A Mohabbatein of different kind

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Ashok Khanna noun
: "A sociopath is one who sees others as impersonal objects to be manipulated to fulfill their own narcissistic needs without any regard for the hurtful consequences of their selfish actions." ~R.Alan Woods
Shagun Arora noun
: "The pain of the narcissist is that, to him, everything is really a threat. What doesn't surrender in reverence is blasphemous to a high opinion of oneself - the burden of self-importance. The narcissist reconstructs his own law of gravity which states that all things and all creatures must adhere to his personal satisfaction, but when they do not, the pain is far more intense than it is for one who is free from the clamors of 'I'." ~Criss Jami
(source Gan's dictionary 🤣)

Today's episode focused on these two characters and showcased their self -serving 'Mohabbatein'. Enough said.

My interest is Ishra moments...so if the Collage or post is not to your satisfaction...blame it on my snarky alter ego.

Happy 300th episode YHM team...and as Karan said there's likelihood of 1000th episode😉...so hang in there...there will be romance somewhere in those episodes😉


Notes:
  • On a serious note..suicide is not a trivial matter and never an option for a molested/raped girl ...so I hope that the PH/channel gave some disclaimer onscreen

  • Karan needs some sleep or make up to hide his tired eyes. BCL is taking a toll on RKB.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I think Todays episode was important in terms of Adi only. Whatever course the story takes he will be the worst affected! 😳
Nice collage n quotes Gan. 😊
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Originally posted by: mnr123

I think Todays episode was important in terms of Adi only. Whatever course the story takes he will be the worst affected! 😳

Nice collage n quotes Gan. 😊



I feel it was important in terms of every main character...as the evnts of today's episode will touch everyone, especially Adi.

Thanks
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Res

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Ashok:

"A sociopath is one who sees others as impersonal objects to be manipulated to fulfill their own narcissistic needs without any regard for the hurtful consequences of their selfish actions." ~R. Alan Woods, The Journey Is the Destination: A Book of Quotes With Commentaries

Shagun:

"I don't care what you think unless it is about me." ~Kurt Cobain

Adi:

"Children aren't coloring books. You don't get to fill them with your favorite colors." ~Khaled Hosseini

I am sorry for the late update, I got really busy last night and couldnt update before bed.

When I read your post I couldn't stop laughing! 😆I am actually glad you made a post on Ashok! Sometimes the villains need a special shout out from us fans! Specially the YHM villains, they have more of a cupid role in this show than villains😎. Me and Ashok baby have a love-hate relationship. You are so right, today's episode was definitely about the villains self-centred "Mohabbatein"! I did not really enjoy the episode as much but it wasn't horrible as some of this week's episodes.

Ashok:

Shagun's Ashok baby is one of the most cuteness and dump villains on indian television history. Calling him a dumb blonde is the perfect way to describe him. I have never really understood him actually. Calling him a sociopath is correct because even after getting Shagun this man still found ways to torture Raman. He thought Shagun was a prize possession that he couldn't have! He went after another man's wife specially a loyal employee who literally looked up to him and really respected him. Now he doesn't want to marry the same women because he got her and now he moved on to Mihika another challenge for him. I really hate man like Ashok who don't look at women as humans but think there are some object that they can buy or get. I love Ashok because it wasn't for him we wouldn't have Ishra but I really hate the way he treats women. Another thing I don't understand about him is that he doesn't want to marry Shagun but he still gets jealous when she goes to Raman.

Shagun:

Not going to really go into details about this woman because I mention her in Payal's last post. My problem with her is not because she left Raman, it is the way she did it. Everyone has the right to be happy and if she thought and loved Ashok, then fine go to him. But the fact she left her 6 month old daughter and used her son as pawn to get back at her ex-husband she makes me hate her. And in this episode, her dialogues made me cringe. She is so selfish and I don't understand if she loves Adi or not but she doesn't want Raman to have him.

Adi:

I will always feel bad for him! Shagun is such a poison in his life. She uses her son as a pawn and they puts negative thoughts in his head. I wish he could see Ishita's kindness and care because she is the only one who seems to understand his feelings unlike his real mother. I really felt bad for him in tonight's episode. The way he held on to his mother and his fears. Shagun manipulates Adi no doubt about that. Today he again become the pawn to his parents (pointing more towards Shagun. Raman's intentions were not wrong). And the scene at the hospital, the man who he thought was his father just announced that he wants to marry his mami! Adi is going through the same thing all over again when his biological parents broke up. This boy is attached to Ashok more than Raman so he must be going through a world mill right now. And his mom is again going to use him to get back at Ashok. I really feel for him because his mom never really pays attention to him unless he needs him to get back at Raman and now Ashok or needs to show the world that she is mom of the year. And he genioyl loves Shagun and his attachment to her is really unhealthy in a way. I don't get we get attached to people or objects because they are always there but Shagun has barley been in Adi's life too but he still attached to her. This boy is definitely like his mom because denial works for both of them. I wish he would tell Shagun everything he has heard about. I hope he really gets the love he deserves because no child deserves to feel like they are not wanted or loved. Like Ruhi, Adi's angel will be Ishita too.

Now I leave you off with my daily poem dedicated to Ishra:

"I was dead, then alive.

Weeping, then laughing.

The power of love came into me,

and I became fierce like a lion,

then tender like the evening star."

~Rumi

Edited by cocololo123 - 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: cocololo123

Res- Will be back! I wondering if I should make a serious or funny post!

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anything that makes you happy...😛
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Originally posted by: Veeann

Res 😲 😕 😲



V I crossed over...Bulk/Hulk/Junk is da man😳
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Yes ..just couldnt find any Ishra moment good enough to capture...I didnt want to write again about Shagun or Adi...so Ashok it is😳
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Nice collage...
Love the quotes, so apt...
Thanks for the PM...
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You know as I watched today's episode, my heart broke into a million pieces when I saw puttar broken as a father, he desperately wants to take Adi into an embrace and protect him from the evil surrounding him but circumstances won't let my puttar be the father he aspires to be. This coupled with Adi's reaction to Shagun at the hospital when they discovered Ashok's truth reminded me of the episode where Raman confronts Adi and realizes that his son's innocence is robbed and he is a boy walking around in a man's world with no guidance.
I remember Payal had made a brilliant post that day and I posted the following, the reason I am shamelessly quoting my reply to Payal's thread is because I feel the exact same today as I had felt that day.

Originally posted by: Eyes-Wide-Shut


Where do I start with Adi, a child abandoned by a breaking marriage, smothered by a mother with wrong priorities and an absent father figure, a classic recipe for disaster. A friend of mine raised by a single mother told me, 'There are days when I am tired being the man my mother always envisioned my father to be. I am tired of being a son and an absentee spouse' This resonated with me and I see this applying to Adi here as well, he is trying to be the man in his mom's world but her world is full of malice and deceit. Adi needs love and unconditional patience, only a woman like Ishita can provide that for this lost soul.

Now my puttar ❤️ if I could leap in the TV and hug him I would!!! His heartbreak over seeing contempt and hate in his son's eyes tugged at my heart. Let's not forget that Raman too is a man boy, he has a hurting boy within his man exterior. He too is fragile and is trying his best to pick the pieces of life and start a new. He didn't choose any of this, yet this is what fate dealt him. Puttar is a good parent, he has tried to reach out to Adi whenever possible, he has tried to rectify his son's mistakes and teach him a lesson but sometimes the only healing process that works to mend such complicated relationships is TIME.

Since there is so much talk of children and childhood, I wrote a few lines about childhood. 😊

Bachpan

Bachpan ka chota kadh par sapna lambe

Martaban mein in sapno ko maa ne pyar se sigoya tha

Kahin yeh sapno ka martaban toot na jaye

toh papa ne inhen ek uche takht pe sagaya tha

in chote hathon ka thama tha aur gale se lagaya tha

Aaj jab in lambe hathon se us ucke takht ki tarf haath badhata hoon

Toh sochta hoon ki kash phir se chota hota ye kadh

Toh maa ke pyar and papa ke dular ke saath

kae aur sapno ke martaban sajate.



Puttar's eyes when he saw Adi hugging Shagun and asking him to leave just broke my heart, no father deserves to see such a day and especially not a loving father like puttar. I love seeing Raman-Rihu scenes and I get sad when I see Raman-Shravan scene because I always feel like he tries to find Adi in Shravan. When puttar hurts I hurt, there I said it! I sound pathetic to be affected by a fictional character but I got really said to see puttar rejected by his son yet again and then I felt bad for Adi trying to a man in his mom's malicious world.

Note: They could have avoided this suicide angle because it's not a good message especially that speech by Ashok of marrying Mihika, what are they trying to portray that the girls that are molested become 'dirty' and must marry their molester to restore their dignity? Or maybe I am jumping the gun here so i'll wait for the future episodes before I start delivering my sermon lol
Edited by Eyes-Wide-Shut - 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Eyes-Wide-Shut




I will be back to update because Adi and puttar touched my heart today.




😆

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