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Posted: 11 years ago
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is this what Raman is saying...
when Adi confessed there was more a sense if him being mad but no guilt for nearly killing someone
to reward Adi Raman gave him a picnic treat
Raman has not been shown to tell Adi off once instead papa loves u
Adi shows no sign of guilty and Raman dsnt think it important for him to feel guilty
not even a sorry to iyers


I understand y Raman dsnt want send him jail and infact save him that makes sense and we agree no father would do so...

but does Adi behavior not concern him...he should at least gave him punishment maybe have to help madhavi for like 1 month and say sorry for nearly killing her...

and I really don't see y Raman couldn't tell ishita his thinking regarding that makes no sense

I.understand him protecting Adi but not him not punishing him at all

you views welcome ????,???

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Posted: 11 years ago
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please guys would love to hear ur views?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: 100GIRL

is this what Raman is saying...
when Adi confessed there was more a sense if him being mad but no guilt for nearly killing someone
to reward Adi Raman gave him a picnic treat
Raman has not been shown to tell Adi off once instead papa loves u
Adi shows no sign of guilty and Raman dsnt think it important for him to feel guilty
not even a sorry to iyers


I understand y Raman dsnt want send him jail and infact save him that makes sense and we agree no father would do so...

but does Adi behavior not concern him...he should at least gave him punishment maybe have to help madhavi for like 1 month and say sorry for nearly killing her...

and I really don't see y Raman couldn't tell ishita his thinking regarding that makes no sense

I.understand him protecting Adi but not him not punishing him at all

you views welcome ????,???



Exactly my thoughts! He didn't scold Adi at all, took him for a picnic and is showering all his love on him, this way Adi will never realise or feel guilty. Not punishing him will only make him think that he can do anything and get away with it. Not wanting to file a case and take a very strong step like punishing him by law masks sense but Raman should have been really really strict with him and should have punished him instead of hiding his deed from everyone specially Ishita. Ishita would never file a case against Adi instead she would have helped raman giving a properpunishment to adi so he learns a lesson.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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exactly I just hope this is ment to make Raman realise she can't buy Adi love but as a parents no matter what ur kids Wilkinson think give them right teaching. ...I hope that ishita recording shugun saying I'm not going to apologize it show Raman she dsnt care that much about Adi^
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Your title was deceptive. Didn't catch the sarcasm till I read your post. I'm fed up hearing Raman whine about his majboori. He is a stupid emotional fool who cannot handle the emotional blackmailing of his selfish ex-wife and spoilt son. As a result he keeps hurting the people who really care for him. He did not scold or punish Adi because he feels that if he does Adi will move further away from him. In his selfishness to try to win over his son's love he is blind to the fact that Adi is going on a path of destruction which will not only harm others but also consume him. A good parent is one who corrects his children even if they resent it for at the end of the day they need to grow up as good human beings. As he admitted he is not a good father, a good husband, a good son or a good son-in-law. Poor Ishita. How many people in the Bhalla household does she have to straighten out?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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The biggest mistake a parent can make is protect a child when they have committed a
crime.

And Raman has made that mistake and even rewarded him with a picnic and ice cream and a fun holiday.

For a hit and run Raman rewarded him with the holiday in a resort, what will Raman do if Adi kills someone next ... Take him to Disney Land.

What does it tell your child that has shown absolutely no remorse or guilt for what he did to an innocent pedestrian.

That no matter what I do my father is going to protect and obstruct justice to save me.

So I can kill someone tomorrow and my sucker of a father is going to get me off.

This is the formula for how big criminals are born. It is a shame that Adi will not learn any lesson here except that... I can do what I want anytime.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Raman is sending a wrong message to Adi.
Which in my books is Totally immoral.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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what we all expect Raman to do is to send Adi to juvenile custody. Is it possible for a father to do that ? Whether that child loves him or not is secondary ..

and hiding the truth is his biggest mistake I do agree..but..if what will be situation if Ishita dnt understand and stand against Adi(she has every right to do that as it's her mother who got effected)

it is the same Ishita who said to leave the case when raman is suspecting Param..(for siimi or toshi whatever)

but she is fighting for justice when the suspect is shagun..what if she does the same thing with adi..(in Raman's point of view where he can't take a chance)

he has to tell adi about right and wrong. He has to teach him.. but in this situation where adi is in full of fear and panic will he listen to Raman.

He is comforting him so that he will burst out the truth in front of anyone just like he did with Raman. That is what bothering him.

While his conversation with Ishita he said he is solving Adi problem and will tell the details once it get solved. That mean he don't want to take a chance which can end up adi in jail.

I hope cv's will show something like Raman explaining Adi what he did was wrong after all this drama..

This is purely my opinion...not meant to hurt anyone.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dolly-heart

The biggest mistake a parent can make is protect a child when they have committed a crime. And Raman has made that mistake and even rewarded him with a picnic and ice cream and a fun holiday...


...What does it tell your child that has shown absolutely no remorse or guilt for what he did to an innocent pedestrian.

That no matter what I do my father is going to protect and obstruct justice to save me.

So I can kill someone tomorrow and my sucker of a father is going to get me off.

This is the formula for how big criminals are born. It is a shame that Adi will not learn any lesson here except that... I can do what I want anytime.


This actually reminds me of a criminal case we had a few months ago here in the USA that caused alot of controversy.

Some rich sixteen-year old was driving drunk and was involved in a hit and run. Unfortunately (unlike Mrs Iyer) - he killed four pedestrians. KILLED four pedestrians - and severely injured 2 more. This child had not only (illegally) stolen - yes, stolen - the alcohol, but he was SPEEDING more than 30 mph/around 48 kmph above the speed limit and had SEVEN passengers in his vehicle.

During this young man's trial, the lawyer used the term "affluenza" to try to excuse his crimes.

"Affluenza" is apparently a psychological ~illness~ which affects wealthy young people because rich parents do not set limits for them.

"Affluenza" was used to justify the kid's ~innocence~ because according to the theory of affluenza, the kid wasn't at fault.

Rather, because of his parents not setting limits for him, he couldn't link his bad behavior to consequences/punishment as his parents taught him that wealth buys privilege.

Let me just recap all the stuff he did:
1) Drive drunk, which in itself is illegal but he was 16 - and US law prohibits anyone under 21 from consuming alcohol, so already he was committing two criminal acts with this one.
2) had SEVEN passengers in his car
3) was speeding
4) hit and killed four bystanders/pedestrians.

This is a real case! And you know what - this little asshole didn't get prison nor juvenile detention time (which, if he was a middle-class or non-white kid, would definitely have gotten).

Instead, he was sentenced to six months in a posh rehab center along with a mere 12 (TWELVE?!!?) hours of community service. And the rehab center - just reading its description it sounds like a holiday resort and not a place for people to seriously think and reform (apparently it offers horse-back riding, cooking, martial arts, massages, swimming...).

Yeah, Adi was not drunk nor did he kill anyone but he still committed a big crime; hit-and-runs are no joke, neither is underage driving. But Shagun and Raman especially trying to mollycoddle him at age 12 like this and use (Raman's) wealth to destroy evidence etc.. - well, what'll happen if in 4 years, Adi actually kills someone like the actual case above?

Note: The teen who's case I mentioned is Ethan Couch; anyone can google up the story and the controversy surrounding it. Unfortunately, this is the real state of the world today.
Edited by gems4sana - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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this track stopped making sense a long time ago, now all i want is this track to get over and we can move on to something else.
raman wow i dont what to say they are ruining his chracter

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