The Goddess

Ishita Iyer entered the Bhallas house and set everything in their lives right. In Ishita's words, miracles happened in her life and she got stuff she never expected to have. But for the Bhallas, she is the one who made those miracles possible. They trust her to make anything possible. They believe she is right about everything. She even brought Aditya back into their lives. Impossible is what they expect out of her. She is considered to be the ideal woman, wife, mother, sister, daughter,etc. They put her on a pedestal. When good things keep happening in our lives, most of us give the credit to God. And when something goes wrong, our first reaction will be "Why God, Why?". We may later realise it was wrong to blame the Almighty. Yet, it would always be our first reaction. This is what I see happening in Ishita's life. She is expected to give them happiness. Now that something went wrong, the knee jerk reaction is to blame Ishita.

Hmm,

The Goddess...!!! 😲😲
Yaar kuch zayada nahi ho gaya kya? 😆

absolutely agree with you post, exactly what me, anku, aliya and a few others were discussing the other day.

Originally posted by: RingsOfSaturn

Hmm,

But when we complain to God, we don't insult or abuse him, or question his intentions?

That's what Bhallas are doing to Ishita - which is hateful...

And where have they put her on a pedestal?

Despite being a dentist , a full - time job, looking after Ruhi, arranging all celebrations for Bhallas, she is a permanent kitchen fixture, preparing tea for them when they do stupid things like panjandrum game...

Come on, that's not putting someone on a pedestal...

That's a typical misuse of good babu...

Also, the point is , they are not treating Adi and Ruhi same way, they are prioritising Adi over Ruhi, each time, every time, it's disgusting...🤢

Originally posted by: serendipity.

absolutely agree with you post, exactly what me, anku, aliya and a few others were discussing the other day.

They expect too much of her, and since shes been selflessly giving them all of it, they EXPECT her to be mahaan, compromise, like shes obliged to do all this.

it is Ishitas fault too, honestly.

and these Bhallas are a disgrace atm, Ishita is AS selfless as Selfish the bhallas are. Toshi is so regressive i feel like punching her. Raman and Toshi have turned out to be huge disappointments in the past episodes, however, Toshi much more. I know Raman was very rude and shouldnt have said all that, but atleast we know Raman, he does this when he is angry or panicks and especially if it were to do with his pathetic first born. UGH THAT KID ANNOYS me. anyways, that atleast i can give him, but the rest, esp Toshi, SORRY! 😵

and WHEN do they treat adi ruhi the same way? im still waiting for that you know! Adi bloody gets the priority over the little angel EACH TIME! how annoying is that?! -___- from Day one he has gotten the priority, authority, upper hand. Its just so unfair. The Bhallas, i say again, what shame 😵

Originally posted by: serendipity.

absolutely agree with you post, exactly what me, anku, aliya and a few others were discussing the other day.

They expect too much of her, and since shes been selflessly giving them all of it, they EXPECT her to be mahaan, compromise, like shes obliged to do all this.

it is Ishitas fault too, honestly.

and these Bhallas are a disgrace atm, Ishita is AS selfless as Selfish the bhallas are. Toshi is so regressive i feel like punching her. Raman and Toshi have turned out to be huge disappointments in the past episodes, however, Toshi much more. I know Raman was very rude and shouldnt have said all that, but atleast we know Raman, he does this when he is angry or panicks and especially if it were to do with his pathetic first born. UGH THAT KID ANNOYS me. anyways, that atleast i can give him, but the rest, esp Toshi, SORRY! 😵

and WHEN do they treat adi ruhi the same way? im still waiting for that you know! Adi bloody gets the priority over the little angel EACH TIME! how annoying is that?! -___- from Day one he has gotten the priority, authority, upper hand. Its just so unfair. The Bhallas, i say again, what shame 😵

All I'm saying is, how can she be so understanding every single time? How come she hasn't reached her breaking point?

Ishita is always selfless and if u see her personality she is just giving love all the time. She believes in love breeds love.

Rest all are thali ke baingans. shouting, screaming, accusing at the drop of a hat! I read somewhere that Adi will ask Raman to marry Shagun during Lohri. I just hope this happens soon. Now forget about Ishita giving him false hopes, Raman has given him real hopes by making Ishita apologize and get Shagun back! And the problem is both mom-son have just one expression, maybe mom has 2. The way she looks at Raman is almost like a prostitute giving him inviting looks and then pretending to cry in front of Adi!

And worst is when he went to get ice-cream to pacify Ishita, he immly remembered Adi's fav flavor. What about Ruhi's?

I just hope now Ishita just focusses on Ruhi and clinic. She should ignore Raman and just not give him any time. Shagun and Bhallas can handle the kitchen etc.

You think Ishita is on a pedestal and treated as a God in Bhalla house? If it's true then I'm pretty sure no god will want to be put on a pedestal ever again!