What was shaguns fault?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Ok, i am not siding shagun or justifying her right but i dont find her at fault either, i mean she had an affair with ramans boss, so what ? She was cheating on raman while married to him ,tat was wrong , but choosing or falling in love with someone is aint wrong ( though there is no love here, she just needs a sophisticated life) so what if she is married , she has the right to choose her life! I would say it was a better choice she chose Ashok after the affair was know to raman! Like they say everything is fair in love and war! I dont understand or dont like when Raman keep taunting shagun everytime he sees her , it clearly means he hasnt moved on, i mean every person has the right to choose , you cannot just force someone to be with you just bcos he/she is married to you!
Edit:The post has been highly misunderstood by many here, i have nowhere mentioned its is ok to have an extra marital affair or cheat on your husband , i am talking only about the choice , i have mentioned wat shagun did was wrong but her right to choose was not wrong!

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SparkleV thumbnail
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Posted: 11 years ago
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The way u are thinking is right... everyone can choose his/her love at any time period of life...

but problem is Shagun hide her affair frm raman and double crossed him... Also at the time of Ruhi's birth she ws having affair with Ashok... and left 6 months daughter leaving her cry...
Also she does fake drama in court fr Adi's custody...
This all made Raman Taunts her every time...

And she went fr money not for love thats very clear to us!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Having an affair isn't right, yes couples may fall out of love doesn't mean you go around cheating on your partner. Secondly she manipulated Adi against Raman. Thirdly she abandoned ruhi and left her and went. Now everyone may have their own perspective but for me she doesn't seem like the best mother and hence is not right. Yes Raman needs to stop taunting her but it's hard to forget such things.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Sorry..You are from which planet dear??
falling in love with some one is not wrong..If she is a widow then its ok..If her husband is a cruel man then ok..Raman was a good and caring husband..Husband ke saath rehathe hue hi Husband ko cheat karna woh galath baath hain..She loves money..thats it...she is not in love with Ashok too..
Husband ke saath paty mein jaatha hain aur udhar boyfreind ke saath flirt karthi hain...

My advice to you- re watch flash back scenes..
Please mention your age here😉

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Posted: 11 years ago
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i agree that she has the right to choose who she loves, but the affair part is my problem. if you are married and find your "soulmate" then get divorced before moving to the new relationship. but has Shagun really moved on? she is so jealous of Ishitha and keeps saying that Raman loves only her, why would you say that if you have trully found the man of your dreams.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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her fault lies in how she went about it and how she continues to behave

you're right- falling in love isn't wrong and it's better she divorced raman rather than continuing with the affair while married or leading raman on. but when she left- she took adi with such lies, she left behind a 6 month old child without an ounce of care, and she viciously ripped apart raman's self worth
and now look at how she's behaving- even before ishita came in raman's life, she was malicious and constantly taunting raman. purposely hurting him for no reason but to feel superior. now that ishita is in his life, she's trying to sabotage their marriage. even though she doesn't want raman, she still doesn't want raman to want anyone else.

falling in love with another is not wrong if you do the right thing
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Posted: 11 years ago
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It's not shagun fault to choose ashok over raman. She has right to move on with that person to whom she love
But it was her fault that she cheated and betrayed raman badly. She should have talk to raman about it or someoneelse but shw choose to betray him. Not only that she brainwash his son against raman and made worst image of him. She lied to adi that it's not her but raman who left her. She filed force charges against him in court that he beat his son. It's not enough she and her bf still make fun of him infront everyone. Even if she moved on with ashok she doesn't want raman to move on from her. She played game and took ruhi with her. She played game create misunderstanding between ishra
After going through this bad phase and betray by that person to whom he loved he surely taunt her. Many people murder this type of people raman is just taunting him and he is not saint ke he will shut his mouth when shagun badmouth about him.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Sorry what? 😕 Shagun wasn't wrong?
She wasn't just married, she was a mother. She cheated on her husband, with his boss. Flirted with that man right under the nose of a spouse who loved her dearly and did so much for her. She made him feel like a loser, killing his self confidence. She tainted her sons mind with dirt, snatched his family, his father and grandparents from him and him from them. And the worst - she left a few months old baby girl, abandoned her as if she meant nothing. And it's not like she loved Ashok, she loved his money and fame.

If she wanted a better life and didn't love Raman enough. She shouldn't have planned kids. She should have spoken it out amiably to the family and him and taken a divorce. THEN we could say, she has a right to choose her life and what was her fault.

Shagun was and is selfish and heartless. Raman wasn't and isn't and because he has a heart is why its hard to just forget whatever she put him through.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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hey buddy raman has moved on...shagun is no one to raman... he is falling fr ishu n its quite evident... bt one can not frget bitter past hw much evr u try... bcz dats a part of ur life... he has changed a lot bcz of shagun... its nt wrng to fall in love... bt cheating on ur partner is wrng...she was in love wid ashok (though she isnt in real, she fell fr his money), then she shud hav spoken abt it to raman...instead she cheated him n left ruhi crying when ruhi was oly 6mnths old... n also i somewhr feel shagun hasnt moved on...if raman dint bothr to shagun, den y wud she find ways too woo him... raman has completely devoted to his relatn wid ishu bt shagun has nt...shagun keeps finding ways to sed*ce him...

also raman doesnt taunt shagun fr leaving him (nt anymore), bt oly give tit fot tat answer... he has frgotten d fact dat he was betrayed by a woman...also nw when he shares his marital experience wid ishu, he has no emotions attached wid it...its jus an experience or story to him... n he doesnt mind spking abt it to ishu (karvacauth wala scene)... this is bcz he is ovr shagun n nw his life revolves oly around ishu n ruhi!!!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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whatever u saying is right..i hv no objection with that..but if u think from raman's side he is no where wrong..u cant say he has not moved on.when we get involved(truely)with someone..it gets difficult to come out of it..it hurts even if relationship is of 3 months or less than that..but here they were together for 10 years..and he was mad for her..n they hv children too.she left raman only for money.u know raman has suffered a lot.and changed completely.it takes lot of guts to reach to the reach the level where raman is today.taunting is normal for raman..he taunts to his wife too..but now test is on the way..now what shagun will do is wait n watch for us..if she truly loved ashok..she will surely try to get him back n will fight..but if she leaves him n gets back to raman for adi's sake..we will get our answer..bcoz what we give to others it gets back to us one day..
today raman has more money than ashok..but shagun is still with ashok.bcoz somewhere she loves ashok...even ashok hv feelings for her but he is kamina.lets see what happens..nut one day shagun will realize that miney is not everything.10yrs ago she has love but less money.but today she has lot of money but no love no care..in her life.
she is busy in showoff

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