Rajma idli daily rantings - Page 5

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Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Nice normal episode

much needed

i honestly dunno why they r sleeping seperate

they can easily sleep on same bed though intimacy isn't there

for that matter i dunno WHY they , two mature adults , have no physical intimacy . It is so funny and ridiculous . Dost Vost and stupid secretive glances and stealthy touches may please teenagers but mature viewers find it all terribly funny . So Ishita cannot have kids but what about physical intimacy and which muhurath r they waiting for .

Also why does Ishita always want full family instead of attempting to enjoy his company or understand him as a man . Is not that her goal , to understand him as a man ? Does she need younger sister to tell her these things ? She was acting like a teenager who does not understand a thing . And she was yawning and bored when they were alone , is this supposed to be something great ?

Instead why not work to take relationship to another level ? See how Vandita and Mihika are . Why won't Shagun win as a woman if there r zero attempts to be a woman on Ishita's side .

. Thought I agree I found her reluctance to go alone in car with him really odd 😕

oh kool and aryen so agree with you both.

I was thinking same till now. in this accident track, she was taunting and blaming him that he loves still shagun. means she wanted him to become reluctant . now she is getting his company then why she is not enjoying ?

I feel bad for poor Raman, he wants her company and he wanted to give his company to his wife he realized and knows she has too fallen for him and she was wanting his company and badly hurt with shagun's imagined love. now he has stepped ahead, she is stepping back that does not make sense for me 😕

the way he called other people kabab me haddi in front of her, it was his clear indirect confession that what he wanted, they din show once even she might be happy with him alone.😕

and for bed, yes I felt and I expected from her to insist him to sleep on bed 😕

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

. Thought I agree I found her reluctance to go alone in car with him really odd 😕

Aeryn it won't keep in with the mature tempo of the story if they keep up the no sex thing .

And ok , fine . Show it as 'they taking their time' , i guess they have to delay to make the romantic viewers thirsty and TRPS .

But

i have strong objections To Ishita's denseness as a woman .

She is mature , she is a DOCTOR . She herself told Shagun i will not leave what u left . What does she exactly want , just being Ruhi's maa? That may have been the original contract but things have come a long way since then , where was it in the contract of her accepting his family as hers and being a bahu ? Contract was only of being Ruhi's guardian . If she has moved forward there , why not here ? And i do not buy for a moment that he is unapproachable bcoz of his sarcastic one liners . They r his personality just as naive lectures r hers . He mingles with her family , treats her family like a son , once lifted her , arranges alone date for her , goes hurriedly to check if she is alright when killer is around , but she cannot even have a normal pleasant conversation with him on a 3 hour drive but yawns and finds it all boring and goes to SLEEP ? huh ? See Vandita and Mihika ...they r women , not this way ! What will u get just dressing Ruhi for school and taking her studies and doing meals for the house , if he has come 2 steps ahead , and we all know how burnt out and tired he was , what about u ? Talk to him nicely in the car , dress to his liking [ he has given hints often] , do SOMETHING ????????? What i want Amma Appa , Pappaji Mummyji all the time ? And then why does Shagun as a woman hurt u , u make zero attempts to be one ! if her reciprocation as a woman earns thanda response from him , Ishita can be jealous of Shagun all she likes , i will say nothing . But i don't think he won't respond .😆 She badly needs Mihika FIRING her .

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

<font color="#0000ff">Its not just that .</font>

<font color="#0000ff">She does NOTHING as a woman . Neither does she enjoy his company nor does she bother to dress up nor does she look foward to alone time .</font>

<font color="#0000ff">All she did lately was fret over the time he was spending with Shagun .</font>

<font color="#0000ff">Even Ruhi has a woman inside her child's body , she brought those dresses . Not her . I simply don't understand , money is no object , he is generous that way , she herself earns . Does she need Bala to advise her even in this .</font>

<font color="#0000ff">Look at all the other women ...Vandita , Mihika , Shagun , Madhu and even Toshiji ...they enjoy with their spouses as women . Only she is blank in that aspect ...and i find it very hard to believe this as a viewer . I don't agree with the behenjee comments of Shagun but this is wholly her mistake .</font>

We'll I agree Ishita is stupid in not understanding anything romantic or her husbands moves ... But that's the way she is. ... Not all ppl r like romantic that in real life ... Some ppl r stupid n boring... But tht doesn't mean ki she's not a woman ... Just that she likes doing things for her inlaws Ruhi more than for her husband...

As far as dressing is concerned I too don't dress for my husband ... I dress for myself n m quite happy with it ... I don't need an approval from my husband to know that I look Gud ... I know I look Gud lolls kidding ... Ya but if my husband asks me to wear something I do wear it ... 😆 I m also pissed at the point that she didn't wear jeans today ... But I wanted her to wear it for herself not to impress her husband ... Neways...

Now coming to point of her refusing to sit with Raman n dozing off ... She was completely trying to ignore Ramans advances ... Mayb she wants to take it slow ... Ya she has forgiven him as a wife/ friend but some part of her must b wanting to know him more before trusting him n acting all lovey dovey with him... A lot has happened so she is right in completely acting arrogant here ... Raman deserves it at the moment!!! N besides men don't like girls who r easy to get ... They find them loose ... Somebody like shagun shall hop if she finds greener grass ... So I give my full support to Ishita as a woman ...

Both in case of Vandu n Mihika they r married to or marrying the man they love ... Hence they understand all these things ... Whereas Ishita is still not in phase of love thy husband 😛 once that starts she will surely dress for him n go alone on dates with him...

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Its not just that .

She does NOTHING as a woman . Neither does she enjoy his company nor does she bother to dress up nor does she look foward to alone time .

All she did lately was fret over the time he was spending with Shagun .

Even Ruhi has a woman inside her child's body , she brought those dresses . Not her . I simply don't understand , money is no object , he is generous that way , she herself earns . Does she need Bala to advise her even in this .

Look at all the other women ...Vandita , Mihika , Shagun , Madhu and even Toshiji ...they enjoy with their spouses as women . Only she is blank in that aspect ...and i find it very hard to believe this as a viewer . I don't agree with the behenjee comments of Shagun but this is wholly her mistake .

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

<font color="#0000ff">Even in arranged marraiges women act like women😉there is no 'love' there😉</font>

<font color="#0000ff">and dressing up for yourself is fine but dressing up for husband is not demeaning but very feminine too , something 99% of women do .</font>

<font color="#0000ff">And sleeping for straight 3 hours ? Please .😆</font>

just came across this discussion, I agree with all of you. Plus when do people in arranged marriages sleep on separate beds. I found the sleeping in car part rude, your husband is driving 3 hours talk to him for a while atleast.