Children ke chakkar mei

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Adi, the poor kid was probably glad someone is willing to spend time with him. Kudos to the writers👏! A beautiful message hidden in algebra😉👍🏼Bala tells Adi not to guess the values but consider the variables. Translated in my mind "don't take everything for granted (values) but consider that things change (variables) to get to the answer. A clue about where things are headed for Adi and something for him to remember?

Adi was clearly bothered after overhearing Bala's chat with his champ and buddy Shravu. My heart went out to him during his chat, when Bala shared that a father-son relationship was fun, did it set the wheels in motion in Adi's mind? Did he miss his dad Raman in his life? Or was he confused and hurt that he doesn't have that relationship in his life? He's already eleven, just the age when boys need a father figure or an adult male to be a mentor them into adulthood.

Children are not born brats, they become one molded in by the circumstances, environment and values they are raised with by the adults in their lives. Life with Shagun and Ashok has been a toxic environment for Adi. Children keep life simple. They enjoy the little things...love the attention and imitate life observing the adults around them. They are not born materialistic. More often than not, it's the parent who has little time for their child, who withholds affection and fails to engage with their child who compensates for it by showering their child with a lot of material gifts, whether the child wants it or even enjoys using them.

Adi is not a bad kid, he's just a product of his environment. The role models in his life are pompous, arrogant, self-absorbed and treat people with disdain. He is in the midst of narcissistic and sociopath adults. He is just living the life he knows.

Like father like son, in spite of the years apart Adi is as impatient as Raman...when he says is "hadh hai yaar" 😆when he's asked to try his uniform on.

Adi is still unaware of Bala's relationship to Shravu and Ishu. Adi seems fine working with Bala. Will he have bonded with Bala by the time he learns that he's Ishu's jiju and Shravu's dad? Shagun hired Bala in spite of knowing the relationship, yet she accused Ishu of sending her jobless jiju to tutor Adi and spy on them. Talk about paranoia.

Adi is still a child and with some guidance and lots of loving care he can see the errors of his ways and change for the better. The differences in parenting by Shagun and Raman was highlighted at the school incident when Raman had Adi apologize to Shravan, Vandu and Ishu for his misbehavior towards Shravu. Raman taught Adi the importance of owning up to one's mistakes and apologizing. Shagun admired her son's anti-social behavior🤔 and stormed out once Adi apologized😲. The education of Adi continues. Raman and Ishu may have to wade the stormy waters with Bala's help to get Adi on the right track. Couldn't help wondering how Adi would have reacted to see his Papa around other children.

Some hilarious moments...😃

Raman picked Shravu and Ruhi with both hands like they were couple of feather pillows.😆

What does the logo PSR in Raman's office stand for?🤔

Proud Punjaban Papa and Bhalla babysitter had his hands full at the Madrasi Day care center at the Iyer's house. Between Mihir and Raman running ragged managing the kids, it seemed like the next sequel of Golmaal.😆

Mihika, the mischief-maker always gets Mihir to do things to prove his love that sends him into a panic. Maan lo Mihir🤓. There'll never be a dull day in his married life with Mihika. The girl is full of surprises and will keep you on your toes, and the marriage fresh and fun-filled.

Some real moments in y'day episode...

Raman reprimanding the kids for using Ananya as the parcel in a game of "pass the parcel", then telling them to sit quietly "with fingers on your lips". OMG! Flashback to the years in school when the teachers told us to do just that.😆

Raman bribes Shravu to get him to stop crying bec' Ruhi cut his hair. An overwhelmed Raman not remembering he told Ruhi to irritate Shravu. So typical of parents forgetting what they say when managing children.🤔

Raman attempting to tell stories and the kids telling him they'd already heard it.😛

The best moment of the episode...Raman's expression when Ishu burst out laughing at his predicament. As a parent it's such a relatable moment.😆👏

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MERARAI thumbnail
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Posted: 11 years ago
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It's spooky 😲that Bala told Raman today about Adi what I wrote in this post before the episode.🤓
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Posted: 11 years ago
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What does the logo PSR in Raman's office stand for?🤔

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Even I was cracking up my brain to figure out!!🤣 What all if we notice!

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Originally posted by: Jyoe


What does the logo PSR in Raman's office stand for?🤔

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Even I was cracking up my brain to figure out!!🤣 What all if we notice!


Punjabi Son Raman?😛
If we know what industry he is successful in that would help to figure it out.🤔
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Posted: 11 years ago
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the kid who plays adi nailed that scene yesterday, surprised to see such a change in performance. perhaps because CV's were trying to portray him as a manipulative mini villain, and it was not working. doesn't matter what kind of environment he was raised in, he is still an innocent child and CV's should work towards showing that.
you are right, children are born as a blank slate and they are a product of their environment. it is not adi's fault that he was raised among sociopaths who know nothing about values or morals. He annoys the hell out of me, but I understand his perspective.


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