Stupid Mihika - Page 5

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

well dear

relations r more complicated and firm now , they cannot be broken off due to one person . Bahut ulajh gaye hai . He did not know anything and he was insulted , not right . Its rude , thats what i felt as i saw the episode .

Dont make Mihir an innocent , he has broken Mihika's heart twice . Raman, Mihir and Romi had done wrong to her .

Mihika told much lesser than they deserve

mihika anger towards mihir is justified cause he hasnt proved to b a gud lover,but today mihika was over the top.

mhika can behave anywaybsje wats with mhir who can make up his mind and decide what he want to do...i mean if the guy who claims to love then on his best mate decided to gt married to someone elae bt say o still love u il be like W*F make ur mind up and stick to it...she in love woth mhir no denying that bt because she decide to marry trisha she hates him bt still love him. im sure we have all gone throgh that a guy who love bt hate at the same time commom emotion.

Now in ishita case for her view only has raman taken ishita side no so what u sayin is like mre iyer took her n she went what did u want mrs.balla to kickher out n the iyer just watch??? raman was nt showin any support to ishu at that time maybe if he eas iyer woulnt need to come. yes we kno raman beluve ishu and will look for proof we know ishu doesnt mihka dsnt iyer dont!!! from that view she mad at raman becaus eahe has full faith in ishita and knows ishita has nt done anyrhing wrong...mhiksa mad beacuse raman dsnt belive ishita and he has no reason not to belive her coz everythin ishita has only proved she says the truth.

now u comparing this to the mms scandle and say that well she didnt trust mhir from wjat i gather mhir broke the engagment off duento raman n thn the mms was sent. come on who would belive mhir thn...tjink about ur boyfrnd who you have been for alot time was going to marry breakes up with u coz his best m8 says so on engagemnt my trust would of been broken then it takes yrs to build trust and one moment to break it.now who chather u alrdt doubtin on coz he abandoned u.last min now a mms has been sent u gna assume.its him any person would beacuse to he nt the person u thought.

@ Kools - to me mihika is a hot tempered girl who likes everything to go on her terms alone. My way or the highway type of girl.

Originally posted by: Aeryn

@ Kools - to me mihika is a hot tempered girl who likes everything to go on her terms alone. My way or the highway type of girl.

I didn't like the way she blasted mihir tonight. It was not the time and place to bring in their personal grudge. Mihir was concerned for his bhabhi and only wanted to reassure her, what is wrong in that?

We don't know exactly what is the story of Raman and mihir which will explain why Raman holds so much importance for mihir ... But whatever it is, if he chose his bhai over his lover that is HIS choice to make and as far as I have seen he lived with his decision and didn't try to impose himself on mihika, he is moving on... Despite her big talks the same can't be said about mihika. After mihir made his choice, both of them put their relationship to an end. Mihika said she didn't want a guy who is his bhai's puppet, fair enough but she is hardly living to her own words. Mihika is the one clinging onto mihir - sometimes she tries to make him jealous by hanging out with romi, then acts childish and downright cheap by making the poor Trisha ill by food poisoning her and when she feels like it she goes on putting blame on him when the matter at hand doesn't even concern either of them!

Mihika is also a pendulum as far as her attitude towards Raman is - sometimes she is on jiju jiju jap and other times she treats him like the lowest human being on earth 😕

Tonight all the Iyers were all bent on putting blame on Raman. In a way I can understand as they were only seeing ishu's pain but then I would have like one of them to see the issue at a larger scale.

I would have liked for mr Iyers (the most reasonable one) to put a stop to the lets hate Raman mantra by pointing out that Raman didn't throw ishu out and to understand that he is in a very delicate position, that of course he understands ishu's plight but she shouldn't have barged in with not a single proof. One of them should have made the rest understand that as much they trust their ishu, the bhalla have the same trust towards parmeet as he has played the dutiful, sweet, loving husband and son in law for years!!! It is Ishita's naivety that she thought her word would be enough... When there is no solid proof, she can't expect anyone of them to sever their ties with him...

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

actually it does not work that way , family members think from all angles coz its a marraige

Mr Iyer and Mrs Iyer will want to know Raman's opinion , his sister's husband has been accused .

and exactly what is doormat and spineless , listening to Mihika is growing a spine ?

so then why is she fretting for doormat ? She should find someone better .😆

You did not get me .

Originally posted by: krikumar.91

No... Mihika is a very nice sister... Her love for Ishu makes her stand against Raman... Till yesterday, many here also thought that Raman is being unfair...

From their POV, Raman did nothing... As a viewer, we know Raman trusts her but from her place, she's right. Ishu is hurt... Whatever she said is right about Raman.

Ishita left but Raman could have stopped her. Their disappointment is right from their position.

Regarding Mihir, she didn't scold him for Ishu... It is that anger which she has been accumulating all these days which is also reasonable... Whatever is happening with her is not right...

Mihir couldn't stand up for her... I would say he deserves it, but not for yesterday's incidents... She's not egoistic... She never asked him to choose over Raman... All that she expects is to stand up before Raman to speak his heart out... It is not wrong... She is quite direct in her approach... Doesn't use sugar coated words to coax anyone... She calls spade a spade...

I like this girl... Regarding MMS fiasco, she is a girl whose name has been defamed. Each and every evidence pointed towards Mihir. But, she believed in him later and thought of giving a chance when Mihir spoilt it on his own.

Bang on. Agree on each point of yours dear.

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Where family threw her out

only Mrs Bhalla was saying , did it actually come to that

no

house is on Mr Bhalla's name , one should have waited na to see what he says and Raman says

before that MRS iYER jumped in and Ishita also went away

before telling family did she tell Raman ...NO

before going did she ask Raman if that was what he wanted ...NO , again decisions were made without his opinion

so WHY make him the punching bag and call him besharam

why call innocent Mihir besharam

is this sister loyalty

whatt was she gonna do btw

all she could do was go there have some words and come back

why was she using this situation to air her pent up ego issues that Mihir does not boot lick her bossiness but values Raman more

We know that Raman will trust Ishita if she had told him before. But, did Raman show any sign that he will believe her blindly? When she was helping Simmi, her character was even pointed by Raman. When she always makes Ruhi understand that her father loves her a lot, even he heard this more than one time, still Raman keeps her scolding that she is instigating Ruhi. So, how will she believe that Raman will believe her this time also? She had expectation that after she reveals everything at least Mr. Bhalla will believe her.
So, no one is making Raman the punching bag. It's his actions many times..which had led to this assumption in Mihika or Bala's mind.