Originally posted by: StunningS
Raman didn't try to rape shagun when Shagun tried to walk out of his life because he loves her. He tried to rape Ishita because he only lusts her. Indian law might not consider it as a rape but it's a rape nonetheless.
I'm going to butt in because I can't take this same rant anymore. I refrain from commenting on weird stuff of this sort, but let's just say, that yesterday and today have been frustrating enough.
I just have a few points to make:
Trying to assault or rape someone and actually raping someone are two very different things. As far as crimes go, both are heinous but there is HUGE difference nonetheless.
Not defending Raman, because I agree that the whole thing was wrong. But that makes him LUSTFUL and DESPERATE? He's been married for almost an year, dude. Ishita is his legally wedded wife and he hasn't done it with her so far - I'll commend his control. Like I said yesterday, sex is not taboo - it is a body's need. How hard is it to understand?
Yes, I wanted them to actually talk about it, but wanting YHM to show something realistic is like asking an ant to grow wings and fly. But then - he didn't do anything, she forgave him, even when she was educated and nothing actually happened. What's with bringing this point on top again and again and again?
Ishita is "not sexually alright" (whatever that implies, because I don't feel being lesbian/asexual is not "alright") because she is not aroused at the mere sight of her husband. Do you want her breathe heavily like an asthmatic patient when he's near, faint near him, or simply just orgasm when he comes in her vicinity? Would THAT be the proof you're looking for?
Love is not about whether you DO or DO NOT "rape" your wife, as you seem to understand. It is about companionship, at least for me. And so, going by simple Math, Raman loves Ishita.
Ciao.
Sorry for the long comment. But some things JUST DON'T END for some reason.
Edited by SurrealFantasy - 10 years ago