episode got a lot of new tracks rolling and gave us some sweet moments for us to savour as well .
The scene at the school was nice, a bit of a rushing of the Adhi factor for sure, but it was really nice still. Also, I don't know if anyone noticed the little sign behind ISHRU's project station , it said 'children must me taught how to think, not what to think' as Ishita stood infront of the sign and Shagun stood opposed speaking to her helper on the phone. I don't know if it was intentional (oh, who am I kidding?) but I though it was kind of funny considering the variations of parenting styles we are being shown through the two mothers of RB's kids.
On that note... I know it's kind of petty but I didn't like that Shagun's outfit matched that of RKB today ... *Ruhi pout*

#Only Ishita can wear matching clothes #RKB belongs to Ishu #Puttar fangirls are next in line #Shagun is no where in the equation #Please go back to matching Ashok's vests #If not him, Suraj is free #He wears vests too #Brother vs Brother- ultimate revenge #He's rich too #RKB won't have such a bank account much longer #Don't think Ishu will support your lifestyle #Think long term #Go for it Shagun #Team SHARAJ
The other thing I really appreciated was something that had been bothering me a while back. I had said previously during the worst of Adhi's scheming that I was struggling to 'find the Raman' in Adhi... and today finally I caught that glimpse. In the ways that they dealt wit their respective situations you could see the similarity, and I know it's rushed and a bit forceful and lacks the smoothness of transition I would prefer.
They both stood up for what they knew was right against an authority figure and stood their ground and spoke their piece without forcing the point and then they apologized to the people that mattered as well, in the way that knew was expected and would be expected by the other person.
Finally ISHRU and their respective reactions to RKB's outburst. In browsing the forum I saw that some people felt that both ISHRU's reactions were a little OTT. But I do believe that they are very defensible actions. Firstly, Ru- her reaction to her father's temper yesterday was very realistic as a 6 year old. But putting that aside, think about Ru's life and her relationship with her father before Ishita entered her life, the overwhelming love she had for him and his disregard for it... Ishita is the one that showered love on her and made her father admit and express his love for Ru as well.
I think in some way her complete defence of Ishu can be understood as a protective measure of some sort- considering her age and the depth of the scars of neglect, especially to a child, I don't think it's too far of a stretch to assume that somewhere in the back of her mind she may feel if Ishita is unhappy then she might leave and things may go back to the way things were for Ruhi. Of course she has a secure home and she is secure in the love of her parents' love... but that niggling sense of fear must still exist considering the instability of her little life and especially with the entrance of her mother in such close proximity. Until she gets to a certain age where she can process the intricacies of the situation, this will always be a part of Ru's psyche. In this view, to a certain extent- every time Ru protects her Ishimaa she is protecting herself- her present, her security and her family.
Although her insecurity also needs to be addressed I don't think that will happen- counselling is only for Adhi. 😉 Not the poor six year old angel that first survived a distant relationship with her father followed by a bitter custody war and then contended with the confusing threats of being taken away from the one woman that has showered her with unconditional love from the moment they met!😛 I hope, like all of you do, that at least there propensity to speak older then her age is something that is addressed in a frank manner, preferably by her father.
As for Ishita's reaction to Raman's outburst, considering how much she had put with him in the past it is no doubt surprising. But the difference is the love that is now a vital aspect of their relationship . IMHO she is not manipulating or taking advantage of his love as inferred by some other posts but this is simply a natural reaction to the state of mind that love has placed Ishita in.
She is a strong, educated , adult woman. But like I had said previously in this love she has become like a teenager experiencing her first love once again with all the cute insecurities and jealousies that accompany that ... and in that moment she reverted to that state of mind and let his words hurt in a way that she never allowed them to before. When he came to apologize she was out of the haze and came back to reality, to her real self, her real age and the reality of the situation and she reverted to the joking and cuteness and sweetness that together created their love story.
The funny things is that in their bedroom when she was in her teenage mindset when she took offence at his words he was in his adult one and then when she switched to her adult mindset in Ru's room he switched on to the teenage one while apologizing... so cute. These two just balance each other so well...
#52 regular episodes since Shagun re-entered Bhalla house #I can see the light #Don't drag this out too long
Edited by RomComFan - 10 years ago