Help me understand this somone...

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Posted: 11 years ago
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What was the reason Raman told Shagun that he cannot become "baap" again ..
Really Raman isn't even sleeping with Ishita ...What is his plan ..that he doesn't love her enough now so they don't share a bed, but he predicts the future that he will eventually love her and then "make love" with her and then after that he cannot become a father because she is infertile??? and so he says he cannot become baap...and also does it mean that if he *could* become a father again ..he'll let go of Adi ..or love him any less? ..I mean Adi is Adi regardless of how many other kids you have ..you love each child as much as u did before you have the other child! ..
That statement was totally out of line man ..I"m willing to forgive the fact that he even entertained Shagun ..he could have regretted to himself that he forgot Adi's date for stem cell renewal and told her he'll see her at the hospital and then shared his regret with Ishita ...Anyway even if a forgive that and like some of you have said ..he has a past and he can't help but remember the fond memories ..OK fine ..but really that statement about not being a father again was completely out of line ...
If I were Ishu it would break me man ..totally ..I would really feel so terrible ...Maybe even go into depression ...I mean Ishu's marriage with Subbu broke because of that ..now Raman the one she married feels that lacking ..its hard ...and RAman's statement when they have no physical relationship is baseless...
Please knock some sense into me if what i'm feeling is wrong!

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Everything was baseless today in terms of Raman Bhalla. No one has any rights to say anything about anyone's disability even if it's Raman Bhalla(so called famous character). How can he even say about her disability who has taught him the ability to love his daughter. He doesn't deserve Ishita because if he can say such a big thing infront of Shagun in obsession of his First-Child (I think he is the only one in this world has First-Child) it's better Ishita should leave him in his ego zone,his favourite past.Omg, I am sounding like big time hater of YHM which ideally am not. Just one episode made me write so much that too all bad things. Request to the writers of YHM please help me come out of this phase soon.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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i really don't understand RamGun scenes...it looks illogical to me...stem cell renewal...what kind of crap is that...she was flaunting this crap for 2 continuous epi that raman has forgotten...and plot and plan in the party to separate raman from ishu for a short while...it was a lame scene...i don't get a single head or tail in that scenes...all i know raman is obsessed with adi...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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u ve a point. fictional soaps esp kekta soaps mei logic nahi magic hota,sense nahi sensuality hota.just chemistry baki mystery n history. tats d irony of soaps lol.
Edited by Savz_Startling - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I feel his view of saying baap nahi bansakta coz iahita n he doesn't share any bonding so for him as of now life will go like ishu being friend in relation of marriage to him...

I think he pickng up shagun saying u gave me that bliss of bcoming baap craap is all the emotion side of Raman who still is lingering in past diggg not knowing to come out but actingcrude putting a charade of nafrat... He is a lost child standing in cross road... Someone hasto throw light o what is to do and what he is doing iswrong which ishu did she gave him sol to respect her as adis mom and ignore ur past relation and present enwmity... And digest the reality...

Now tpdays lighter moments between them of coordination for kids is the crux of story where their hands met for promise is based...

Am sure there will beincreasing closeness and one day relation forms in terms of physical bonding ... And probably there could be a chance oc ishu conceiving but her life in danger n so on... So that sento emo tracks comes to us... On apositive note... My PoV
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Raman is complex can't get what he meant .
Obsessed with adi bad memories with shagun stays forever and beautiful friendship with ishu just started .
It's clear he wants adi but adi comes with baggage shagun .
He wants only adi that's impossible .
He want ishu for ruhi .
Poor guy stuck between 2 ladies ( panouti words haunt me 2 ladies lucky Raman)
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Posted: 11 years ago
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yea that line hit me hard too ...Also there are a lot of orphaned and uncared for kids in the world that need loving generous families...he can always be a baap to those kids ...Also he likes Adi only because Adi was conceived with his sperm ..i'm sure he doesn't care that the egg was Shaguns ..infact I hope he detests that fact ...so he can always have a child using his sperm with surrogacy and what not ...
Uncalled for line ..hope he explains it tomorrow saying that he was frustrated that he couldn't touch his beautiful wife and that he wants to do so much with her and that frustration manifested in the fact that he can't have a child because he thinks ishu wont allow him to touch her ...and then the make up and make love!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mages

i really don't understand RamGun scenes...it looks illogical to me...stem cell renewal...what kind of crap is that...she was flaunting this crap for 2 continuous epi that raman has forgotten...and plot and plan in the party to separate raman from ishu for a short while...it was a lame scene...i don't get a single head or tail in that scenes...all i know raman is obsessed with adi...

I will say YHM is no more like it began it has changed a lot as it is a Headache...
this is no more upon custody and the love as the title suggests...
OBSESSION is a part of it
Raman obsessed with Adi_
Adi obsessed with shagun-
Shagun obsessed with Raman-
Now if someone can help...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: rockstar29

Raman is complex can't get what he meant .
Obsessed with adi bad memories with shagun stays forever and beautiful friendship with ishu just started .
It's clear he wants adi but adi comes with baggage shagun .
He wants only adi that's impossible .
He want ishu for ruhi .
Poor guy stuck between 2 ladies ( panouti words haunt me 2 ladies lucky Raman)



on light note raman wants ishu for ruhi n wants adi but adi comes with shagun but still lucky raman says he can't become father 😲 😉 😆 just kidding
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Yeah totally agree :/ I was really disappointed by raman in todays epi 🤔 and he didnt even realized that how much hurt ishita was..and he didnt even say sorry :/
But OMG its sweetness of ishita that after all that crap..she was still saying that she will never come in between adi and raman and she will takecare of them..like hats off girl!!
But raman a big time disappointment 🤔

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