Ishira are also giving wrong assumptions to adi like shagun...

Ishita is doing everything for adi but did she evr realized that whatever she is doing will hurt raman...seeing the shitty woman in his house,celbrating anniverary with that woman...though he is moved on but even he was betrayed by that woman god dammit...cvS ur Showing ishita as mother she may be right but as wife she is wrong...n>Being a woman and a wife i wont encourage this...

Raman is also giving wrong assumptions to his...adi problem is that he is confused to accept the truth of his...bcoz his mom is telling one and his dad and ishita are thelling something else...for this they need to show adi the reality of his life that his parents are divorced and they can never bre together...i know shagun will manipulate him again but even though yaar one or the other day adi will see ge reality but if ishra will do this crap just to show thatadi have a happy family then i m sorry even they are manipulating the poor kis though their intentions r not qrong but the outxome qill be bad when adi will see the reality...he again will confused abt the reality...so on the whole everybody are playing with his emotions...

Sorry to say this but even ishra playing with his emotiona...bacho ko humesha sach dikhaba chahiy bhale qo kitna bhi dukh deta ho..bcoz at the end the truth wont huet that much as lie hurts...

Srusly..shez doin 2much...totally agree wit yu

Originally posted by: Lekz

What she is doing maybe radical but we saw a recent interview of DT.

She said she was doing it for Adi.

She said her own discomfort is something she can handle as a mature women...

But Adi is a child...

If we for once empathize with Adi - she is right and she is doing all that it takes to reach across to Adi...Long run things will change with Adi Ishita relationship and this is the only way...

And why should Raman be unhappy its his son that she is doing all this for.

I liked when she said what should Ishita be worried about I know my husband is mine and nothing can come in between us.

Thats how a relationship should be.

hii... even i thought the same.. but just think with calm mind..i dont think she is doing wrong.. n why would raman be unhappy... she is doing all this for his son's happiness.. i think raman's love to ishita ll oly get increased after witnessing her sacrifice just oly for his son who is very close to heart just because she love raman... mm ya even i liked the way she said.. y should she be worried. she know him.. she knows that they both love each other.. nothing can come inbetween them..

Originally posted by: mnr123

I m sorry I disagree with u n Divyanka's defending of Ishita here.

Adi is a child n giving him false hopes that his divorced parents (Raman n Shagun) acting like a normal couple n celebrating their anniversary as if Divorce never happen will just make him more confused as a child.

Ishita n Raman as characters not only r giving false hopes to Adi but also not tackling with his real problems n making him understand n own up to his share of mistakes of beating Shravan or Ruhi.

So both r shown as a failure here not just as parents even as husband n wife where they r entertaining Raman's ex wife who cheated on him.

Originally posted by: Lekz

I understand where you are coming from...that Shagun lives in the same house is beyond my comprehension too...the story has taken a big slip there ...

All we can do is attribute it to the drama for TRP...

But given that Adi is going through a mental trauma...things need to change gradually...

Giving him some happiness by clicking a picture...or cutting a cake is not so wrong when we look at from a child's respective...

Maybe ...maybe the writers are moving to a phase where Shagun goes abroad and Adi's realization journey begins...

I truly believe children cannot be fooled for long...he will soon realize Ishita's goodness and that will bring a sea change in him too...

Originally posted by: Lekz

<font face="Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">I understand where you are coming from...that Shagun lives in the same house is beyond my comprehension too...the story has taken a big slip there ...</font>

<font face="Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">All we can do is attribute it to the drama for TRP...</font>

<font face="Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">But given that Adi is going through a mental trauma...things need to change gradually...</font>

<font face="Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">Giving him some happiness by clicking a picture...or cutting a cake is not so wrong when we look at from a child's respective...</font>

<font face="Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">Maybe ...maybe the writers are moving to a phase where Shagun goes abroad and Adi's realization journey begins...</font>

<font face="Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">I truly believe children cannot be fooled for long...he will soon realize Ishita's goodness and that will bring a sea change in him too...</font>

Though ishra are doing this for adi but even though dont u think even they are showing adi a wrong dimension of his which will never be true...come on yaar the kid needs to accept the reality and thats the solution of his problem..he has this problem bcoz of his wrong assumptions and now ishra are giving him another wrong assumption and though he bcums normal after this but when again he ll see reality he will backto square one...parents shud always show tge reality to their kids even though if the reality is bitter it wont harm the kid in long run...

IshRa is doing more harm than gud towards Adi by hiding (?) the truth about his parents. They need to equip him instead to face & accept the reality. Kids of all divorced parents go through these insecurities but this solution is not the actual solution. Moreover he is not a baby.he has seen his mother with Ashok, so why. ---. Actually as a psy-counsellor , if I was to analyse Ishita , she has many insecurities, the biggest being her inability to bear a child. Raman has often told her his joys on being a father. So indirectly she is fullfilling her insecurities, now whole Bhalla family & mostly Raman is completely fallen for her, she wants that securities in luv. All Raman -Adi-Shagun situations r now created by Isitha but what if Raman does it on his own , ? Won't Ishita feel insecure then? I'm sure she will.

Originally posted by: Annthew

IshRa is doing more harm than gud towards Adi by hiding (?) the truth about his parents. They need to equip him instead to face & accept the reality. Kids of all divorced parents go through these insecurities but this solution is not the actual solution. Moreover he is not a baby.he has seen his mother with Ashok, so why. ---. Actually as a psy-counsellor , if I was to analyse Ishita , she has many insecurities, the biggest being her inability to bear a child. Raman has often told her his joys on being a father. So indirectly she is fullfilling her insecurities, now whole Bhalla family & mostly Raman is completely fallen for her, she wants that securities in luv. All Raman -Adi-Shagun situations r now created by Isitha but what if Raman does it on his own , ? Won't Ishita feel insecure then? I'm sure she will.

Exactly yaar...when she came to.know abt their anniversary ahe was sad but when raman cleared all that now she is ready to celebrate it...come on yaar y cant u say the truth to the kid...bcoz the lie will effect him badly in the future...