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Posted: 11 years ago
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I only wonder, how Madhu would have reacted if Bala had been accused by Mihika. Not the same, but she doesn't have a son so?

Mr Bhalla did not say a word to Ishita. All the talking was done by Simmi and Toshiji. Miffed at Toshi's crass comments is understandable. Simmi, is the real victim here, so honestly having her defend her husband is almost expected.

Mr. Bhalla had his daughter and her life on one hand to consider and a son in law who had so far been ideal in their eyes and a daughter in law who had not confided before, but now stood as accused of harassing Parmeet instead of the other way round. I don't know what any man would do, if not stand in silence and take time off to figure it all out.

Her family, gave bhashans, but nor Mr.Iyer, nor the fiery Bala conduct an investigation to prove her guilt-free. They just expected the bhallas to believe their DIL instead of their SIL who they have clearly known for longer. I mean, if the tables were turned on them, I wonder how they would react to Bala being accused versus him accusing their DIL.

It's not just Ishita's and a woman's POV here, one has to see it from everyone who had something at stake, especially more sensible minded Raman and Mr. Bhalla. Romi, too, stood mute, and did not react except to stop Simmi from attacking Ishita. Mihika, on the other hand was ready to go sound them off, without knowing any facts of the matter. So, when it comes to choosing between two members of your own family, it is a different POV, and when it is simply trusting your daughter over another man is a different POV. Just my opinion, no offence to anyone.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: pomegranate


Because raman has an ego problem. No one said that he is perfect, and no one said that he can change overnight. just compare him to how he was like a couple of months ago and how he is now, there is a big difference, he has made a lot of progress. however, he clearly does not understand ishita that well and he still is a egotistical man. and that is ok, it does not make him an awful person but yes, he needs more time to develop as a character and he is slowly learning.



raman has ego problems only with Ishita and that ego also cant stand in front of little dictator ruhi.😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Both Ishita and raman are tied more due to ruhi. What a fragile situation for both of them? It is just suffocating to tolerate each other just for the sake of a kid.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

madhu is better educated than toshi and she should show basic courtesy to raman and his father.

But she wants to compete with toshi word for word like ...



Well pointed out. I really do not know why Madhu is being so rude and aggressive with Raman. And she spoke so curtly to Mr Bhalla who had come to their house to apologize - not done !
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Mr.Bhalla, Romi came there to apologise n reconcile with her. This time they were not coming to accuse her.She has to be like Mr.Iyer. As a mother she should understand the situation and react.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Both Ishita and raman are tied more due to ruhi. What a fragile situation for both of them? It is just suffocating to tolerate each other just for the sake of a kid.


Not in this case leaves . They married for her , thats the crux of their marraige .

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