Rajma idli daily rantings - Page 6

Originally posted by: Aeryn

An OK episode.

Liked Mihir/Shagun scene. There's definitely more than meet the eyes. I find their relation very intriguing and I am always eager to know more of their backstory.

Liked Mrs Iyers. True to her character. Here she thought practically and very realistically. No over the top dialogue and good acting.

I am surprised at Ashok. When he told Ishita about Shagun, I thought he had a plan B ready as this act of his defied his goal of keeping his girlfriend with him but there it seems there's no plan at all...😕

However he is, I felt pity for Adi tonight as the child is really concerned for his mom but here mom isn't ready to put aside her ego just so she can settle a score with her ex husband's wife. How pathetic and disgusting is that...

Today my feelings are that Ishita's all actions stem from her insecurity, her hurt that pati seemingly chose his first wife and may never love her back.

In apology-scene, 2 facts:

- when param was thought to be Amma's accident culprit, Ishita was all set to drop the case and NOT give her mother justice just for Simmi and toshi's sake. Then she didn't make a fuss and ask for an apologize. (And he was the guy was tried to rape her!) Why the different treatment for Shagun?

- if it was really to give justice to Amma, the possibility of dropping the case would have never cropped up in the first place. She wouldn't sway and adapt her tactics according to the culprit.

In short her actions (past & present) don't go in par with her words so I am not buying the "Amma ki liye".

Then her "I have seen pyaar in Raman's eyes for Shagun" is again an indicator of her vulnerability. She is blinded by insecurity. She has taken Raman giving saath to Shagun as love - when in reality each time she saw them together, there were never romantic gestures but only polite behaviour, frowns or shouting. Her insecurity doesn't let her consider the hatred she saw in his eyes and actions for Shagun more than enough time since she knows him nor the hurt and shame he had for hurting her (Ishita) which was clear in his drunken outburst more recently.

Overall I am still more than miffed with CVs for purposely toying with characterizations (Ishita's, Mihir's, Bhallas') by avoiding addressing this simple fact: whether Shagun or Adi is the culprit, dragging the matter to court will inevitably have huge consequences on Adi's future!

I don't understand why CVs are hell bent on court drama as it is a veritable mess which doesn't seem well thought out at all.

Hope it will get over soon.

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

For courts to consider the Ruhi case , lot of time will be spent .

Regarding the premise that as parents do not want bratty kids in juvenile delinquent company should their kids go scot free ...they r sad sad helpless cases . No parent must face this but these homes teach pickpocketing , drugs , homosexuality , no jokes ...all who say he deserves to be there , to each their own .

Aeryn fab post . Agree with all , especially the ever changing Amma ke liye scene .😆 Infact i want Amma to take over , firmly tell Ishita to butt out and make her own decisions ...dismiss the case and move on .

Originally posted by: Aeryn

@charminggenie -

Yes you are right. Exactly my point. It was Raman who was adamant on finding culprit. This fight for justice has never been Ishita's own conviction. As it involves her mother she just gave saath to Raman. If this fight for truth was her conviction then she wouldn't have propose to let the case drop today! Even today she was ready to let it go!! I am not imagining here, it is what is shown in the show. So my interpretation that all this is NOT done for justice is still very much valid.

Ishita has never been shown petty, vindictive before and I liked her better that way. She has reasons to be less than amiable with Shagun. Never have I said that her insecurity isn't valid, it's human to feel insecure in certain circumstances...I just said that it is clouding her judgement. Bas.

My main problem here is that Ishita (in fact not just her as I have stated in my previous post) in her hate for Shagun isn't doing the simple math that if mom is in jail then considering Adi's complex situation, his future will be at stake. If Shagun is jailed that does not mean Raman will automatically (if ever) have the custody as he has been found guilty of child abuse. No court will overlook that. I don't see what is in there that needs spelling out 😕 It is simple mathematics. I am disappointed as the Ishita I knew would have never toyed with/put at stake a child's future in order to put Shagun in her place.

Originally posted by: Aeryn

@charminggenie -

Ishita has never been shown petty, vindictive before and I liked her better that way. She has reasons to be less than amiable with Shagun. Never have I said that her insecurity isn't valid, it's human to feel insecure in certain circumstances...I just said that it is clouding her judgement. Bas.

If I go my the time-frame of the big reveal right, I would personally give her a pass considering the build up . Even if its a error in her judgement then she is within her human capacity to do so. After all we don't want her Mahaanta here, do we?

My main problem here is that Ishita (in fact not just her as I have stated in my previous post) in her hate for Shagun isn't doing the simple math that if mom is in jail then considering Adi's complex situation, his future will be at stake. If Shagun is jailed that does not mean Raman will automatically (if ever) have the custody as he has been found guilty of child abuse. No court will overlook that. I don't see what is in there that needs spelling out 😕 It is simple mathematics. I am disappointed as the Ishita I knew would have never toyed with/put at stake a child's future in order to put Shagun in her place.

Well here is my argument about this - Shagun-Adi divorce and settlement is not discussed by Raman till now. For a long time Adi was in a hostel - so as a parental figure Shagun was absent. So we would be making guesses about what decision Court would take -either they send him back to the hostel or to Raman . For her at this moment- Adi is not even in the picture because all the circumstances have depicted Raman's actions more towards him having feelings for Shagun than for Adi. I mean , if it was just for Adi's concern then won't Ishita feel that this was a very menial matter that Raman could have made cleared to her at the very onset. IF it was Adi, Raman would have spoken to her , considering she has cleared the air about Adi weeks back. If it was for Adi, Ishita trusts Raman to know that she would always understand him. The problem is by hiding all this Raman has hinted more towards his involvement with Shagun than any fatherly affection. So probably that is why Adi is not clicking in her.

Anger, Disappointment and shock ,totally justify why she is not thinking this through, considering the time span( a day ?).

Another point more than hate for Shagun her reaction is in retaliation to Raman's behavior. She is frustrated by his silence. Probably she is taking these extreme steps to ensure that he opens up.