Does anyone think shagun did d right thing by leaving raman?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Dey showed earlier that raman had a salary of 25000 wid two children, n for shagun here was a crore pati guy- Ashok ready to give away all his wealth for her. I m just curious does anyone here think she was not so wrong? I m not married but just wonder is money as imp as love in a marriage practically? Is wanting luxuries wrong ?wat do u guys say?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Yes she did good as if she had stayed she would have continued to create rifts between Raman and his family and also make Raman feel he doesnt make enough money to keep her happy. I am one for clean break rather than years of kur- kur with no love and compassion. Raman would have been treated like a dog all his life...so I think its good for both of them. If Shagun kept to her own then I guess Raman would be fine too but she keeps meddling and Raman needs to stop showing off to Ashok and Shagun.

Adi is happy with his mom and Ruhi with the dad, so the parents just need to learn and live with it. But, that is me being logical..the matters of the heart are another story...

Regarding her leaving Raman for Ashok, now that is stupid. She should have married a rich guy in the first place. Divorce is not an answer if someone better comes along rather if the marriage doesnt turn out the way you had imagined. Maybe you misjudged a person before marriage or you are caught in circumstances which you cannot deal with.,,,,,,inlaw interference etc
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Posted: 11 years ago
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She was wrong to leave, especially considering how she left. NOTHING justifies leaving your child in my book (I'm willing to consider adoption cases as the exception and maybe a few other extreme circumstances). I'm glad she did, though, because without her leaving, Raman and Ishita would not have been possible, so thanks, Shagun! 😃
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Posted: 11 years ago
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She did right cos her leaving made Ishita enter in Raman's life. And w/o Ishita in Raman's life, his life would always have been incomplete, unhappy, charmless. In this sense, she did the best thing.

But, for money, she left Raman. Money is important. But, there's something else too ...love, dignity, respect and trust...w/o all these no money can buy happiness. She lost it here.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I thank Shagun everyday for leaving Raman because we were able to get Ishra.
money IS an important need but not the ONLY one. You don't leave your family just because they are in a financial problem. You support them. Shagun wanted the luxuries of life.
Sometimes, even when you have all the luxuries of the world with you, you would want someone to share them with.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I initially thought she did not like him and thus wanted to get a divorce . But the real reason , her affair with Ashok and the way she left proved me wrong !
I would rather tell Raman did the right thing by divorcing Shagun
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Isma_A

She was wrong to leave, especially considering how she left. NOTHING justifies leaving your child in my book (I'm willing to consider adoption cases as the exception and maybe a few other extreme circumstances). I'm glad she did, though, because without her leaving, Raman and Ishita would not have been possible, so thanks, Shagun! 😃


Yes nothing justifies leaving ur little kid like she did to ruhi. Bang on.
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Originally posted by: shazam1

Yes she did good as if she had stayed she would have continued to create rifts between Raman and his family and also make Raman feel he doesnt make enough money to keep her happy. I am one for clean break rather than years of kur- kur with no love and compassion. Raman would have been treated like a dog all his life...so I think its good for both of them. If Shagun kept to her own then I guess Raman would be fine too but she keeps meddling and Raman needs to stop showing off to Ashok and Shagun.

Adi is happy with his mom and Ruhi with the dad, so the parents just need to learn and live with it. But, that is me being logical..the matters of the heart are another story...

Regarding her leaving Raman for Ashok, now that is stupid. She should have married a rich guy in the first place. Divorce is not an answer if someone better comes along rather if the marriage doesnt turn out the way you had imagined. Maybe you misjudged a person before marriage or you are caught in circumstances which you cannot deal with.,,,,,,inlaw interference etc


Well said. Good analysis.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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bilkul theek kiya becoz agar shagun aisa nahi karti toh Raman ki zindagi mein Ishita ki koi importance nahi hoti aur ishita raman ke liye sirf ek neighbour hoti so shagun ne bohot acha kiya 😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Ishita coming to Raman's life proves one thing.. life is just fair. eventually. 😊

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