Giving Shagun da gown that Raman gifted Ishu is not a big deal BUT....

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@rickks

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Posted: 10 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: v_ani_patel
She didn't wear it .OK but she gave to shagun !! I hate that ..no matter what its a gift from your husband . why to give it another woman !!

Yeap I guess that is what almost all of us are annoyed/frustrated/irked/sad about ki she gave it away. Did not even think once before doing so and did not feel the need to consult with Raman.

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@rickks

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Posted: 10 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: geethika
I wonder why she had fought with him for not wearing a bracelet then...
and giving away her gown to shagun which he had bought her with so much love...
now I really wish that raman shud have given that gown to shagun not ishita..
This lady always wants others to accept whatever she does... not liking ishita anymore after MU...

I have to say I agree with you on the whole "Humara Pyaar...Pyaar aur Tumhara Bekaar" wala aspect you have mentioned. She was hurt real bad when Raman initially refused to accept her gift because he thought she had brought it for Mani and then felt worse when Raman threw her gift away. Does Raman have no such emotions? I mean the guy is blunt agreed but he is not heartless to not feel bad. What made Ishu think that she did the right thing?

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Desisoapgirl

@Desisoapgirl

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Posted: 10 years ago

#23

No one ever gives away a gift from the husband. That is just nuts. AND No husband ignores the wife's personal style either. Or ridicules it.

But I am glad Ishita did not wear that dress. I personally found it ugly,

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@rickks

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Posted: 10 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: momb24
Thas the only thing i am disappointed about. ishita didn't like the dress,that is fine ,i don't even like the dress but her husband gave her a gift,she should have kept it not give it to his ex wife.

Yeap she should have respected his sentiments.

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@rickks

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Posted: 10 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: Desisoapgirl
No one ever gives away a gift from the husband. That is just nuts. AND No husband ignores the wife's personal style either. Or ridicules it.
But I am glad Ishita did not wear that dress. I personally found it ugly,

I found the dress good..perhaps not great but yes Good but yes I am glad that Ishu did not wear that dress because it should be her personal choice. Also I agree with you on Raman ridiculing Ishita about her dressing style...Ishu may be sporting a saree look but she does it so elegantly ...can anybody beat that? I am sure even he knows the answer to that but still he ridicules her.

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Divya

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Posted: 10 years ago

#26

One should wear something in which they are comfortable! I agree to that ! Ishita carries sari perfectly she looked gorgeous even if the sari wasn't appropriate for a cocktail party ok still acceptable! But the fact that it was her husband gift to her she should have kept it for herself worst than all she gave it to shagun like really 😲 so much of greatness!!

When ishita gift Raman a bracelet she was so much hurt when he throw it away that she even ignores the way Raman misbehaved with her she concentrate more on her gift being insulted! But still no expectation from cvs they are hell bent to make the characters looked stupid specially ishita!

Edited by Looshika - 10 years ago

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@rickks

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Posted: 10 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: nuckts
fine if one is not comfortable wearing a backless dress
but what is the meaning of teasing raman by saying "shagun acchi lag rahi hai"
it looks deliberate
i know she is good by nature infact zarurt se zyada good which will cause pain to her only
but no today the way she did looked artificial
it really looked deliberate attempt and it seemed as if she got some sadistic pleasure in hurting raman by not wearing that dress
i am not saying listen to your husband's any demand
but if you know that only one dress which has so no importance in her life that she could gift shagun also doesn't hold any importance for just to wear it once
and even if not wearing then atleast she could just dump that in her cupboard
no need to favour shagun just for mihika
also today i felt mihika's action of telling ishita about this dress issue showing "by the way"
was quite deliberate
knowing her sister's nature she knew she would gift that to shagun
and she won't face any problems with her
but again only raman somewhere became the target
today it proves forget about her goodness
but raman's one liner about ishita having "a pav kilo ka dimaag"proved to be so right!
i know ishra fans must be hating me for this post
all bashes are welcome
but its my opinion and i didn't like her zarurat se zyada acchai to non deserving people
as later on she only will face the pain of her"pav kilo ka dimaag"

First of all it wasn't backless, I wonder what made the makers use that word. It was strapless. Ishu wears deep cut back blouses so backless shouldn't be a problem for her but strapless may be not her thing but giving that away was so not done.

Ishita's character took a dive today (Sorry no offense) giving the gift away, trying to reason on her act when there is none.

Good, bad everything is irrelevant here the point is Raman's sentiments did not matter to Ishita and that is not her. I wish the writers would get a grip before it aggrevates

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Janaki

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Posted: 10 years ago

#28

Ishita's generous nature is become so annoying now. NO wife would ever behave in real life as she does. 🤬 Even if there was no love in a relationship, a wife still puts up a show of harmony in front of others, especially ex-wives. We know Ishita and Raman love each other, so for Ishita to be so kind to Raman's ex-wife is complete and utter nonsense. I want to see a jealous and possessive Ishita! I want to see an Ishita who cannot condone Shagun's company, even more than Raman! I want an Ishita who is possessive of Raman and Ruhi and gives fiery replies to Shagun. This kind and sweet Ishita is getting on my nerves. She can be sweet all she wants at home, but in front of Shagun she should show some sass.

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gravshrav23

@gravshrav23

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Posted: 10 years ago

#29

At the risk of facing comments bashing me left right and centre 😛 i'd like to say that Ishita COULD have managed wearing a dress ONCE in her life..wouldnt have killed her individuality and her self-esteem...its not like raman forces his opinions on her every now and then...

and ppl are saying that Raman got it for Ishita because he wanted to show it off to Shagun..! duh! He had already marked it down and coincidentally, he happened to see Shagun wanting the SAME DRESS!! So yeah, he wanted Ishita to look like a diva in her own right, not in comparison to Shagun, and what's wrong with that! Dont we women buy our partners expensive stuff and want them to wear it and flaunt it..look gorgeous?? So its just a normal husband-wife thingey. Raman has had to wear "lungi"countless times when he can easily say he doesnt want to. Why cant Ishita oblige, for once? Will it kill her? Will she become a slave to Raman's wishes thereafter?

NOW..coming to the real issue...let's say she did not like the dress much, or she isnt confident enough to wear it and flaunt it in equal measure...she could have just kept it with her, safely stashed and NOT given it to anybody on this planet, least of all her husband's ex-wife...i dont care how shagun starts her games with mihika post this gown-sequence, all that matters is Mihir and i dont think their marriage would have been annulled if Shagun didnt get tht gown. Mihika is going from a beauty with brains, to a beauty who is dumbing herself down for the sake of her greedy nanad.

The CVs went around showing Ishita did indeed have a spine and a total feminist when she was moving around with Mani all these days. If they are really interested to show her as a strong independent woman, then they should take to picturise her as a woman who has a mind of her own, who can stand up for herself, who doesnt so easily give in to emotional manipulation, who respects the emotions beneath such gifts, who doesnt see the need to sacrifice her happiness for everybody always...a woman who is confident enough to receive compliments and not say, "mere liye?"everytime her husband do something special for her...DUH~~ ISHITA IS FAR FROM ALL THAT. She is becoming more spineless and unreal day by day.

The way she is teasing Raman about Shagun, I wouldnt be surprised if Shagun came back to Bhalla house and snared Raman in a way Ishita can never do...i mean, look at it practically...how long can a man try and not give in to his senses...when will ishita understand she doesnt necessarily have to hop into bed with raman, the least she can do it be a bit posessive about their love...their relationship..be how wives are...SHE IS NOT RIGHT FOR RAMAN. AT ALL. HE IS WASTING HIS GODDAMN TIME ON HER.

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Colt.Pixy

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Posted: 10 years ago

#30

Akangsha
she had already made her mind not to wear any western in party. you see her talk with amma before even seeing dress bought by raman. backless and shoulder less is just lame excuse

@RJ
am damn sure now she is not going to be jealous .

Edited by Colt.Pixy - 10 years ago