Raman's character is butchered that it cannot be built again so easily.
Even with his most obsessed love for Adi what did he do
1. Did he ever put an effort to understand his own son
2. Did he ever bother to know what really adi wants and what are is inner feelings
all he wants is adi to be around him no matter what the mess is created and he thinks he is successful in his marriage life.
People blame ishita for bringing shagun and adi back to bhallas house. But raman was also part of it. If not ishita, raman would have definitely done that. The only mistake that i see from ishita is giving false hopes to adi in new year party but if raman can show this much frustration now, he could have very well done the same at that time also to avoid it.
All we can blame ishita for her unrealistic selflessness but that is something completely different from being utter selfish.
I am not a raman basher but the precap and 360 deg that he has taken overnight is simply unacceptable. CVs have done permanent damage no matter what is waiting in store for us.