Originally posted by: Wings-of-Fire
There's a story named 'Bilashi' by Bengali novelist Sarat Chandra Chattopadhyay, that was fundamental in forming my opinion on marriage and love. It had a line saying, that love is a thing that most couple in the world never find, and they live their lives happily not even knowing that they never found love!
I know II loves and R&B doesn't yet. I'm starting to think what if he never does? I know that's probably not gonna happen, he will too love her in due time but what if what they have never changed! What if it remained just lust mixed with care- would it be alright?
Rosh..i often probe the same...Its as thought hey acknowledge each other only through the lust or attraction they found about 4 months ago. I really wonder if they have feelings apart from these : lust, attraction, possessiveness, care, jealousy, towards each other.
And love as someone said cannot be defined. it knows no bounds. in their case, I dont really know if all the above mentioned emotions add to say they are indeed in LOVE.
For your question at the end, I have no clue if it will be alright. I think it will be. Cause we see many bonds breaking, many divorces happening many break ups happening , the time limit being a few days to a few years!! so do we say there is no love and hence they are all breaking apart?