An Imp Point to ponder

Have been seeing a lot many posts bashing Ishita and some posts supporting her...but according to me the issue isnt ishita's closeness with her best friend and going overboard with it..A womens relationship with her friend can be extremely close yet pure..its a topic which wld have many for and againsts coz there r people who r open to such thngs and then there r people who r narrowminded..n some in between like me..who personally believes that there is no issue whatsoever with a married women having a male as her best friend..but at the same time , there needs to be some boundaries set since u have certain responsibilites on you n ur priority shld be ur family whereas in ishus case lot many times we have seen her intentionally or unintentionally giving priority to her friend ..but i am not here to discuss that since its already been discussed in many posts..my point is , its all about understanding your partner and the issues he/she had in the past and about behaving a way so as not to touch any of those sensitive issues n hurt the other..i may sound confusing hence i wll just give an eg..it might be common n fun between a husband and wife to crack "sexual jokes" and being partners one doesnt need to feel bad, however, if either one of them has had a bad experience of being "sexually abused "earlier, it sure becomes a sensitive issue...simialar is the case with any other issue, which might be normal for one but sensitve to other coz of some past bad experiences..In this case, Ishita knows how much Raman loved shagun and how he trusted her blindly and yet she broke his trust..here is a man who was cheated by a person he trusted the most in the world so its absolutely fine if he has trust issues and here ishita n ramans havnt even shared a husband wife relation..so isnt the onus on ishita to make sure she behaves in a way that doesnt remind raman of his past bad experience.atleast till they are in a real relation ..shldnt she be careful not to break the trust of her husband who has had a similar experience in the past..her behaviour esp with Mani wld b perfectly fine if she was ramans first wife and its perfectly fine on her part to expect him to trust her completely but in this case, its not the same,Her husband has been cheated earlier so she cannot expect him to trust her blindly.Dont you feel Ishita is being absolutely insenstive towards Ramans feelings ? Just my opinion...:)

Well said..👍🏼 Nice post...👏..

thank you 😊..atleast someone agrees with me 😆

Bang on post my dear! Ishita should have been sensitive since day one because she knows Raman has a bitter past and his insecuritues, pain and hurt will come again seeing his wife with otherM man. She should have some boundaries with her best friend but she gives more importance to Mani as she doesn't wants to give character certificate. Who is saying you to give? But you should have some limits as you know seeing you and Mani together, Raman is getting hurt. She is giving her husband more pain when she knows he is already very much hurt but nah, she is too insensitive to thing like that and is being a abla nari and is showing attitude to Raman.