Crying raman!!! - Page 3

Originally posted by: drishtimaurya

The path that Raman is choosing can be called escapism but dont forget that he's a man who has before been in a relationship where he cudnt make it work, for money or whatever reasons, but the marriage broke, as Shagun wasnt happy with him. Had she said this to him directly and walked out on him it wudnt have hurt or affected him that much, but WENT AWAY WITH ANOTHER MAN. That is probably the biggest insult that u can throw on a man. After this his self-esteem must have been completely shattered. His own son willingly left him, that was the last straw!

He, then changed wore a mask of a suave, confident man, but in the case of emotions, love and heart, he still will be insecure . On top of that, the last few days this insecurity must have increased to dangerous levels knowing that he's unable to keep even this wife of his happy!! And he also loves her a lot, so coz he sees himself as source of his problems he is leaving her which is what any insecure man wud do in his place.

So, even though one will not absolutely agree with this step but one can understand why he is doing that.

Originally posted by: appuss

yes he is an insecure man

god has given him a second chance... not every person is lucky in that

so , i feel he should accept it

Raman is adorable when he cries. He has his own reasons for leaving Ishita. Though it's breaking his heart, he is going ahead it with as he thinks it's for everyone's best interest.
I would prefer this scene than a misunderstanding scene any day. At least they love each other and have feelings for each other, much better than an extra marital affair or a jealousy track.

He looked drunk during the initial scenes with Ishita..

Originally posted by: mnr123

Appus true 😳 u have a different opinion n I too have a different view on this

What u said about instituition f marriage is true, but if it doesnt work out its better to break the marriage than staying together for kids. 😕 Raman here I think is thinking practical, if he stays with Ruhi n Ishita n again some violence act happens Ruhi will go to Ngo as Judge said no gaurantee her custody will not b challenged. 😕 so he thinks its better to leave her with Dada Dadi n Ishita who can take care f her.

As far as Ishita is concerned she is a strong woman for some time she will be heart broken but will come out f it with Ruhi n Bhallas n Iyers support. He wants Mani to take care f her so that people like Ashok n pervert dont harm her n Mani knows Ashok n pervert n also their ways. N if Mani takes care f her as a friend wagging tongues will say they had n affair (like Shagun said) so he wants Mani to marry her n give her deserving respect n name in society.

After marriage maybe Ishita n Ruhi's dada dadi will have joint custody. Even if Ishita is married to someone else she will let Mr n Mrs Bhalla n others meet n live with Ruhi. This arrangement wud b better than Ruhi living in an NGO.

We already have seen that Raman as a father dotes on his kids, he as a parent is going on this self destruct mode to safeguard Ruhi's future with loving people around her like Ishita, her dada dadi etc. So that Ruhi despite f having gud people around her does not spend her childhood in Ngo.

Originally posted by: rani457

He looked drunk during the initial scenes with Ishita..

He actions and the way words were coming out was not of a sad man but a man who haa a few drinks. The words were not clear and the face looked drunk...maybe bechara cried so much that he looked kind of sharabi

Originally posted by: appuss

hi zener!!!

if mani was a female friend who had done same for ishita... then would u feel the same?😕 Gender is the problem?

i personally dont agree that a childhood friend who grew up with you, should be shunned after marriage. Every relation has its importance.

i would have agreed if ishita for a split second cheated on raman even in her dreams...

i agree, ishita has never shown an ownership over raman as a wife, wish to see it in upcoming track ... but i dont feel she has ever shown that raman is an unwanted entity in her life.

lot of people help u in ur daily life, both males and females... so u go around marrying all of them? A policeman/doctor/co-passenger/any layman can be ur saviour in a situation... will the husband propose marriage with all of them?

to each his own... but I dont appreciate escapism/sacrifice as a means of love😳...

Bye take care...🤗

It s not just raman , it is about every NORMAL man, and this is about marriage not any other relations.

Ishita constantly talked of Mani . Mani Mani Mani , Mani this and Mani that . Ishita praised Mani . Ishita liked his topic. Her fandom surprised Raman. If he had brought in a girl friend saying he looked cute going with her to school , she in her pigtails and he in his muddy uniform and that she knew everything about him , more than his wife who constantly bugged him , i am sure he would be hated more than Ashok

who said other relations should be shunned but marriage is first priority above all relations.
my female friends even do give most importance to only marriage, no one share their bedroom matters to any other even female friends. every relations must need borders to be drawn. even their husbands mind if they keep constant talking with friends and they don't like if wife shares all secrets with anyone.

marriage is about understanding and respecting feelings of each other too. if your partner is not feeling comfortable, you are supposed to respect his feelings and same goes to opposite gender regarding expectations, otherwise whole life can be spoiled and that s what I have seen around me.

Appuss, this is about society and real life am living in. ^^ completely based on my real and personal life experience.

Ishita has shown him unwanted more than once. she din inform him in mumbai when she got attack by perv, she din inform him when her license was canceled, she din share her problem , she din inform him when ashok was planning against him using sarika. I don't buy excuse of her saying raman would sacrifice or he was busy in work because she shares other people problem even if he is busy. Even when he was in not in love with her, he had expected to share her problems with him in perv track. but she never involved him when it comes to their own problems even not in house hold problems..

she brings whole world problems including shagun, simi, all but she does not thinks to share her OWN problems that he had always expected . why he would not feel unwanted then ?
she claims meri beti meri beti as if he is not needed for ruhi as father, forgets about he is father of ruhi.

She din care about his feelings, she din want to wear that gown fine, why any wife would give that dress to sautan ? when he asks her to spend time with him she goes behind "mihika will feel bad" 😲

she only woke up to give time to him when madam came to know he is going far.

madam considers Mani as her best friend. he is not aira gaira like policeman, doctor and all.her best friend helps her in every needs, who she shares her each problem with, keeps her smiling , and he has no past baggage or any relations that would affect her badly. what any other thing woman demands for happy married life?

Even I don't like Raman crying so much but I can understand him..